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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?"

I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?

I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?"

Great answer, do you think that swinging may 'scratch the proverbial itch' so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it has a baring one way or the other population wise swingers cant be that high a percentage to affect it i don't think

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?

I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?"
my ex cheated on me and we were swingers so yes they can. As it was behind my back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think it has a baring one way or the other population wise swingers cant be that high a percentage to affect it i don't think"

So what do you think the percentage of people who have had group or swap encounters is? Assuming you ask the 30-70 age range I think it would be 3-5%, which is huge. Sasha thinks sub 1% but we really don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it has a baring one way or the other population wise swingers cant be that high a percentage to affect it i don't think

So what do you think the percentage of people who have had group or swap encounters is? Assuming you ask the 30-70 age range I think it would be 3-5%, which is huge. Sasha thinks sub 1% but we really don't know."

Its one of those things we will never get to the bottom of

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?

I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?"

I don't think that it eliminates cheating at all, the desire to have sex with someone else is just one of many many reasons why relationships fail and cheating occurs and its usually the last stop on the line.

In my experience swingers in general have stable relationships before swinging, not necessarily as a result of it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't believe that swinging keeps couples together. There's way more to a relationship than sex. It might be possible that some of the more successful swinging couples communicate well but so do successful non swinging couples.

Swinging isn't a magic solution to anything in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think swinging necessarily keeps couples together, but maybe the openness of their lifestyle choice / relationship does in some cases.

Swingers as well as their non-swingy counterparts are capable of cheating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?

I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?"

If you think Swingers don’t cheat then think again it happens. Trust me.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I dont think it has a baring one way or the other population wise swingers cant be that high a percentage to affect it i don't think

So what do you think the percentage of people who have had group or swap encounters is? Assuming you ask the 30-70 age range I think it would be 3-5%, which is huge. Sasha thinks sub 1% but we really don't know.

Its one of those things we will never get to the bottom of"

Front bottom or back bottom? Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?"

I think not everyone is incline to be a swinger.

But it's more logical than poly households.

I wouldn't want to be in that type of open relationship but I know it's a real thing because I had no strings with someone like that.

I wouldn't want this kind of relationship but the "cheating" is emotional attachment.

It's not my thing but I understand "swinging" and "open relationship" while I think "polly" relationships are flawed massively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?"

I would think there are more factors than just swinging. In my experience, swinging couples are just as capable of cheating as their non swinging counterparts. I've had many a message of those who've wanted to meet me behind their partner's backs. Even from those where I've met them as a couple. I sometimes felt bad when I had to block them and the other half had no idea why i'd blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples won't be truly swinging. One partner will be fucking around and the other will be going along with it to try and keep the relationship together.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


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I don't know about keeping together, but I would say that it eliminates the need to go behind your partner's back to sleep with someone else. I often wondered if couples that swing can still cheat on each other? Maybe if emotions get involved during play?"

Definitely they can still cheat, by being deceitful in whatever form that takes.

I’m poly and all but one of my primaries has cheated. It’s odd but it happens

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Many couples won't be truly swinging. One partner will be fucking around and the other will be going along with it to try and keep the relationship together. "

This is so true and makes me so sad

Last couple I played with I had to make my excuses as it was clear she wasn’t there for her but for him and reluctantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many couples won't be truly swinging. One partner will be fucking around and the other will be going along with it to try and keep the relationship together.

This is so true and makes me so sad

Last couple I played with I had to make my excuses as it was clear she wasn’t there for her but for him and reluctantly."

We met a few couples like this. Both men and women clearly not liking the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it has a baring one way or the other population wise swingers cant be that high a percentage to affect it i don't think

So what do you think the percentage of people who have had group or swap encounters is? Assuming you ask the 30-70 age range I think it would be 3-5%, which is huge. Sasha thinks sub 1% but we really don't know.

Its one of those things we will never get to the bottom of

Front bottom or back bottom? Just curious "
urm i dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the daily fail has published the list of the top 50 city's and towns where people are most likely to have an affair. The top 10 of each list are dominated by the randy south of the UK. Most of the swingers clubs are Midlands and Northern based, so does swinging keep couples together?"

No you cant extrapolate the data from one theory and make it fit another theory. Unless you are the daily fail.

It's like saying dogs like cheese and dogs have teeth. Humans have teeth so cheese is good for you. They dont connect.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wish there were more swingers clubs down south. Brighton could certainly do with one. The owner would make a fortune.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many couples won't be truly swinging. One partner will be fucking around and the other will be going along with it to try and keep the relationship together.

This is so true and makes me so sad

Last couple I played with I had to make my excuses as it was clear she wasn’t there for her but for him and reluctantly.

We met a few couples like this. Both men and women clearly not liking the situation. "

Us too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well people in an open relationship would be less likely to have "They slept with someone else" but I think this comes more down to swingers having a better ability to communicate with their partners than non swingers?

That would be an assumption, but since it's something that would involve a lot of trust and discussion, those skills would translate into conflict resolution in other areas.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Many couples won't be truly swinging. One partner will be fucking around and the other will be going along with it to try and keep the relationship together.

This is so true and makes me so sad

Last couple I played with I had to make my excuses as it was clear she wasn’t there for her but for him and reluctantly.

We met a few couples like this. Both men and women clearly not liking the situation.

Us too. "

so bad!

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