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"Just sat here with my popcorn ...... don’t mind me " Hahaha... ... DO NOT offend the coffee drinkers!!! | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. " You'll always get a free one from me Hatter Peach x | |||
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"To see if the person can behave themselves in public before I trust them naked and vulnerable in private. " | |||
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"Because I don't want a dick in me that belongs to a dick." This! | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. You'll always get a free one from me Hatter Peach x" | |||
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"Because I don't want a dick in me that belongs to a dick." Eloquently put | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " it's something different for everyone here ,some use it as a knocking shop ,some just chat ,some make friends ,some cheat on their partners ,some judge ,some date like minded people ,some swing ,some get married ,some have babies and some whinge ,whatever your kink you're allowed to do it your way | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " You’re a couple, like us. The forums have a heavy singles content, and many are looking for something different to us. To some they are looking for a raunchier version of Plenty of Fish. Also, remember, when we turn up with our wife they’ve effectively got their own minder with them, something single women don’t have the privilege of. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? You’re a couple, like us. The forums have a heavy singles content, and many are looking for something different to us. To some they are looking for a raunchier version of Plenty of Fish. Also, remember, when we turn up with our wife they’ve effectively got their own minder with them, something single women don’t have the privilege of." | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? it's something different for everyone here ,some use it as a knocking shop ,some just chat ,some make friends ,some cheat on their partners ,some judge ,some date like minded people ,some swing ,some get married ,some have babies and some whinge ,whatever your kink you're allowed to do it your way " Well put!!!! | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. " Tea Tart! | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. Tea Tart!" ...Your point? | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. Tea Tart! ...Your point?" Stating the obvious | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " I think you're confusing swinging with prostitution? | |||
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"I just want to see if I can get free cups of tea. Tea Tart! ...Your point? Stating the obvious " Oh okay. It's a fair point. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " Ah ... so you might as well get naked and see what happens? Pass thank you | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? I think you're confusing swinging with prostitution?" I always think that’s an unfair thing to say. Many women say they’re here for themselves and to have their needs met. Nobody says a word. A guy says it, and they’re trying to treat women as a free prostitute. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " lol don't you like personality ,don't you want to enjoy their company, don't you want to know their name ,swinging or not most people do ,has to be a spark of something before penetration | |||
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"And just for the record I am not a prostitute " you're the woman asking this then | |||
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"And just for the record I am not a prostitute you're the woman asking this then " Men can be prostitutes too | |||
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"And just for the record I am not a prostitute you're the woman asking this then Men can be prostitutes too " just asking the question | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? " This | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " But you can tell if you fancy someone from seeing them in the flesh. It's very rare I know I fancy someone for sure just from chatting online | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? I think you're confusing swinging with prostitution? I always think that’s an unfair thing to say. Many women say they’re here for themselves and to have their needs met. Nobody says a word. A guy says it, and they’re trying to treat women as a free prostitute." Actually, I thought I made a mistake 'cos a woman said it, my bad! I agree it was too bald a statement - I was actually reacting to Kaitlyn's '...turning up with no knowledge of who I'm having sex with' and when I thought about it, only a prostitute would do that normally. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date But you can tell if you fancy someone from seeing them in the flesh. It's very rare I know I fancy someone for sure just from chatting online" same here | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " Perhaps, but meeting them in a public place where you can make a quick escape is a safer way to get further information on them. Everything is a risk, but meeting someone completely sight unseen to have sex straight away is a hell of a lot safer than not. If it doesn't suit you, more power to you, but it's one thing I do to reduce the risks I'm taking. | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? This " And this. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Why not going for a coffee doesn't make it a date . Sometimes people dont always look the same or behave in the same way in real life as they do online, its a good way to see if there is any attraction. But swinging encompass a wide spectrum, what works for someone else might not work for you. So if you dont want to have a social dont. Different strokes for different folks as they say | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Who pissed on your chips! People use it how they like | |||
