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By *obert Richards OP Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Sharing your wife with other guys is very kind of you.

Hotwife scenario is also a great way to share your wife with others.

What do you expect to clean as a cuck and how much humiliation is ok?

Asking as I'm going on a cuckold meet soon and want the husband to feel comfortable as I take his wife.

We are planning on filming the meet and he wants to clean up afterwards

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

It’s impossible for anyone else to answer this. You need to talk to the couple involved as what works for our couple isn’t going to be the same for the next.

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By *obert Richards OP Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Yes true but it would be good to get some ideas so I don't over step the mark and make it an uncomfortable experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes true but it would be good to get some ideas so I don't over step the mark and make it an uncomfortable experience x"

Ask them what they are comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you use the term take his wife...he maybe allowing his wife to have some pleasure using you as her sex toy and he watches or joins in to make sure she has maximum pleasure..not all mfm which is technically cuckold but in fab terms can classified as not a cuckold...

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Yes true but it would be good to get some ideas so I don't over step the mark and make it an uncomfortable experience x"

But you can’t know what is overstepping the mark for an individual couple without asking them. It’s not a one size fits all type of thing. Everyone has their own boundaries and expectations - particularly when it comes to whether a couple are looking for respect or humiliation for the male.

I could tell you what we want. But that doesn’t mean it’s the same as that couple!

They key to it being successful is excellent communication!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you use the term take his wife...he maybe allowing his wife to have some pleasure using you as her sex toy and he watches or joins in to make sure she has maximum pleasure..not all mfm which is technically cuckold but in fab terms can classified as not a cuckold..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that as he said it's a cuckold meet that's what the couple have asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that as he said it's a cuckold meet that's what the couple have asked for. "

One of the reasons we only meet at clubs so can all relax and socialise prior ensure all know what we want and will or wont do..find a club meet so much easier to discuss this openly can be a bit tricky in a bar or private home room etc...

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

You really need to have a good, open chat with them in advance as its sounds like you all have little experience and are all too nervous to take the lead.

You have three people to please and be comfortable to make it a good experience- guesswork and polite embarrasement isn't the answer- if you're going to get naked and bump uglies togheter, you should all be able to be grown up enough to get a rough plan of action before kick off

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By *obert Richards OP Man
over a year ago

Surrey

"You really need to have a good, open chat with them in advance as its sounds like you all have little experience and are all too nervous to take the lead.

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By *arried Bi KinksterMan
over a year ago

North West

"You really need to have a good, open chat with them in advance as its sounds like you all have little experience and are all too nervous to take the lead.

Sound advice, don’t be naive enough to think it’s all about what you want and the lady in question... Long chat over a few weeks in the build up, establish rules, boundaries likes/dislikes etc.

Then take things slow

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By *uck01Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Cuckold play can take many levels, as others have said what's good for the goose isn't necessarily good for the gander.

Again as others have said communication with the couple beforehand is very important, what is acceptable and what isn't is key to a successful meet where both M&F couple and the bull enjoy the experience.

It really is horses for courses and boundries need to be understood by all.

Hope the meet goes well

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I would add to the advice given so far by saying talk to the hubby too in advance of the meet. So many forget he is part of this and his enjoyment needs to be catered for too.

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By *erby couple200Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Cuckolding doesn't always involve humiliation of the husband.

It should be fun for all people taking part.

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