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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Basically yes or no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex, might be OK. Probably not though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it have to be my ex, or can it be someone else's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex called me darling after I dropped off our son.

It made me sick to hear!

So "NO"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me

(Though it really depends on which ex)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this a couple of months ago, twice. He is a very recent ex and it was amazing but made things complicated again. So no.

I couldn't with my ex husband. It would be like sleeping with a family member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically yes or no?"

No, would set a precedent for other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a good idea

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I'd rather fuck myself with a cactus.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

How good was the sex?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather fuck myself with a cactus."

Do you like many pricks inside you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope .....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Depends which one - some of them were hot as fuck and worth millions!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Basically yes or no?"

No

(I did try it once or twice but big mistakes, they’re ex’s for a reason so never again!)

Mrs J x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

No, you broke up for a reason, no point to it.

Also if you have a gf, she'll be testing you, likely to tell the gf about the two of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one ex in particular that I would drop everything for, just for the sex though. The sex was amazing, but the baggage was horrendous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are an ex for a reason unless you are doing it to get one over them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, just to prove a point though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"No"

Been there done that

Nooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely.my ex is one of my closest friends now ,and often gets involved in some of my fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it. "

Lololol that's familiar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

Lololol that's familiar "

But no, not if I could help it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I would say no but theres one exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

Lololol that's familiar

But no, not if I could help it..... "

You both just need an understanding that it's not forever and it doesn't mean you're getting back together. We ended on good terms and we just couldn't just forget about each other. She will always be in my heart. She'll always be welcome in my tent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

Lololol that's familiar

But no, not if I could help it.....

You both just need an understanding that it's not forever and it doesn't mean you're getting back together. We ended on good terms and we just couldn't just forget about each other. She will always be in my heart. She'll always be welcome in my tent "

Wrong emoji =

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I'd say no, just complicates everything and makes it even harder to let go and move on

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Depends which one ....!husband deffo nope ... but then it makes things complicated

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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

absolutely no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I sometimes still do. The sex was the only good thing about our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

Lololol that's familiar

But no, not if I could help it.....

You both just need an understanding that it's not forever and it doesn't mean you're getting back together. We ended on good terms and we just couldn't just forget about each other. She will always be in my heart. She'll always be welcome in my tent "

Haha, I broke up with my last ex almost on a monthly basis, so we had a lot of that kinda sex for about six months, it's a mindfuck both ways, we'd probably fuck now if we met so we don't......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for about 18 months. We couldn't let go... better sex than when we was together! So yes I highly recommend it.

Lololol that's familiar

But no, not if I could help it.....

You both just need an understanding that it's not forever and it doesn't mean you're getting back together. We ended on good terms and we just couldn't just forget about each other. She will always be in my heart. She'll always be welcome in my tent

Wrong emoji ="

Lies!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Depends on the ex, the reasons why they are an ex and so many things

If it was and is good sex, and it doesn't complicate things ... then it's like an FWB. So why not?

It can be good, but it can be fraught with danger and heartache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...exs are exs for a reason

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Never again, did it last year. Tried to get into it but couldn't. And in the twice we hooked up again she had developed feelings again and thought we were back on.

Fall out was terrible. It's a shame as it marred all the good memories of our time together

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

Put me down for a.......... Fuck no!!!! It’s never just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's usually a valid reason they're an ex, so that'd be No! from us two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me ta very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. all for different reasons but wouldn't go there with any of them. No regrets and never going backwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Too messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always finish it coz i got bored in the bedroom so definitely no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did this a couple of months ago, twice. He is a very recent ex and it was amazing but made things complicated again. So no.

I couldn't with my ex husband. It would be like sleeping with a family member "

Wow. I'm very curious as to how you go from husband to friend zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a no from me.....

Sleeping with an ex is like taking a shower and putting on the same dirty underwear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did this a couple of months ago, twice. He is a very recent ex and it was amazing but made things complicated again. So no.

I couldn't with my ex husband. It would be like sleeping with a family member

Wow. I'm very curious as to how you go from husband to friend zone. "

I've known him since I was 17. People change a lot in 20 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. My one and only regret in life!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not a chance .

They are an ex for a reason and life’s about moving forward , not going back .

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have done. The last time I did this it was not very good and really helped me to move on from reminiscing on what had been great sex and wanting that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done. The last time I did this it was not very good and really helped me to move on from reminiscing on what had been great sex and wanting that again."

It's like going back to cold cabbage.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Who was the OP?"

I was just about to ask the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they were a decent lover or not.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Just say no, kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever lol she was a nutter lol.... anyway life should never be regret just jog on as there are plenty of fish in the sea and some smell better

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