FabSwingers.com forum: Is this a dating site (cont.)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello hot stuff

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I wish it was, loads of guys on here I would date in a heart beat but just sex it is then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello hot stuff

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alright cheeky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wish it was, loads of guys on here I would date in a heart beat but just sex it is then

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Nothing wrong with just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish it was, loads of guys on here I would date in a heart beat but just sex it is then

You can have romance as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a mating site.....

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m not interesting in ‘dating’. I meet people for a coffee and/or sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

I agree with you on this.

For a single in the scene its the perfect place to meet others. Couples won't do that for obvious reasons, neither approach makes the other any less justified.

Personally I don't understand why couples dislike singles meeting, dating and coupling up. Surely that then increases the pool for them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

Would I- what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no "
pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

Its been started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?

Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no "

My sentiments exactly but I best be careful as I daren’t allude to a forum being clique

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you

Its been started "
seems to be one or two

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

I agree with you on this.

For a single in the scene its the perfect place to meet others. Couples won't do that for obvious reasons, neither approach makes the other any less justified.

Personally I don't understand why couples dislike singles meeting, dating and coupling up. Surely that then increases the pool for them! "

It increases the pool for couples who only want to meet couples , so yes I agree . There are couples who won’t meet fb couples though , I’ve never really understood why , but it’s true .

It’s a funny old game really , and it’s bloody hard not to sound judgemental when commenting on this subject . On the last thread there were singles slating couples and vice versa , which is ridiculous really .

The theory that the swinging community is non judgemental is way off the truth I’m afraid !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldn't be as it's a swinging site, not POF or Craigslist.

If you're our type of couple, you like a supply of single men and others single ladies - so generally the swinging community is fairly tolerant of status and kinks in order to maintain the supply chain

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Everyone just use the site how it suits you, quite simple really.

I do get pissed off that some couples don't see the risk that singles can be put in, as you always have your other half as some sort of back up. I personally have put myself in a risky position in the past and therefore would never do so again, and go out of their way to berate others that don't meet as they seem to deem fit.

However, I do have my own rules and I wont be swayed by others, I have also made it quite clear on my profile, so others can clearly sideline me if they so wish, so win win in my eyes

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of men from here declare their love for me.

It's sweet, but not what I want.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don’t think of Fab as a dating site. For me it’s a website that facilitates me meeting like minded people. If one of those people turned out to be dateable and they felt the same way then I’m not against giving it a chance. The serial Fab daters seem to find it easy enough. It’s a good a place as any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

There is every need for it when somebody is being condescending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing"
when is it ok to touch the bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social??"

I'd like to answer the question in the original thread.

I like to have a social meet to make sure there is a mutual attraction in person, and that we get on.

Nothing whatsoever to do with dating.

If you don't want a social meet, then don't meet people that do. Not that difficult really.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

There is every need for it when somebody is being condescending. "

There was absolutely nothing condescending in my post , the one you quoted and made the condescending snide remark about . Pot , kettle , black springs to mind

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It is for some , and not for others .

Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?

I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .

For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex

As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!

This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .

There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the

Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum?"
filthy beast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I clicked with someone and they felt the same I don’t see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I don't do socials to ascertain attraction (I do that by talking on here first), I do like a couple of drinks and a chat in a pub/bar before we retire to bed.

It's not a date, as I'm not looking for a boyfriend-just sex with a friendly man.