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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up? "

Must be something wrong with me. I read this as "So Danny is balls deep into a relationship"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up?

Must be something wrong with me. I read this as "So Danny is balls deep into a relationship""

So did I haha it must be the alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up?

Must be something wrong with me. I read this as "So Danny is balls deep into a relationship"

So did I haha it must be the alcohol"

Nah were just wrong in the head.

I can't walk past a Lebanese restaurant with seeing "lesbian restaurant".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not good with advice but I'm sure you will get plenty on here.

Maybe try a little earlier next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up?

Must be something wrong with me. I read this as "So Danny is balls deep into a relationship"

So did I haha it must be the alcohol

Nah were just wrong in the head.

I can't walk past a Lebanese restaurant with seeing "lesbian restaurant"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a conversation to have, that's for sure.

In my last relationship, which lasted 8 months, we had sex twice in the last 3 months, and one of those was a threesome where both my ex and I didnt have much contact with one another.

She had depression and recently started new meds so her lack of libido was easily dismissable, which I was fine with.

Turns out she had the hots for another guy half way in and never bothered to tell me. Your friend could well be in the same scenario, worth asking the questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a conversation to have, that's for sure.

In my last relationship, which lasted 8 months, we had sex twice in the last 3 months, and one of those was a threesome where both my ex and I didnt have much contact with one another.

She had depression and recently started new meds so her lack of libido was easily dismissable, which I was fine with.

Turns out she had the hots for another guy half way in and never bothered to tell me. Your friend could well be in the same scenario, worth asking the questions. "

Sorry to hear that mate, she doesn’t seem the cheating type but I’ll pass it on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely asking for a friend this time lol

So Danny is 4 years deep into a relationship, him and his girlfriend haven’t had sex since December and have counted how many times they’ve had sex in the last year on one hand. They do foreplay stuff maybe 3 times a month. Is Danny bad for considering breaking up? Even though she is besotted, head over heals in love with him and she would be broken if they broke up.

Does Danny need to man the duck up and break up? "

If he not sexually satisfied he needs to break up and move on it that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid. Women are no use if they're not giving out sex. Find one that will fuck 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a conversation to have, that's for sure.

In my last relationship, which lasted 8 months, we had sex twice in the last 3 months, and one of those was a threesome where both my ex and I didnt have much contact with one another.

She had depression and recently started new meds so her lack of libido was easily dismissable, which I was fine with.

Turns out she had the hots for another guy half way in and never bothered to tell me. Your friend could well be in the same scenario, worth asking the questions. "

This. If sex is important to someone but the other person doesn't want to engage, you shouldn't pressure/ force them to. However, that doesn't mean that you have an obligation to stay in the relationshi[ either. Life is short, you don't want your sex life to be too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a conversation to have, that's for sure.

In my last relationship, which lasted 8 months, we had sex twice in the last 3 months, and one of those was a threesome where both my ex and I didnt have much contact with one another.

She had depression and recently started new meds so her lack of libido was easily dismissable, which I was fine with.

Turns out she had the hots for another guy half way in and never bothered to tell me. Your friend could well be in the same scenario, worth asking the questions.

Sorry to hear that mate, she doesn’t seem the cheating type but I’ll pass it on . "

I'd be surprised if Danny himself hasn't cheated by now.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There way too many reasons for her not to want to have Sex if he loved her He would give her time and speak to her not a guy you puts it out there of people HOW think they have all the answers.

90% of people here get far less sex than this guy if he has only got it Once a year..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How does Danny feel about her without the sex? I'm guessing he doesn't love her.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Does the 'asking for a friend' thing ever actually get believed?

Asking for a friend...

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