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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am trying to gather some information about maso women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe go to a local munch? Or a fetish night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you like to know buddy

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By *evils-couple13Couple
over a year ago

Neath

What do you want to know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just peoples experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just peoples experience "

Painful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But from people who enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But from people who enjoy it "

Surely enjoying pain is still painful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But the pain is what turns a mascoaist on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yourself down to a 'munch'

There should be some organised local to you.

Not sure if you are a member of other sites but there are some UK ones that have great folks as members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not so much the pain, when it comes, it's the knowing (or not knowing) when it's coming.

The anticipation is frightening and also exhilarating, which is more of a turn on than the actual pain itself.

Also, knowing that he is turned on by me wanting it, that he cares deeply for me and isn't just a sadistic prick who likes hurting people, turns me on too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not so much the pain, when it comes, it's the knowing (or not knowing) when it's coming.

The anticipation is frightening and also exhilarating, which is more of a turn on than the actual pain itself.

Also, knowing that he is turned on by me wanting it, that he cares deeply for me and isn't just a sadistic prick who likes hurting people, turns me on too."

By the time we get to the painful part I'm already fit to burst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But from people who enjoy it

Surely enjoying pain is still painful?"

No, that’s incorrect. Pain and pleasure are very closely linked and to do with the endorphins released when experiencing pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But from people who enjoy it

Surely enjoying pain is still painful?

No, that’s incorrect. Pain and pleasure are very closely linked and to do with the endorphins released when experiencing pain. "

I enjoy pain (to a degree, I have a very low pain threshold) but to me...it’s still pain. I just happen to enjoy it, and the situation I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pain for a masochist isn’t pain it’s actually pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pain for a masochist isn’t pain it’s actually pleasure "

I’m not really a masochist though, I just happen to enjoy some amounts of pain, and find it pleasurable...I’m allowed to find some pain pleasurable you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely that’s the whole point about it

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I like the dichotomy between sharp pain and the softest kisses.

Don’t think I’m a masochist just a sensation seeker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s also good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs likes to be slapped about a bit, she loves it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the pain is what turns a mascoaist on "

Not necessarily, in my own experience it depends on who your play partner is and why you are playing. For me communication, expectations, limits and goals are essential for all parties before play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course you have to have a limit and communication is key

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Are you talking swinging slap and tickle = pain? Or Bdsm pain?

As bdsm is not about pain. . There may be deemed to be painful actions taking place, but for the most it's not about the pain. Power exchange, control, pushing boundries ect. I've been a sub for 4 years. Never had "pain" during a sceane. And my ass has ended up so black and blue you'd think I's need a&e. It's not a pain thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve read the thread....I’m lost and confused and I’m not google searching this. Google already thinks I’m a pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you talking swinging slap and tickle = pain? Or Bdsm pain?

As bdsm is not about pain. . There may be deemed to be painful actions taking place, but for the most it's not about the pain. Power exchange, control, pushing boundries ect. I've been a sub for 4 years. Never had "pain" during a sceane. And my ass has ended up so black and blue you'd think I's need a&e. It's not a pain thing. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never said it was a pain thing all I said was do women enjoy pain with pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never said it was a pain thing all I said was do women enjoy pain with pleasure "

That would be a no from me personally

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