FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous meetings

By *fdf1 OP Man
over a year ago

South Yorks, derby, Notts borders

Who would?

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yup

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd get better luck looking for rocking horse poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I value my safety more than satisfying my Instahorn. Plus I like to get to know people and build up some rapport first. Also, on a practical level it's not possible due to children etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the past

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done.

Rarely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I have done. The best I managed many years go was 40 minutes from from message to bed and that included finding a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to.. not so much anymore. Not saying it wouldn't happen, but it's not what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i'm the slowest meeter in the world.. practically know your life story before we meet.

Actually i'm not that bad, just prefer to build a rapport with someone if i'm planning on shagging them..

and it's safer

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Have done......

probs would again......

Need to find someone that tickles my pickle first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if its just for a social brew, be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have done......

probs would again......

Need to find someone that tickles my pickle first

I could tickle tour pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done a spontaneous social before and that worked out okay, not something I’d look to do again though.

Plus I have no idea how I can fit any spontaneity into my life at this current time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me....unless i already knew them well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have just a social tomorrow, but hoping it could become a spontaneous fuck fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had quite a few back in the hey day of not giving two fucks about my safety, I went to all sorts of strangers houses and god knows what, I am thankful that I am still here to be quite honest.

I don’t really recommend it if you want the truth, everyone is old enough to make that decision of course but from my experience and I did meet a couple of borderline nutters along the way and I didn’t tell anyone where I was going ever, it’s something I would think long and hard about.

Danish x

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Have done......

probs would again......

Need to find someone that tickles my pickle first

I could tickle tour pickle

Oh really???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined Fab I had kid in a sweet shop syndrome and did spontaneous things and enjoyed myself without giving any fucks

But one has experience has taught me that I need to value my safety more and rarely meet because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined Fab I had kid in a sweet shop syndrome and did spontaneous things and enjoyed myself without giving any fucks

But one has experience has taught me that I need to value my safety more and rarely meet because of it

Exactly what happened to me!! Had a huge wake up call once and that’s when I decided to stop fucking about on the fly.

Danish x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Have done previously, had some good experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have done previously, had some good experiences"

I've never had the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is within 24 hrs spontaneous or do you mean come right now?

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By *ourneforfunMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Its interesting how many men like instant hook ups, and women like to get to know someone or value their safety.

I like a quick meet every now and then, but do prefer to get to know someone first and have a long friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the best move to make as you never know what nutter you may get, tried that twice and one of the women was totally tonto?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have with guys

Never with women

99.99% were cool

I only thought I might die once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...from a safety standpoint to be fair when they saw me..they realised I wasn't a threat...I'm not exactly Geoff Capes hahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I occasionally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i'm the slowest meeter in the world.. practically know your life story before we meet.

Actually i'm not that bad, just prefer to build a rapport with someone if i'm planning on shagging them..

and it's safer"

Agreed

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It’s the only way we met for over eight years .

We tried the whole get to know someone etc... it was so predictable and dull , so we always went back to spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past and I have to say it wasn’t particularly fulfilling was a total cum and go affair, swear he was in my room for less than 10minutes tops, not even enough time for me to get going.

Having said that, nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done. It was not pleasant. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once in a while "

Really?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once in a while

Really?....

Not for a long time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once in a while

Really?....

Not for a long time though

Wicked lady....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with a total stranger no, unless it was in a club maybe, but I couldn't see myself going to a club alone.

If Someone I already knew phoned me up and said are you free now, then yes. If I was free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not with a total stranger no, unless it was in a club maybe, but I couldn't see myself going to a club alone.

If Someone I already knew phoned me up and said are you free now, then yes. If I was free

How well do you have to know them Autumn?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Used to.. not so much anymore. Not saying it wouldn't happen, but it's not what I'm looking for."

This.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Have done on occasion. I put up a meet now. Ended up meeting a lovely forumite who was in the area and I had been chatting to but hadn't got round to meeting.

May consider again but not really my MO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous meets do not appeal to me at all. I’ve met someone before after only chatting that day and I found it a bit awkward tbh.

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