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"A social is good when all parties turn up. I don't expect sex on an initial social meet but it happens more often then not in my experience. I look at this way, its the ultimate aim when you agree to meet off here. So it's not as awkward to ask the question unlike if you were on a normal date and there is always the option of walking away if there is no spark. For me having a good conversation on the phone before any planned social works best. I know I am a bit wierd " Where's spellchecker when you need it ... *weird* even | |||
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"A social is good when all parties turn up. I don't expect sex on an initial social meet but it happens more often then not in my experience. I look at this way, its the ultimate aim when you agree to meet off here. So it's not as awkward to ask the question unlike if you were on a normal date and there is always the option of walking away if there is no spark. For me having a good conversation on the phone before any planned social works best. I know I am a bit wierd Where's spellchecker when you need it ... *weird* even " I read it as wired | |||
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"A social is good when all parties turn up. I don't expect sex on an initial social meet but it happens more often then not in my experience. I look at this way, its the ultimate aim when you agree to meet off here. So it's not as awkward to ask the question unlike if you were on a normal date and there is always the option of walking away if there is no spark. For me having a good conversation on the phone before any planned social works best. I know I am a bit wierd Where's spellchecker when you need it ... *weird* even I read it as wired " There is hope for me then | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? Who pissed on your chips! People use it how they like " | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of" You may ... others don't How people want to use the site is their own look out ... if what someone is looking for doesn't match what you want ... pass them by .. move on .. simple | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of You may ... others don't How people want to use the site is their own look out ... if what someone is looking for doesn't match what you want ... pass them by .. move on .. simple" Exactly this | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of You may ... others don't How people want to use the site is their own look out ... if what someone is looking for doesn't match what you want ... pass them by .. move on .. simple" Maybe but I found an amazing man I had 4 dates /socials with until I let him fuck me. I'm now married to him as we both found what we were looking for without ever looking. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? You’re a couple, like us. The forums have a heavy singles content, and many are looking for something different to us. To some they are looking for a raunchier version of Plenty of Fish. Also, remember, when we turn up with our wife they’ve effectively got their own minder with them, something single women don’t have the privilege of." | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of" i actually joined for a laugh never needed a website to get fucked helped tho | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of You may ... others don't How people want to use the site is their own look out ... if what someone is looking for doesn't match what you want ... pass them by .. move on .. simple Maybe but I found an amazing man I had 4 dates /socials with until I let him fuck me. I'm now married to him as we both found what we were looking for without ever looking. " And kudos to you ... what works for some .. won't for others ... we are all different | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of" Fank u 4 ur comment. | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? " Sadly it happens too often! what ever happened to live and let live, let each use the site how it suits them as long as its legal and hurts no one!!! but one thing i would say its not only couples guilty of it! | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Yeah Keep it tea | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? Yeah Keep it tea" There’s always one that goes too far | |||
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"Because I don't want a dick in me that belongs to a dick." I so love this | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Probably for the same reason that if i sent you a pleasant message asking for a fuck, you'd say no | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? " This and the fact that a lot of them don't realise how vulnerable singles can be and that they need to at least feel safe, this applies to men and women by the way. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " These fussy people who want to know if there is an attraction. How dare they!!! | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date But you can tell if you fancy someone from seeing them in the flesh. It's very rare I know I fancy someone for sure just from chatting online" And some of us have had the unfortunate experience of meeting someone for sex when they thought they fancied the pants off them and then finding out they really didn't in the flesh....that can be VERY awkward for a single female. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " your confusing it with screwing around i think | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " We are all different OP. I prefer to meet sociably and see if I’m attracted to the man in question, I don’t want to have sex with just anybody and people use this site how they as an individual see fit | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? This and the fact that a lot of them don't realise how vulnerable singles can be and that they need to at least feel safe, this applies to men and women by the way. " Why is this couples v singles? There are arseholes in couples and arseholes who are singles. | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of" No comment. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. | |||
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"I'll stick to socials and coffee, thanks. It's worked out very well for nearly 2yrs, no need to fix what isn't broken " | |||
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"Imagine wanting to get to know someone before you have sex with someone. Wow. " I know ,it defies reasoning | |||
