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"Is your dictionary broken?" Lol it's interpreted in different ways. I see some women like to be called a slut and a whore, but slag is big no, no for many. | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps." Metal too | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? " That's a fackin liberty, you slag! | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? " Not heard that one | |||
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"stony waste matter separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ore. Or a derogatory term given to a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, so a threat to those who are not...in other words- juvenile...not the dictionary definition, but a woman fed up of this pathetic word being bandied about x "  | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! " Language please. | |||
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"stony waste matter separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ore. Or a derogatory term given to a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, so a threat to those who are not...in other words- juvenile...not the dictionary definition, but a woman fed up of this pathetic word being bandied about x " Nicely put | |||
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"Someone who won't meet some butthurt men  " | |||
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"? " There is no such thing but there plenty idiots about if I thought you were referring to my wife in such a way ............ | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! Language please." What do you say in the valleys? Hiya butt, you slut? (and hello my beautiful one  ) | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33]" when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! Language please. What do you say in the valleys? Hiya butt, you slut? (and hello my beautiful one ) ""Hello there. You open minded and liberated person, you".... I may be making that up 
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38]" See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " maybe because it's usually said in a derogatory manner? Or taken that way? | |||
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"My see also was supposed to be referring to that. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " Because it's used as a term of abuse to imply we're tainted or of lesser worth. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " Because it's us that get called it and always in a derogatory way .....  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " Really? It came up on every google search I put in. It’s the connotation of the word that offends, it’s not really that difficult to grasp why. It’s like when men would be offended by being called a “puff” (apologies for the use of the word) because it was to negate their masculinity. Slag is used to make out a woman is morally less than another woman- ergo, offends x | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:05:28]" I had to remove my last mesages because I read it wrong and thought it was another Welsh sheep joke lol | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. " But women like to be called sluts and whores sometimes. What's the difference | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! Language please. What do you say in the valleys? Hiya butt, you slut? (and hello my beautiful one )
"Hello there. You open minded and liberated person, you".... I may be making that up
"I'm as closed and waterproof as a swan's vagazzle.... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? maybe because it's usually said in a derogatory manner? Or taken that way? " Hmmm yes good point there But I have no idea why | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. But women like to be called sluts and whores sometimes. What's the difference " You generalise ever so well OP.. | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps." Love a good geology fact | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? " Because it's a derogatory term used to describe women. It's never used in a nice way. Surely you've heard it used in such way? You can't be surprised to learn that women are offended by it? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? maybe because it's usually said in a derogatory manner? Or taken that way? Hmmm yes good point there But I have no idea why "Really?? I think your fibbing there | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! Language please. What do you say in the valleys? Hiya butt, you slut? (and hello my beautiful one )
"Hello there. You open minded and liberated person, you".... I may be making that up
I'm as closed and waterproof as a swan's vagazzle.... "Yes, but you're from South England | |||
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"Is it something cockneys give beer to, so they don't eat their strawberries? " Haha | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. " Ah, you've met my ex | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. But women like to be called sluts and whores sometimes. What's the difference " It’s choice!! That’s all there is to know. Slut and whore have kind of become owned by women themselves now, think alt/bdsm etc, whereas slag is a word that remains derogatory. Women don’t have to accept it, just because they accept other words x | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. " Slut and whore is not said in a kind way either.. But a dirty way | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? maybe because it's usually said in a derogatory manner? Or taken that way? Hmmm yes good point there But I have no idea why Really?? I think your fibbing there"Think about it | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. " I'm gonna be a cunt now and challenge you..... ....don't we need bad words though, for descriptive purposes? What if the word bad didn't exist for example, how difficult would life be? I think we need words, even if they're bad, but choose and use them wisely .... | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps." What he said | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. But women like to be called sluts and whores sometimes. What's the difference " Not all women. It's more of a role play scenario for some and they are reclaiming the word for themselves as a form of empowerment. Slag is just a dirty word. | |||
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 and mean it in the nicest possible way | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. I'm gonna be a cunt now and challenge you..... ....don't we need bad words though, for descriptive purposes? What if the word bad didn't exist for example, how difficult would life be? I think we need words, even if they're bad, but choose and use them wisely .... "Yes that's true. But it doesn't mean that those who are called these by others are not allowed to like it. The heart at the end, to soften the blow, did tickle me a little | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. I'm gonna be a cunt now and challenge you..... ....don't we need bad words though, for descriptive purposes? What if the word bad didn't exist for example, how difficult would life be? I think we need words, even if they're bad, but choose and use them wisely ....
