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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure its been done before, but just curious what others opinions generally are when there's kids in the house sleeping.

Im not comfortable about it personally, but when i get outrageously horny im close to caving in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not under any circumstances for us

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

was a huge thread about this a couple of weeks ago

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Never been a mum so cannot comprehend how you must feel, But personally no I wouldn't feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer on this honestly.. I dont meet with my kids in the house if they were awake.. but after 9pm when I know they are all asleep then yes I do.

I see it as no different to having sex with my partner.

I have a lock on my door.. but I also know my kids WONT wake up.. but you have to decide if its okay for you..and always let people know..

I only meet single guys or occassional regular guys for mfm in the evenings.. any couples I would go to them.. or women... and group stuff I have in the day or go to a club.

Cali

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you read this it might stop world war free breaking out again

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/84810

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

As i said before, once out of the cot i wouldnt be able to relax...so its a no for us.

You know your kids best , i dont ,i wouldnt take someones word that they wouldnt wake up...but thats my choice. To often these threads turn into mudslinging about good and bad parenting...tbh there are far worse things that can happen to kids than find mummy shagging someone.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If you read this it might stop world war free breaking out again

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/84810"

naw its too late...tin hats everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah sorry ive just seen the thread, was in a different section of the forum hense why id not seen it

If admin would kindly close this it would be great xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"yeah sorry ive just seen the thread, was in a different section of the forum hense why id not seen it

If admin would kindly close this it would be great xx"

dont apologise...the thread proves that its an issue ppl think about...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well, in that case i shall answer one and not come back to the thread. I never wanted to or needed to put my sex life abovr the 100% knowledge that my child is safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally would not but it is each to there own in our eyes xxx chloe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answer on this honestly.. I dont meet with my kids in the house if they were awake.. but after 9pm when I know they are all asleep then yes I do.

I see it as no different to having sex with my partner.

I have a lock on my door.. but I also know my kids WONT wake up.. but you have to decide if its okay for you..and always let people know..

I only meet single guys or occassional regular guys for mfm in the evenings.. any couples I would go to them.. or women... and group stuff I have in the day or go to a club.

Cali "

how can u know they wont wake up?? thats BS

kids will pick up on whats going on regardless of what you`d like to think. we have all been kids so we should know better

its diff to having sex with ur partner because its not ur partner and from all ur posts its multiples no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might as well share this little gem....

An old friend of mine told me of a time he was in Canada on exercise with the army when they hit the local town on a night out.

After a lot of drinking he got hitched up with a local 'lady' who took him home. After some d*unken fumbling on the broken old sofa in a house he described as 'barely fit for humans' she dragged him into a small bedroom. While he stood to one side gently swaying with the alcohol his hot date woke up the small child in the bed and took them into the main room and told them to go to sleep on the sofa. Then she came back to the bedroom, closed the door and pounced on him.

I'd like to say he resisted her charms, made his excuses and left. But.... He was young, d*unk and thinking with his genitals.....

I took the p*ss out of him for ages after he told me that. Sick, sick man. And yes, he's very ashamed of himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answer on this honestly.. I dont meet with my kids in the house if they were awake.. but after 9pm when I know they are all asleep then yes I do.

I see it as no different to having sex with my partner.

I have a lock on my door.. but I also know my kids WONT wake up.. but you have to decide if its okay for you..and always let people know..

I only meet single guys or occassional regular guys for mfm in the evenings.. any couples I would go to them.. or women... and group stuff I have in the day or go to a club.

Cali

how can u know they wont wake up?? thats BS

kids will pick up on whats going on regardless of what you`d like to think. we have all been kids so we should know better

its diff to having sex with ur partner because its not ur partner and from all ur posts its multiples no doubt "

because Cali's children are on meds to help them sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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how can u know they wont wake up?? thats BS

kids will pick up on whats going on regardless of what you`d like to think. we have all been kids so we should know better

its diff to having sex with ur partner because its not ur partner and from all ur posts its multiples no doubt "

been doing this for many many years.. and trust me I know they know nothing..

and if you even read my post you would see that I stick to clubs for multiples apart from on the odd occassion when its two regulars ( who are also friends)

Its no different.. even social services can not fault me.. been there been reported by a "friend"..

and yes.. my kids really wont wake up as they are on pescribed medication as they have sleep disorders which means without the medication they would actually not sleep till gone midnight...