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"Op..... answer to your question , “is this a dating site “ YES" | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples." Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are. | |||
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"I'll stick to socials and coffee, thanks. It's worked out very well for nearly 2yrs, no need to fix what isn't broken " Same here. Not sure why the OP is so offended by what other people are doing. There's no right or wrong way to use the site. Do whatever works for you. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are." I’m lost what was the beef with couples? X | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are. I’m lost what was the beef with couples? X" Dunno but at least its not us blokes being tared with the same brush this time | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are. I’m lost what was the beef with couples? X Dunno but at least its not us blokes being tared with the same brush this time " Lol this is true x | |||
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"Don't come on here to be called a prostitute!! Well if I was Inclined to be abused by verbal garbage then I would probably be a bit upset about it but it's factual to say that some people have views that are not exactly polite or respectful I would not be calling anyone on here personally because I don't think you would like it yourself but I don't know what you think of anything that excludes your perception or views because you obviously have no respect for any opinion individual wants or needs so as I say if I've got nothing good to say about anyone then I say nothing at all" Take no notice of those who imply this that or the other . It’s all too common to see derogatory comments on here , especially when it comes to the old social question . We are like you , and have been since 2011 when we started swinging . We had a social or two at the beginning , found them boring and pointless and vowed never to have another . Over a thousand meets later we stuck to it and never had a social meet . So carry on doing it your way , there are plenty more like you and us out there . Way more outside the forum prefer to just meet up for mutual fun rather than a coffee or a social . | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Socials are valuable as you can quickly decide if you want to spend time in the presence of people. Happy to meet up for a cuppa before a meet for shenanigans. Sometimes you meet people and you don't want to see them again and sometimes a social can lead to a lot more fun. | |||
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"Don't come on here to be called a prostitute!! Well if I was Inclined to be abused by verbal garbage then I would probably be a bit upset about it but it's factual to say that some people have views that are not exactly polite or respectful I would not be calling anyone on here personally because I don't think you would like it yourself but I don't know what you think of anything that excludes your perception or views because you obviously have no respect for any opinion individual wants or needs so as I say if I've got nothing good to say about anyone then I say nothing at all Take no notice of those who imply this that or the other . It’s all too common to see derogatory comments on here , especially when it comes to the old social question . We are like you , and have been since 2011 when we started swinging . We had a social or two at the beginning , found them boring and pointless and vowed never to have another . Over a thousand meets later we stuck to it and never had a social meet . So carry on doing it your way , there are plenty more like you and us out there . Way more outside the forum prefer to just meet up for mutual fun rather than a coffee or a social . " Of course meeting people without having sex with them is boring and pointless. Who wants to know what others think about anything? People are there to be used for self-gratification! | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are. I’m lost what was the beef with couples? X" None whatsoever. Personal preference, as is not wanting to treat people as individuals or meet them for anything other than sex. | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date One thing: this is not your site. It has rules, and "do not meet in a social setting" is not one of them. Once again, happy to never see couples. Like it or not, couples are as much a part of this site as you are." And even the founders of swinging per se. And the only real swingers. | |||
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"Whaaat, you don't have the same favourite colour as me ... I am walking away, no sex " It is rather the case of "I am just not feeling it". It seems to never happen to "real swingers", judging by this thread. | |||
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"Don't come on here to be called a prostitute!! Well if I was Inclined to be abused by verbal garbage then I would probably be a bit upset about it but it's factual to say that some people have views that are not exactly polite or respectful I would not be calling anyone on here personally because I don't think you would like it yourself but I don't know what you think of anything that excludes your perception or views because you obviously have no respect for any opinion individual wants or needs so as I say if I've got nothing good to say about anyone then I say nothing at all Take no notice of those who imply this that or the other . It’s all too common to see derogatory comments on here , especially when it comes to the old social question . We are like you , and have been since 2011 when we started swinging . We had a social or two at the beginning , found them boring and pointless and vowed never to have another . Over a thousand meets later we stuck to it and never had a social meet . So carry on doing it your way , there are plenty more like you and us out there . Way more outside the forum prefer to just meet up for mutual fun rather than a coffee or a social . Of course meeting people without having sex with them is boring and pointless. Who wants to know what others think about anything? People are there to be used for self-gratification!" It’s mutual gratification , both parties enjoying it for what they and we are there for . There really shouldn’t be an issue with that . You imply that we had all those meets for ‘our self gratification’ and that we somehow used the people we met . What absolute nonsense and complete presumption based on nothing but your own sense of what you think . If we and the people we meet just want to get down to it without a social , that’s our business , and I can assure you we have never had an issue with anyone we’ve met thinking they’ve been used at all . If we want to know what other people think , where they plan to go on holiday , what they like to eat and drink etc..... we have a wide circle of friends away from swinging to do all that with thank you . You do it your way , we will do it ours . It’s quite possible to do this without slagging one another off you know . | |||
