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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Know what? we all have em

All different in some ways

All wrong and all right cause know what?? yeah there is no real wrong or right to anything moral

Some major ones we all agree on (well the majority of us )such as murder andrape and such like and thats ok cause we then make laws to deal with them

But im on about peoples other judgements

Everyone of us is bought up differently

Everyone of us has lead a different life

Thats how our opinions are formed

It does make us right and it dosent make us wrong either

It simply makes us human

Some folk have very strong opions and convictions and will not for the life of them belive that they can be anything but right

Some folk listen to others and somtimes see anothers point of View and alter their opions accordingly

The diversity is great life is great the choice to make choices is great

Which are you?

Fixed and opionated or willing to learn?? xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

The former, with a small dash of the latter occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am willing to let you be wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Opinionated but been learning for all of my 30 odd (cough, cough) years

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Both apart from when it comes to my son then no-one can tell me anything i gave birth to him i brought him up etc i will bend and take veiws and ponder everything apart from that

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"What do i know?"

A quote from Mickey Dolenz in a radio interview when asked if a certain record, later number 1, was going to be a hit or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not opinionated i'm just never wrong

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Know what? we all have em

All different in some ways

All wrong and all right cause know what?? yeah there is no real wrong or right to anything moral

Some major ones we all agree on (well the majority of us )such as murder andrape and such like and thats ok cause we then make laws to deal with them

But im on about peoples other judgements

Everyone of us is bought up differently

Everyone of us has lead a different life

Thats how our opinions are formed

It does make us right and it dosent make us wrong either

It simply makes us human

Some folk have very strong opions and convictions and will not for the life of them belive that they can be anything but right

Some folk listen to others and somtimes see anothers point of View and alter their opions accordingly

The diversity is great life is great the choice to make choices is great

Which are you?

Fixed and opionated or willing to learn?? xx"

tou forgot the third type - those who are willing to learn but would never admit to being wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not opinionated i'm just never wrong

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In your opinion...;-);-)

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Opinions i hold strongly i am unlikely to change because they are based on my values and beliefs.

However i do not think ppl have to share my opinion, a good example is that i have friends who are creationists, i respect their view, they respect mine.

One of the things i like about having different compartments to my life (swinging,bdsm,church,home,family, studying) is that i meet different sorts of people with different ideas and backgrounds.

To like someone i dont have to agree with them but we will share fundemental values.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not opinionated i'm just never wrong

In your opinion...;-);-)"

Laughing here

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Opinions are like arseholes, everyone's got one

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

good question soapy

Id like to think im willing to learn and open minded but i know i can be opinionated when its on a subject close to my heart. At least i can admit it tho right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opinions i hold strongly i am unlikely to change because they are based on my values and beliefs.

However i do not think ppl have to share my opinion, a good example is that i have friends who are creationists, i respect their view, they respect mine.

One of the things i like about having different compartments to my life (swinging,bdsm,church,home,family, studying) is that i meet different sorts of people with different ideas and backgrounds.

To like someone i dont have to agree with them but we will share fundemental values."

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

fixed and opinionated yes..

also have learnt from mistakes made, ignorance and such like..

guess its called being human..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Opinions are like arseholes, everyone's got one "

And most of them stink!

I can and have changed my opinion over the years about various things.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think there is a false distinction here that opinionated does not mean willing to learn...hating curry is an opinion, it doesnt mean u are clos eminded about all food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may not always be right, however, I am seldom wrong!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters "

Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters

Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx "
Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters

Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do? "

Quite a few of my opinions have been changed or at least adapted slightly over the years on forum by the simple fact of many different people putting something in a way ive not thought about before so no i dont just say it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think there is a false distinction here that opinionated does not mean willing to learn...hating curry is an opinion, it doesnt mean u are clos eminded about all food "

That you dont like Curry is a valid opinion...

If I offer you a curry with a whole new recipe and you decline to eat it because it is a curry.... Would you be opinionated...?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters

Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do?

Quite a few of my opinions have been changed or at least adapted slightly over the years on forum by the simple fact of many different people putting something in a way ive not thought about before so no i dont just say it lol xx "

maybe the one advantae of over intellectualizing everything is rarely something comes up that i havnt thought about before

However when it comes to something new i am more than willing to listen to any and all before i make my mind up.This was very much my experience with bdsm, i was leaning towards high protocol because of the first ppl i met...it took a lot of different ideas and people before i reached my current views.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I would say I am a bit of both, although Soapy would argue that I am an opinionated stubborn git who doesn't listen. But of course he would be wrong!!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

When I was younger I was very opinionated, thought I knew it all. Now I listen more and yes some opinions have been changed, must be mellowing

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i think there is a false distinction here that opinionated does not mean willing to learn...hating curry is an opinion, it doesnt mean u are clos eminded about all food

That you dont like Curry is a valid opinion...

If I offer you a curry with a whole new recipe and you decline to eat it because it is a curry.... Would you be opinionated...?

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no, thats not an opinion,its a preference

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By *usup4funsouthMan
over a year ago

tidworth

Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say I am a bit of both, although Soapy would argue that I am an opinionated stubborn git who doesn't listen. But of course he would be wrong!! "

Actually you are wrong babe i wouldnt argue

Yes ya opinionated and stubborn but ya do listen sometimes and ya do give in occasionally xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x"

Good ta, what about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x"

We think we are fine...

Whats your opinion...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x

We think we are fine...

Whats your opinion...?"

Im my opinion Euro nutter pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x

We think we are fine...

Whats your opinion...?

Im my opinion Euro nutter pmsl xx "

You and my boss share the same opinion...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x"

still floating from today ty, hows u

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Opinions are like arseholes, everyone's got one "

and quite often they stink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am all three depending on who I am talking to, that is because if I know the person I am talking to, I know what they are like and sometimes its like banging ones head against a wall to get them to listen especially when they are in the minority but still a know-it-all and belong to the "I am ALWAYS right" brigade

On the other hand, I do like to listen to what other people say, sometimes I try to comment but they, I have realised now are lost in the passion of the moment

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