Yes that's true. But it doesn't mean that those who are called these by others are not allowed to like it. The heart at the end, to soften the blow, did tickle me a little "Are not allowed to not like it* haha | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? Because it is bandied around to make someone feel like they are are a dirty person. It's never said in a kind way. Always in order to try and make that person feel shame for their actions. I'm gonna be a cunt now and challenge you..... ....don't we need bad words though, for descriptive purposes? What if the word bad didn't exist for example, how difficult would life be? I think we need words, even if they're bad, but choose and use them wisely ....
Yes that's true. But it doesn't mean that those who are called these by others are not allowed to like it. The heart at the end, to soften the blow, did tickle me a little "The heart is because I love you, obv! And yeah, I agree with you too | |||
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Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. "It's very easy to not be offended by a word that's never been hurled at you as abuse. And I'm a woman, thank you. | |||
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"? " well it dates back to the mining days a massive pile of coal was called a ' slag heap'  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:02:33] when I Googled the word, I had to look long and hard to find a connection with women. So how come so many women get offended by the word? maybe because it's usually said in a derogatory manner? Or taken that way? " What?!? You've never heard "I'm taking this slag straight home to meet the folks"? Or "It's Pauline my other half the slag"? And other such classics as...here lies Mavis loving wife, mother and slag. Nope me either, odd that. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x" oi that's my line | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. "I cannot believe you are only 28 with the views you have how can you reefer anybody as a slag in this day and age. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! xoi that's my line " It’s a fantastic line!! Forgive me...pretty please  haha xx | |||
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"op try walking up to a woman and say hi slag and see what reaction you get" | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. "No offence taken, just explaining to the OP who seems somewhat naively surprised that women are offended to be called something that is usually meant as an insult. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out but it seems that some are playing deliberately dumb.  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/03/19 21:01:38] See also slut, whore, worthless, fat, ugly, hideous, time waster, fake. But women like to be called sluts and whores sometimes. What's the difference " The big difference is some not all. | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? Not heard that one " You need to listen to Danny dyer more often lol. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x" It's just something completely different on the Internet. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. "I’m not offended, the OP asked a question, he was given answers. Don’t think anyone has actually been offended tbh, simply given reasons x | |||
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"I had a mesage.. I feel some of the ladies here are taking this as me having a direct go at them. This isn't the case. I don't mean to offend anyone. " You can call me a slag if you want to. I've been called worse by better men | |||
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I've never used it and don't intend to. It's very demeaning and I don't address anyone that way..even if I don't like them or I disapprove of what they do. | |||
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"Back when I was a teenager it was what the boys called the girls who they wanted a blow job off of. " I bet you where the most popular lass in your year | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. " 38 yrs old and you go by what the internet tells you ...have you no life experience???? | |||
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"I had a mesage.. I feel some of the ladies here are taking this as me having a direct go at them. This isn't the case. I don't mean to offend anyone. " No one is taking offence. We're taken aback by your naivety. That's all. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
No offence taken, just explaining to the OP who seems somewhat naively surprised that women are offended to be called something that is usually meant as an insult. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out but it seems that some are playing deliberately dumb. "If you knew me in personaly in reality, you wouldn't think that. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. " You surely have been to school and had male friends growing up? Surely you can't be this naive? | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. " Google is useful, but as a source of knowledge it's rather flawed. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
It's very easy to not be offended by a word that's never been hurled at you as abuse.