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"Don't come on here to be called a prostitute!! Well if I was Inclined to be abused by verbal garbage then I would probably be a bit upset about it but it's factual to say that some people have views that are not exactly polite or respectful I would not be calling anyone on here personally because I don't think you would like it yourself but I don't know what you think of anything that excludes your perception or views because you obviously have no respect for any opinion individual wants or needs so as I say if I've got nothing good to say about anyone then I say nothing at all Take no notice of those who imply this that or the other . It’s all too common to see derogatory comments on here , especially when it comes to the old social question . We are like you , and have been since 2011 when we started swinging . We had a social or two at the beginning , found them boring and pointless and vowed never to have another . Over a thousand meets later we stuck to it and never had a social meet . So carry on doing it your way , there are plenty more like you and us out there . Way more outside the forum prefer to just meet up for mutual fun rather than a coffee or a social . Of course meeting people without having sex with them is boring and pointless. Who wants to know what others think about anything? People are there to be used for self-gratification! It’s mutual gratification , both parties enjoying it for what they and we are there for . There really shouldn’t be an issue with that . You imply that we had all those meets for ‘our self gratification’ and that we somehow used the people we met . What absolute nonsense and complete presumption based on nothing but your own sense of what you think . If we and the people we meet just want to get down to it without a social , that’s our business , and I can assure you we have never had an issue with anyone we’ve met thinking they’ve been used at all . If we want to know what other people think , where they plan to go on holiday , what they like to eat and drink etc..... we have a wide circle of friends away from swinging to do all that with thank you . You do it your way , we will do it ours . It’s quite possible to do this without slagging one another off you know ." Exactly this. These threads annoy me. What does it matter. People probably say I don’t belong here but so what. Just do you want to do and meet people who want the same. It’s not rocket science | |||
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"To ensure there's some attraction? To make like minded friends? To have great nights and days out? Lots of reasons op! We're not playing at the moment for personal reasons but still enjoy socials and weekends away! This site and the lifestyle can be whatever you want to make it! Peach x" Exactly this we went on a date and decided we gelled so well we didn’t want to separate so I stuck a ring on her finger! This is why we started our dating thread, to help people like us find a love like ours without being judged. Doughnut | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Cause I want to lower the risks of being attacked by a complete nutjob who wants sex. I want to make sure I’m attracted to them before I commit to fucking them. Because it calms my anxiety. Because some people like socials, just because. | |||
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"U cum on a site like this to fuck r 2 be fucked end of You may ... others don't How people want to use the site is their own look out ... if what someone is looking for doesn't match what you want ... pass them by .. move on .. simple Maybe but I found an amazing man I had 4 dates /socials with until I let him fuck me. I'm now married to him as we both found what we were looking for without ever looking. And kudos to you ... what works for some .. won't for others ... we are all different" I'm not | |||
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"It's a lifestyle not the prostitute without money exchange!!!" This is a bit tough! So you never have sex unless you've read their autobiography beforehand? | |||
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"Because I don't want a dick in me that belongs to a dick. Ahaha!...this..." You have now made a lot of people named Dick very unhappy | |||
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"A social is what separates us from dogs in the street. " Woof woof ..... | |||
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"Because I don't want a dick in me that belongs to a dick. Ahaha!...this... You have now made a lot of people named Dick very unhappy " Wrong face again | |||
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"At the end of the day this site is big enough for all of us to do whatever we want/prefer to do and people’s preferences should be respected x" Could not put it better simple as this!!! | |||
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"Why is it some entitled couples feel the need to tell everyone else how to use the site, instead of just focusing on what they want to use it for ? " | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " Let’s put it this way! You’re a couple. You’re clearly literally just here to fuck strangers to enhance your sex life? Others are on fab for a plethora of reasons - from just chatting to like minded people on the forums or socialising with them - to looking for a kinky relationship - or, like me, having amazing sex with amazing people that I can develop a friendship with! Having a social makes me feel safer when it comes to the horizontal mambo - and I like to know I like and fancy them before we arrange to get our kit off or - more practically - go to the expense of a hotel room or club entry! | |||
