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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not everyone is very good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone is very good at it. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want a virgin or someone unexperienced. I’m not here to teach anyone. Too lazy for that.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The act may not be rocket science but the art requires skill, experience, knowledge and talent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science."
i think and im guessing here but when they say experienced men they want a guy that isnt going to shoot his load in under 5 minutes then leave i could be wrong though ill check Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The act may not be rocket science but the art requires skill, experience, knowledge and talent."

This.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Dont want a shy guy fumbling about with me. I want a confident man who knows exactly what he is doing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science. i think and im guessing here but when they say experienced men they want a guy that isnt going to shoot his load in under 5 minutes then leave i could be wrong though ill check Google "

Or try to mash my clit like it's an orgasm button, or get upset that I want pleasure, or be intimidated by the act, on and on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science. i think and im guessing here but when they say experienced men they want a guy that isnt going to shoot his load in under 5 minutes then leave i could be wrong though ill check Google

Or try to mash my clit like it's an orgasm button, or get upset that I want pleasure, or be intimidated by the act, on and on. "
i thought so see didn't even need Google that time ask and you shall receive hahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont want a shy guy fumbling about with me. I want a confident man who knows exactly what he is doing."

Hmm I thought everyone around my age knew what we were doing by now.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We have seen lots of play in Clubs. It’s amazing how some people have no idea. Or just lay there and don’t make a sound lol.

Saying it’s just an act shows that it’s not just an act.

Good sex is a skill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science."
driving lessons

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science."

When you get enough experience then you'll know. Until then, happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have seen lots of play in Clubs. It’s amazing how some people have no idea. Or just lay there and don’t make a sound lol.

Saying it’s just an act shows that it’s not just an act.

Good sex is a skill x"

The sounds we make before, during and after playing are a big part of the fun i love hearing a woman moan as i bring her to climax it's all part of the experience laying there shagging in complete silence sounds bizarre

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science."

The six-pack male adonis with the tattoos and the long wavy hair and thick thighs, who look like they can throw a lady around the room, go for hours and pounded her so hard she leaves a women shaped hole in the mattress, but somehow forgets her name, and she spends the next day pining over him, as just thinking of him makes her cream her knickers.

I could go on but I think you get the picture.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"We have seen lots of play in Clubs. It’s amazing how some people have no idea. Or just lay there and don’t make a sound lol.

Saying it’s just an act shows that it’s not just an act.

Good sex is a skill x

The sounds we make before, during and after playing are a big part of the fun i love hearing a woman moan as i bring her to climax it's all part of the experience laying there shagging in complete silence sounds bizarre "

Sometimes it's the perfect thing to do, especially if you're trying not to get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have seen lots of play in Clubs. It’s amazing how some people have no idea. Or just lay there and don’t make a sound lol.

Saying it’s just an act shows that it’s not just an act.

Good sex is a skill x

The sounds we make before, during and after playing are a big part of the fun i love hearing a woman moan as i bring her to climax it's all part of the experience laying there shagging in complete silence sounds bizarre

Sometimes it's the perfect thing to do, especially if you're trying not to get caught.

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Ahh true but then isnt the risk of getting caught also a turn on for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men with little experience are naturally good lovers.

I had some of my best experiences with men under 25.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science.

The six-pack male adonis with the tattoos and the long wavy hair and thick thighs, who look like they can throw a lady around the room, go for hours and pounded her so hard she leaves a women shaped hole in the mattress, but somehow forgets her name, and she spends the next day pining over him, as just thinking of him makes her cream her knickers.

I could go on but I think you get the picture."

I see lol

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

A womans anatomy is far more complex than a blokes, it requires far more stimulation. Both mentally and physically. You could probably skip the experienced part if you had a tongue like Gene Simmons though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone is very good at it. "

And I'd say there will be them that have had many partners and still not good?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d like a man who doesn’t think media standards are what all women want.