So by 8pm.. they are safely away in the land of nod.. and trust me.. even when I need to wake them its hard..( like when a neighbours house was on fire) and we live ina terraced house)

And yes I have been a kid.. knew my parents had an active sex life.. even once found by accident a video.. kids know parents have sex... but you just make sure they dont see it

So I say again.. locks.. common sense... I meet about 3-4 times a week in the evenings some weeks... add to that Master and I's times together... and really seriously never have a problem.. ONCE many years ago I had a knock at my door before play started.. and it was a regular..

Even to this day my son still does not know it was not my partner.

But also remember I dont have meets that last hours... hour maybe two at the very very most... but more often than not 15-30mins

I am happy that I have very content, happy children.. and that partly comes from having a very happy and content mother..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We personally would not but it is each to there own in our eyes xxx chloe"

We are the same as you its not something we would do but we would do thigs that others wouldn't so each to their own.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"We personally would not but it is each to there own in our eyes xxx chloe

We are the same as you its not something we would do but we would do thigs that others wouldn't so each to their own."

my reasons are after all quite selfish...if i cant relax it isnt going to be a good shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We personally would not but it is each to there own in our eyes xxx chloe

We are the same as you its not something we would do but we would do thigs that others wouldn't so each to their own.

my reasons are after all quite selfish...if i cant relax it isnt going to be a good shag "

Thats pretty much the same for me.

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

a defo no from me....

i've had the misfortune to be on a meet and the cpls child walked in after supposedly being fast asleep...

the worst part was hearing the child ask

"whats that mister doing in your bed!!" as he was being escorted back to their bedroom....

put me right off my stroke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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my reasons are after all quite selfish...if i cant relax it isnt going to be a good shag "

I find it harder to relax if we get a little rougher when playing together.. now I know that I can be loud.. but I am considerate to my neighbours lol but I struggle not to squeel at other times lol

I relaxed is a big thing.. thats why I have multiples either at a club or during the day.. and wouldnt have a couple here.. or a woman unless I had a child free night..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a defo no from me....

i've had the misfortune to be on a meet and the cpls child walked in after supposedly being fast asleep...

the worst part was hearing the child ask

"whats that mister doing in your bed!!" as he was being escorted back to their bedroom....

put me right off my stroke

"

see I will agree that is terrible.. I paid about £5 for the lock for my bedroom door... its a thumb switch on the inside... and just prevents the risk of that..

Even I admit that would be something I would never wish my kids to see.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure its been done before, but just curious what others opinions generally are when there's kids in the house sleeping."

We would never play in the vicinity of children, whether ours or anyone elses, and whatever age they might be. Apart from the risk of the kids seeing or hearing something they shouldn't, it just doesn't fit with our idea of an erotic encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel being a single mum for nearly 14 years with two children. But I have two golden house rules. My children will never wake up to strangers in my bed and they will never have loads of "uncles" in and out their lives either. Yes it can be very lonely but my girls come first before my needs. If your feeling horny I suggest you invest in a goody draw and not talking chocolate lol. Numbs my cravings until I can get the real thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know how you feel being a single mum for nearly 14 years with two children. But I have two golden house rules. My children will never wake up to strangers in my bed and they will never have loads of "uncles" in and out their lives either. Yes it can be very lonely but my girls come first before my needs. If your feeling horny I suggest you invest in a goody draw and not talking chocolate lol. Numbs my cravings until I can get the real thing."