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"We had a coffee went back to mine ended getting married " The perfect reason to never ever have a coffee social. | |||
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"Don't come on here to be called a prostitute!! Well if I was Inclined to be abused by verbal garbage then I would probably be a bit upset about it but it's factual to say that some people have views that are not exactly polite or respectful I would not be calling anyone on here personally because I don't think you would like it yourself but I don't know what you think of anything that excludes your perception or views because you obviously have no respect for any opinion individual wants or needs so as I say if I've got nothing good to say about anyone then I say nothing at all" You do understand the deepest irony in this statement don't you?! | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere." I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? | |||
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"Sorry but it's not a dating site it's a swinging site. You can't tell if someone is 'normal' just because you are on a social meet. Anyone can be nice on a social then just turn. A serial killer doesn't tell you they are going to kill you just because you are on a date " Ah, so your way is the only way? Every response you've made has been arguing why the answers you've received to your question are wrong. | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? " are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? | |||
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"I don’t want to meet a man of unquestionable virtue, so i check him out over a latte first. Hands above the table. Lips on the cup. Meet 2 is when i throw my knickers to the wind in a devil may care attitude." You probably meant "of questionable virtue"? | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though" I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting | |||
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"I don’t want to meet a man of unquestionable virtue, so i check him out over a latte first. Hands above the table. Lips on the cup. Meet 2 is when i throw my knickers to the wind in a devil may care attitude. You probably meant "of questionable virtue"? " I did. I’ve been up since 4am and i’m starting to babble | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting" So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? | |||
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"I treated fab as a dating site just out of spite for all the forum threads screaming how this is not a dating site and how everyone should just fuck and go. Voila - in result I've met a man, who is simply perfect in every way possible. Our sex life is out of this world and we are very much into each other. Genuinely think that fab is actually better than a regular dating site as people have a chance to be open and honest about their desires and fantasies without being judged by a potential partner. Oh... and dating itself aside- socials are for making fuck friends. Nothing like a great night out or in with a wholesome happy ending with people you trust and feel comfortable around. IMO if one or both parts of a couple don't feel comfortable with socials - there's underlying jealousy issues which have nothing to do with being a "real" swinger" Ah so that’s where we went wrong ! We weren’t real swingers and we have underlying jealousy issues . Good to know | |||
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"It's a little unfortunate that once again people are having to defend their use of the site against others who consider their way of swinging 'the only way' of swinging. Entitled doesn't even come into it, it's a case once again of couples ringfencing the site and the term swinger against the evil of dating and making emotional connections. "what will become of us Brian? The singles... They're having coffee and dating!!" "oh the humanity!" " | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? " I like to have them if I feel the need for it, or the lady in question would like to see if we get on. I've been on them before and they've saved my bacon. Pictures on here can be misleading | |||
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"We had a coffee went back to mine ended getting married The perfect reason to never ever have a coffee social. " | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? I like to have them if I feel the need for it, or the lady in question would like to see if we get on. I've been on them before and they've saved my bacon. Pictures on here can be misleading " I just ask people if they're serial killers,aslong as they say no,i know i'm safe,because no one tells lies on this site lol | |||
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"It's a little unfortunate that once again people are having to defend their use of the site against others who consider their way of swinging 'the only way' of swinging. Entitled doesn't even come into it, it's a case once again of couples ringfencing the site and the term swinger against the evil of dating and making emotional connections. "what will become of us Brian? The singles... They're having coffee and dating!!" "oh the humanity!" " Oh behave! The forums are singles centric . What is a problem is the constant pigeonholing of views and behaviours. Couples do this, singles do that, single men are this, single women are that, blah de fucking blah. No, we’re all individuals with a myriad of different views. | |||
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social?? " so you can see if you click with someone before you play. I never ever agree to actually meet to play. Just say come say hi to me if you see me at a club. Yet I seem to do okay . and I do not date | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? I like to have them if I feel the need for it, or the lady in question would like to see if we get on. I've been on them before and they've saved my bacon. Pictures on here can be misleading I just ask people if they're serial killers,aslong as they say no,i know i'm safe,because no one tells lies on this site lol" why the fuck didn't I think of that! Are you a bunny boiler? | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? I like to have them if I feel the need for it, or the lady in question would like to see if we get on. I've been on them before and they've saved my bacon. Pictures on here can be misleading I just ask people if they're serial killers,aslong as they say no,i know i'm safe,because no one tells lies on this site lol why the fuck didn't I think of that! Are you a bunny boiler?" I'll answer that question when you're locked in my bedroom looking at our wedding plans | |||