And I'm a woman, thank you. "I hadn’t meant that you had no reason to take offence when it’s aimed at you. Though there’s no reason to take offence whilst discussing it. Surely if you personally don’t deem yourself to be one, why allow it to pierce you? I’m against all name calling, I’m a ginger: my black friend once told me that he’d hate to be a ginger, due to the abuse. Which is funny to look back upon. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
No offence taken, just explaining to the OP who seems somewhat naively surprised that women are offended to be called something that is usually meant as an insult. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out but it seems that some are playing deliberately dumb.
If you knew me in personaly in reality, you wouldn't think that. "I can only respond to comments you've made here. On this thread. The evidence is there in black and white. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
It's very easy to not be offended by a word that's never been hurled at you as abuse.
And I'm a woman, thank you.
I hadn’t meant that you had no reason to take offence when it’s aimed at you. Though there’s no reason to take offence whilst discussing it. Surely if you personally don’t deem yourself to be one, why allow it to pierce you?
I’m against all name calling, I’m a ginger: my black friend once told me that he’d hate to be a ginger, due to the abuse. Which is funny to look back upon. "I see people answering the OP's question, rather than taking offence | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. You surely have been to school and had male friends growing up? Surely you can't be this naive? "You don't know my culture. I left school when I was 11 years old. I do know slag is a bad thing to call a woman.. But no need for you all the be having a go at me, just because I'm not good with words and i explain myself badly. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
No offence taken, just explaining to the OP who seems somewhat naively surprised that women are offended to be called something that is usually meant as an insult. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out but it seems that some are playing deliberately dumb.
If you knew me in personaly in reality, you wouldn't think that. "why would you hang draw and quarter yourself though for me it's a popcorn moment but for you its not good | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
It's very easy to not be offended by a word that's never been hurled at you as abuse.
And I'm a woman, thank you.
I hadn’t meant that you had no reason to take offence when it’s aimed at you. Though there’s no reason to take offence whilst discussing it. Surely if you personally don’t deem yourself to be one, why allow it to pierce you?
I’m against all name calling, I’m a ginger: my black friend once told me that he’d hate to be a ginger, due to the abuse. Which is funny to look back upon. "I'm not sure any of the women are offended by the discussion. They just think that the OP is not as naive as he claims to be. The use of such terms around us also has effects on those it isn't directed at. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. You surely have been to school and had male friends growing up? Surely you can't be this naive?
You don't know my culture. I left school when I was 11 years old.
I do know slag is a bad thing to call a woman.. But no need for you all the be having a go at me, just because I'm not good with words and i explain myself badly.
"Well hopefully now you know. It's an insult. Women don't like to be called it. Happy to help. | |||
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"OP, you’ve been given reasons why women don’t like the word, you directed it to them, they’ve answered- no one is going to believe that you’re that naive you don’t get why. If the explanations women give don’t satisfy you then you will simply have to accept that and leave this where it should be- on the slag heap! x It's just something completely different on the Internet. You surely have been to school and had male friends growing up? Surely you can't be this naive?
You don't know my culture. I left school when I was 11 years old.
I do know slag is a bad thing to call a woman.. But no need for you all the be having a go at me, just because I'm not good with words and i explain myself badly.
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
It's very easy to not be offended by a word that's never been hurled at you as abuse.
And I'm a woman, thank you.
I hadn’t meant that you had no reason to take offence when it’s aimed at you. Though there’s no reason to take offence whilst discussing it. Surely if you personally don’t deem yourself to be one, why allow it to pierce you?
I’m against all name calling, I’m a ginger: my black friend once told me that he’d hate to be a ginger, due to the abuse. Which is funny to look back upon.
I'm not sure any of the women are offended by the discussion. They just think that the OP is not as naive as he claims to be.