Thats kinda the problem, im not satisfied with just toys, i know how to get myself off. I miss the human contact and involvement of foreplay etc

Id never have a first meet here and only invite guys who i'd met previously around. Ive never let a guy round for even a social before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know how you feel being a single mum for nearly 14 years with two children. But I have two golden house rules. My children will never wake up to strangers in my bed and they will never have loads of "uncles" in and out their lives either. Yes it can be very lonely but my girls come first before my needs. If your feeling horny I suggest you invest in a goody draw and not talking chocolate lol. Numbs my cravings until I can get the real thing.

Thats kinda the problem, im not satisfied with just toys, i know how to get myself off. I miss the human contact and involvement of foreplay etc

Id never have a first meet here and only invite guys who i'd met previously around. Ive never let a guy round for even a social before. "

I get that totally. When does little one start play group, nursery. It does get easier when they get older I arrange meets for when they are at school when I get the occasional itch. Otherwise I get one night off a month when my girls stay at nannies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I get that totally. When does little one start play group, nursery. It does get easier when they get older I arrange meets for when they are at school when I get the occasional itch. Otherwise I get one night off a month when my girls stay at nannies."

She doesnt start for a year as the place is fully booked til then. I can relate to the one night a month off thing

Ive never been happy to play on a first meet so it just takes a lot of time for me to get some kind of action. And some months id rather go out with my friends than meet from here. Im not horny 24-7 and some days im completely 'off' sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would never invite anyone round to my house to play while my kids was in, no matter what their age or wether they was asleep, you have more to worry about than if they wake up if you have people off the internet in your home!

And in return i would never play in someone elses house with children in, i have twice now been to homes with kids in and walked out on both occasions

I show other peoples children the same respect i show my own

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

never meet with my daughter at home and know that i would not feel comfortable knowing that she was asleep in another room......... there is a time and placee for that when no kids in house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in a flat and bedrooms are close together all on one level so would not feel comfortable and when I play I like to relax and let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute don't apologise for starting this thread - many threads are duplicated, you want to ask this question now and are not obliged to go and search for previous threads.

I personally wouldn't have sex with strangers in my family home and I wouldn't be comfortable in playing in someone elses home if the kids were in bed.

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

No no no no no no, did I mention NO.

There is no way as a single guy I would do anything with either my little girl or anyone's child in the house.

Sex in a loving relationship is fine when the kids are about. However, there is no way I would ever subject my little girl to the chance of waking up to find a stranger in her fathers bed up to whatever.

So sorry folks that a big No from me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would hate it and if there was children in the house I would leave. Not a prude but there's a time and a place for this and not when the kids are at home. Making live as a couple is one thing swinging and inviting strangers int your home is another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would not go to a house to play if we knew there would be children there, and we never accomodate for the same reason.

To us, as well as us feeling it is wrong to be playing with others when children are around, we also feel that it risks putting the children needlesly in danger.

Obviously we all HOPE that the people we meet off these sites are ok, but to be honest you can never KNOW! i for one could never live with myself if i had caused my children to be in danger by inviting a stranger to their home whilst they were asleep in their beds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it should be a no as you really don't know someone's background here never mind if they have convictions or not. Its not worth the risk I would say no matter how small.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i was once at a guys house, we'd had a bit of fun and i had nipped to the loo (didnt bother to get dressed as it was just accross the hall)

as i am sat ther the door starts to open and in walks a 0 year old boy, half asleep - fecking good job i was sat on the loo as i near enough shit meself

in my calmest voice i could manage i tald him to go back to his room and ran back into the bedroom to tell his dad we'd been 'found out'

funny thing is he didnt seem too bothered about it, reckoned he was just sleep walking, went to check on him and that was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was once at a guys house, we'd had a bit of fun and i had nipped to the loo (didnt bother to get dressed as it was just accross the hall)

as i am sat ther the door starts to open and in walks a 0 year old boy, half asleep - fecking good job i was sat on the loo as i near enough shit meself

in my calmest voice i could manage i tald him to go back to his room and ran back into the bedroom to tell his dad we'd been 'found out'

funny thing is he didnt seem too bothered about it, reckoned he was just sleep walking, went to check on him and that was that "

makes you wonder how many naked women that poor child has walked in on in his lifetime.

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