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"I treated fab as a dating site just out of spite for all the forum threads screaming how this is not a dating site and how everyone should just fuck and go. Voila - in result I've met a man, who is simply perfect in every way possible. Our sex life is out of this world and we are very much into each other. Genuinely think that fab is actually better than a regular dating site as people have a chance to be open and honest about their desires and fantasies without being judged by a potential partner. Oh... and dating itself aside- socials are for making fuck friends. Nothing like a great night out or in with a wholesome happy ending with people you trust and feel comfortable around. IMO if one or both parts of a couple don't feel comfortable with socials - there's underlying jealousy issues which have nothing to do with being a "real" swinger Ah so that’s where we went wrong ! We weren’t real swingers and we have underlying jealousy issues . Good to know " Actually usually it's the other way around. Couples who do their meets like you guys (without socials) always claim that ones who do want to do socials aren't real swingers. Underlying jealousy comment comes from the side where some singles also don't want to have any kind of socials for simple reason- they wouldn't want to risk either person developing any kind of feelings towards each other. A lot of couples do have a rule not to meet separately or socially to avoid just that too. I do me, you do you. Don't really care who's doing what. | |||
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"Well it's not an online DIY site. Not a sniff of an adjustable spanner anywhere. I know a few spanners on this site if you're looking? are they the type that'll tighten my nuts? Yh if you ask them nice enough..probably whinge while doing it though I can hassle them moaning, but whining is a bit off-putting So while you've brought up moaning,whats your views on socials? I like to have them if I feel the need for it, or the lady in question would like to see if we get on. I've been on them before and they've saved my bacon. Pictures on here can be misleading I just ask people if they're serial killers,aslong as they say no,i know i'm safe,because no one tells lies on this site lol why the fuck didn't I think of that! Are you a bunny boiler? I'll answer that question when you're locked in my bedroom looking at our wedding plans" we can compare plans. I've already written mine up. We're both wearing dresses | |||
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"I treated fab as a dating site just out of spite for all the forum threads screaming how this is not a dating site and how everyone should just fuck and go. Voila - in result I've met a man, who is simply perfect in every way possible. Our sex life is out of this world and we are very much into each other. Genuinely think that fab is actually better than a regular dating site as people have a chance to be open and honest about their desires and fantasies without being judged by a potential partner. Oh... and dating itself aside- socials are for making fuck friends. Nothing like a great night out or in with a wholesome happy ending with people you trust and feel comfortable around. IMO if one or both parts of a couple don't feel comfortable with socials - there's underlying jealousy issues which have nothing to do with being a "real" swinger Ah so that’s where we went wrong ! We weren’t real swingers and we have underlying jealousy issues . Good to know Actually usually it's the other way around. Couples who do their meets like you guys (without socials) always claim that ones who do want to do socials aren't real swingers. Underlying jealousy comment comes from the side where some singles also don't want to have any kind of socials for simple reason- they wouldn't want to risk either person developing any kind of feelings towards each other. A lot of couples do have a rule not to meet separately or socially to avoid just that too. I do me, you do you. Don't really care who's doing what. " I got fed up of me doing mme which is why I'm on here | |||
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"I treated fab as a dating site just out of spite for all the forum threads screaming how this is not a dating site and how everyone should just fuck and go. Voila - in result I've met a man, who is simply perfect in every way possible. Our sex life is out of this world and we are very much into each other. Genuinely think that fab is actually better than a regular dating site as people have a chance to be open and honest about their desires and fantasies without being judged by a potential partner. Oh... and dating itself aside- socials are for making fuck friends. Nothing like a great night out or in with a wholesome happy ending with people you trust and feel comfortable around. IMO if one or both parts of a couple don't feel comfortable with socials - there's underlying jealousy issues which have nothing to do with being a "real" swinger Ah so that’s where we went wrong ! We weren’t real swingers and we have underlying jealousy issues . Good to know Actually usually it's the other way around. Couples who do their meets like you guys (without socials) always claim that ones who do want to do socials aren't real swingers. Underlying jealousy comment comes from the side where some singles also don't want to have any kind of socials for simple reason- they wouldn't want to risk either person developing any kind of feelings towards each other. A lot of couples do have a rule not to meet separately or socially to avoid just that too. I do me, you do you. Don't really care who's doing what. " Exactly what you say in your last sentence I haven’t said that those who do socials first aren’t real swingers at any point . | |||
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