The ‘ladies first’ bollocks, oral for hours, multiple orgasms, squirting...

They are not goals, they are things that some people want some of the time, some can’t ever achieve and some don’t ever want.

Experience doesn’t equate to skill or technique, it just means they’ve had a shag before. Confidence and knowledge is way better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like a man who doesn’t think media standards are what all women want.

The ‘ladies first’ bollocks, oral for hours, multiple orgasms, squirting...

They are not goals, they are things that some people want some of the time, some can’t ever achieve and some don’t ever want.

Experience doesn’t equate to skill or technique, it just means they’ve had a shag before. Confidence and knowledge is way better.

"

Couldn’t agree more, but I’d also add my reason for preferring ‘experienced’ men - some of the less experienced swinging guys are not used to playing in front of others or sharing and/or get possessive. As someone who loves clubs and parties this has caused issues in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same applies to women. I want a woman that is confident, enjoys sex and is happy to take control when she feels like and be comfortable with me doing the same when I want. Lack of experience for me can lead to a lack of connection and then the sex isn’t always so good.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’d like a man who doesn’t think media standards are what all women want.

The ‘ladies first’ bollocks, oral for hours, multiple orgasms, squirting...

They are not goals, they are things that some people want some of the time, some can’t ever achieve and some don’t ever want.

Experience doesn’t equate to skill or technique, it just means they’ve had a shag before. Confidence and knowledge is way better.

Couldn’t agree more, but I’d also add my reason for preferring ‘experienced’ men - some of the less experienced swinging guys are not used to playing in front of others or sharing and/or get possessive. As someone who loves clubs and parties this has caused issues in the past "

Very good point Miss P and one I’d agree with.

The bottom line is all down to communication, isn’t it.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Being good at sex is probably the wrong thing to put, it’s sharing an experience that you both enjoy, whatever that means at the time.

More than anything it’s about feeling you can be open enough to say what you do or don’t like, after that it just kind of happens.

Even if stuff goes wrong, as long as you react the right way to it the sex can still be enjoyable.

Experience just means you can read the signs by looking into her eyes, rather than waiting for an elbow in your kidneys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like a man who doesn’t think media standards are what all women want.

The ‘ladies first’ bollocks, oral for hours, multiple orgasms, squirting...

They are not goals, they are things that some people want some of the time, some can’t ever achieve and some don’t ever want.

Experience doesn’t equate to skill or technique, it just means they’ve had a shag before. Confidence and knowledge is way better.

Couldn’t agree more, but I’d also add my reason for preferring ‘experienced’ men - some of the less experienced swinging guys are not used to playing in front of others or sharing and/or get possessive. As someone who loves clubs and parties this has caused issues in the past

Very good point Miss P and one I’d agree with.

The bottom line is all down to communication, isn’t it."

Exactly! X

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

They might be wanting someone who has experience in some of their interests, not everyone enjoys what's in the list of interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some make out like they're painting by numbers, can literally hear them counting...1 lips, 3 tits, 4 clit, 1 lips, 5 poke this, 3 tits and back to mouth, repeat.......along those lines. Ain't nobody got time to be teaching them the moves I'm not a sex clinic.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some make out like they're painting by numbers, can literally hear them counting...1 lips, 3 tits, 4 clit, 1 lips, 5 poke this, 3 tits and back to mouth, repeat.......along those lines. Ain't nobody got time to be teaching them the moves I'm not a sex clinic. "

Yeah, this is what I was getting at. I want someone with instincts and confidence in their instincts, not someone who follows a play book and is astonished when I'm not the model of the Generic Woman he expects to be fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen lots of profiles of ladies who are looking for experienced men.

What exactly are they after?

We can all have sex, it's not rocket science."
these women should be admired and encouraged for any reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to meet an inexperienced man or woman to be honest. Haven't got time to teach anyone what to do xx

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

And yet everyone is different, what works for some people might not work with others

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