The use of such terms around us also has effects on those it isn't directed at. "The term - bottom twink, should thus be directed towards him then | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? That's a fackin liberty, you slag! " You slag your right owt of order.razors cut him. | |||
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"No one is having a go at you. Just taken aback by the nativity your claiming. Your lack of schooling does not mean that you wouldn’t have heard the word. If you left school to be in a male dominated environment, it’s been my experience from growing up around lads, that you’d have heard derogatory terms a lot more than a kid on the school ground. However, that’s generalisation, and maybe you were very sheltered etc. We won’t know. The responses are based on this post, not on you personally, that’s nothing to do with anyone else. Don’t take it to heart, no one is attacking you. You have answers from women why it’s a word that’s disliked by many, you’ve achieved your intention of the post x" is it a nativity play now ? | |||
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"No one is having a go at you. Just taken aback by the nativity your claiming. Your lack of schooling does not mean that you wouldn’t have heard the word. If you left school to be in a male dominated environment, it’s been my experience from growing up around lads, that you’d have heard derogatory terms a lot more than a kid on the school ground. However, that’s generalisation, and maybe you were very sheltered etc. We won’t know. The responses are based on this post, not on you personally, that’s nothing to do with anyone else. Don’t take it to heart, no one is attacking you. You have answers from women why it’s a word that’s disliked by many, you’ve achieved your intention of the post xis it a nativity play now ?" Haha!! Bloody prediction text! Such a more at times xx | |||
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"No one is having a go at you. Just taken aback by the nativity your claiming. Your lack of schooling does not mean that you wouldn’t have heard the word. If you left school to be in a male dominated environment, it’s been my experience from growing up around lads, that you’d have heard derogatory terms a lot more than a kid on the school ground. However, that’s generalisation, and maybe you were very sheltered etc. We won’t know. The responses are based on this post, not on you personally, that’s nothing to do with anyone else. Don’t take it to heart, no one is attacking you. You have answers from women why it’s a word that’s disliked by many, you’ve achieved your intention of the post xis it a nativity play now ? Haha!! Bloody prediction text! Such a more at times xx"Such a more? Your predictive text hates you tonight | |||
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"No one is having a go at you. Just taken aback by the nativity your claiming. Your lack of schooling does not mean that you wouldn’t have heard the word. If you left school to be in a male dominated environment, it’s been my experience from growing up around lads, that you’d have heard derogatory terms a lot more than a kid on the school ground. However, that’s generalisation, and maybe you were very sheltered etc. We won’t know. The responses are based on this post, not on you personally, that’s nothing to do with anyone else. Don’t take it to heart, no one is attacking you. You have answers from women why it’s a word that’s disliked by many, you’ve achieved your intention of the post xis it a nativity play now ? Haha!! Bloody prediction text! Such a more at times xx
Such a more? Your predictive text hates you tonight "Haha, afraid I did that deliberately- couldn’t resist. It’s the minx in me xx | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’. "How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them. | |||
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"I have to ask this.. In what way am I being Naive? " asking the question oh and not knowing it's offensive and furthering the argument by questioning the criticism | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? " Isn't that slaaaaaaaaaaag ? | |||
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"No one is having a go at you. Just taken aback by the nativity your claiming. Your lack of schooling does not mean that you wouldn’t have heard the word. If you left school to be in a male dominated environment, it’s been my experience from growing up around lads, that you’d have heard derogatory terms a lot more than a kid on the school ground. However, that’s generalisation, and maybe you were very sheltered etc. We won’t know. The responses are based on this post, not on you personally, that’s nothing to do with anyone else. Don’t take it to heart, no one is attacking you. You have answers from women why it’s a word that’s disliked by many, you’ve achieved your intention of the post xis it a nativity play now ? Haha!! Bloody prediction text! Such a more at times xx
Such a more? Your predictive text hates you tonight
Haha, afraid I did that deliberately- couldn’t resist. It’s the minx in me xx"You got me | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them. "Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities. Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally) I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person. | |||
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"I looked it up in the dictionary and there was a photo of you next to it "Did they get me from a good angle? | |||
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"Back when I was a teenager it was what the boys called the girls who they wanted a blow job off of. I bet you where the most popular lass in your year "All the boys wanted me but I intimidated them, because I was more intelligent than them all | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
"The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no | |||
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"Like a cockney gangsters enemy? Isn't that slaaaaaaaaaaag ? " | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no "So women who refuse to have sex with men are slags HAHA | |||
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"It's usually a word used by a man to describe a woman who dares to enjoy sex with men who aren't him "Good description | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no
So women who refuse to have sex with men are slags HAHA"#clickbait? | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no
So women who refuse to have sex with men are slags HAHA"Shat ittt, yewww slaaaagggggg...! | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no "To be fair, not judging upon any logical reasonings for the word. The majority of men (that also suffer with the same insecurity) use it, for the exact reasons meantioned in the comment below lol. | |||
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"I think that all the females are being overtly offended. It is generally one, (usually a female) that will sleep with anyone, regardless of attraction,age,gender(or even desiring them). I’m sure that those taking offence here, make a decision based upon attraction (personality of course also )
Thus, the word does not apply. So, generally a lack of being able to simply say ‘no’.
How peculiar. Doing all those things can have many reasons. Being a 'slag' isnt one of them.
Insecurity, childhood abuse, lack of a sense of worth, depression, need for risk.... there are of course a great many reasons for why someone would partake in such activities.
Though, due to the lack of reason for why someone would engage in such rash sexual escapades: they tend to be termed as a ‘slag’. (Not judging personally)
I generally dislike the word as much as most women do. I personally don’t look down upon anyone. Though, I’m aware such generalisations certainly do not help with whatever is going on within a person.
The ironic thing is, given your first comment, is that I've only ever been called a slag is when I HAVE said no
So women who refuse to have sex with men are slags HAHA"I know. I just found it funny when he said that | |||
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Think the plot was lost when posting the thread "Well this is Hotel California | |||
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"It's usually a word used by a man to describe a woman who dares to enjoy sex with men who aren't him " | |||
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"I have to ask this.. In what way am I being Naive? asking the question oh and not knowing it's offensive and furthering the argument by questioning the criticism It's just a question though.. I wanted people to give their definition and I do know it's offensive. " My definition is a person, man or woman, who fucks around. I just see it as a word and not an insult. Like Queer was reclaimed as a positive word. I reclaimed 'slag' as just a descriptive word. | |||
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"stony waste matter separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ore. Or a derogatory term given to a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, so a threat to those who are not...in other words- juvenile...not the dictionary definition, but a woman fed up of this pathetic word being bandied about x " | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps." This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps. This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. " were you ever top of the heap | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps. This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. were you ever top of the heap" Numerous times, we used to scramble our dirt bikes over them | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps. This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. were you ever top of the heap Numerous times, we used to scramble our dirt bikes over them " they were big heaps you must have been filthy | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps. This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. were you ever top of the heap Numerous times, we used to scramble our dirt bikes over them they were big heaps you must have been filthy" Yeah, used to have a swim in the canal on the way home to clean off | |||
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"Usually it's the waste rock from coal and ore mining. Hope that helps. This. I'm originally from a mining town. I could see the slag heaps from my bedroom window. 40yrs on they're all green & pretty. I'm pretty cool with being called most names, but slag is not one of them. were you ever top of the heap Numerous times, we used to scramble our dirt bikes over them they were big heaps you must have been filthy Yeah, used to have a swim in the canal on the way home to clean off "omg your mum must have loved it | |||
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"It's usually a word used by a man to describe a woman who dares to enjoy sex with men who aren't him
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"I have to ask this.. In what way am I being Naive? asking the question oh and not knowing it's offensive and furthering the argument by questioning the criticism It's just a question though.. I wanted people to give their definition and I do know it's offensive. My definition is a person, man or woman, who fucks around. I just see it as a word and not an insult. Like Queer was reclaimed as a positive word. I reclaimed 'slag' as just a descriptive word. " So I'm a wanna be slag | |||
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