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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been lurking and nosing. Come across a profile where the young lady (20) stated she no longer did bare back after 2 pregnancies in 3 months..........yikes!!!!

she learnt her lesson the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Some people are idiots...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was gobsmacked reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See that to me is wrong.. if your going to play bare.. then at least cover yourself in other ways...

I also disagree with the profiles on the impregnation sites that want to get pregnant.. then before the cut off date get rid..

turns my stomach that

Dont play bare often.. but I have the pill and implant too..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, you think she would have learned after the first one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this makes me sick!

and what the hell are impregnation sites with women to get pregnant just to get rid of it again??? why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impregnation is meant to be where people want to get pregnant and have multiple partners.. or perhaps have someone do it for the husband..

but there was a few women on there that would be back every few months.. clearly having got rid..

And one woman that did it often.. (AMERICAN not uk) whether she actually did or not... I dont know but it was horrible to read.

And actually most of the men slatted her too... and said that they only wanted to do it if a baby would be raised into a loving family.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus! Surely she would have started covering herself after the first time. She obviously had a termination the first time, or she wouldn't have been able to fall again within 3 months. Surely going though something as horrific as a termination would have you reaching for the condoms and the pill.

Doctors should put in implant if someone has a termination!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pregnancies in 3 months

How is that possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 pregnancies in 3 months

How is that possible?"
Scrap that, just read the comment above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impregnation is meant to be where people want to get pregnant and have multiple partners.. or perhaps have someone do it for the husband..

but there was a few women on there that would be back every few months.. clearly having got rid..

And one woman that did it often.. (AMERICAN not uk) whether she actually did or not... I dont know but it was horrible to read.

And actually most of the men slatted her too... and said that they only wanted to do it if a baby would be raised into a loving family.

cali "

geeeez!!! call me naive but I've never heard of anything like this. I wish I hadn't now. Wrong. Just wrong!

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By *nsatiable firebirdWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

I just cant comprehend why someone would not have learned their lesson after it happening the first time. Not only that, but there is the case of sexual infection going bareback if its with someone from the site who obviously seeing other people from the site too. Its obviously one of those women that thinks ignorantly that " It will never happen to me" ...oh but it has...TWICE!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just makes me think if she dont take care about things like this only now when to late ... what about other things with her sexual health.. ?

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you would really think that she would have learnt.. I have had to have one termination... and it was the most horrific thing I have ever had to do...

And she must have had two not sure why a doctor would have allowed a 2nd one though...

and yes I agree the women that want to get pregnant and then get rid again are very very wrong..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were ."
I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it ."

I think thats ok, if you choose the right men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it ."

Well I'm sure they will get plenty of offers , but a bit risky !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been lurking and nosing. Come across a profile where the young lady (20) stated she no longer did bare back after 2 pregnancies in 3 months..........yikes!!!!

she learnt her lesson the hard way "

I bet there are a few breathing a sigh of relief if she didn't carry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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geeeez!!! call me naive but I've never heard of anything like this. I wish I hadn't now. Wrong. Just wrong!"

Sometimes you wonder what the mindset is of some people. I'm sat here just like you. If i'd read that on a profile i'd avoid her like the plague as its not someone I could respect or even want to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it .

I think thats ok, if you choose the right men."
I think some woman if been years at having a go for babys will do what ever it take ...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I have seen similar, peoples stupidity never ceases to amaze me

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it .

I think thats ok, if you choose the right men.I think some woman if been years at having a go for babys will do what ever it take ... "
have seen add s on loads sites before looking for doners

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it .

I think thats ok, if you choose the right men.I think some woman if been years at having a go for babys will do what ever it take ... have seen add s on loads sites before looking for doners "
3.50 from stavros?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"remember a few years ago a cpl we knew they met fellas for her he didnt play just watched he posted she mite be pregnant anyway turned out was a scare ,always made me wonder what would you do if you were . I was reading in a mag sitting in the hospitel how alot of woman who find it hard to have babys come on sites like this .. and more and more are doing it .

I think thats ok, if you choose the right men.I think some woman if been years at having a go for babys will do what ever it take ... have seen add s on loads sites before looking for doners 3.50 from stavros?"

make mine with chilli sauce please

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

the womans mad, bad, or flaming stupid

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

In a way I can understand some women are that desperate for children and have tried every other avenue open to them, and then coming onto sites like this to try and get pregnant. However as long as all partied invovled know what is going on and people arn't being deceived, Its then up to themselves.

To become pregnant and get rid of a child willy nilly is irresponsible not to mention incredibly selfish. After the 1st time you think someone would learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a silly cow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is one stupid girl, i became pregnant when i was 20 but i was in a relationship. The guy did not want the kid so i had a termination, still wish i never did it. But even if people do bareback and use the pill ect can fail even if you take it properly no contraception is 100% effective.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Just been lurking and nosing. Come across a profile where the young lady (20) stated she no longer did bare back after 2 pregnancies in 3 months..........yikes!!!!

she learnt her lesson the hard way "

poor babies

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


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poor babies "
+1

Never heard of impregnating sites before but god only knows as to what them poor babies could be born with or even put at risk with.

so so sad and sickening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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poor babies +1

Never heard of impregnating sites before but god only knows as to what them poor babies could be born with or even put at risk with.

so so sad and sickening"

same risks as the thousands of women that fall pregnant on one night stands.. and I have never once screened a partner before having a child.. as I am sure most others dont either..

Its just something some people believe in doing..and some dont.. my only objection is to trick people.. or to get terminations... as I have always believed its a pretty beautiful thing to share with someone.

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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poor babies +1

Never heard of impregnating sites before but god only knows as to what them poor babies could be born with or even put at risk with.

so so sad and sickening

same risks as the thousands of women that fall pregnant on one night stands.. and I have never once screened a partner before having a child.. as I am sure most others dont either..

Its just something some people believe in doing..and some dont.. my only objection is to trick people.. or to get terminations... as I have always believed its a pretty beautiful thing to share with someone.

cali "

yes, my thought was to the lives lost cos some silly cow didnt sort her contraception...nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yes, my thought was to the lives lost cos some silly cow didnt sort her contraception...nothing else"

Yes its very very sad.. if your going to play like that then you should be prepared for the consequences.

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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yes, my thought was to the lives lost cos some silly cow didnt sort her contraception...nothing else

Yes its very very sad.. if your going to play like that then you should be prepared for the consequences.

cali "

i think an implant at the very least

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By *attoo loversCouple
over a year ago

norwich

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


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yes, my thought was to the lives lost cos some silly cow didnt sort her contraception...nothing else

Yes its very very sad.. if your going to play like that then you should be prepared for the consequences.

cali

i think an implant at the very least"
Or a lobotomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yes, my thought was to the lives lost cos some silly cow didnt sort her contraception...nothing else

Yes its very very sad.. if your going to play like that then you should be prepared for the consequences.

cali

i think an implant at the very leastOr a lobotomy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i think an implant at the very least"

I just meant those that decide to do it and know they are at risk should be prepared for the consequences.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it was a termination and not a miscarriage.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


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same risks as the thousands of women that fall pregnant on one night stands.. and I have never once screened a partner before having a child.. as I am sure most others dont either..

Its just something some people believe in doing..and some dont.. my only objection is to trick people.. or to get terminations... as I have always believed its a pretty beautiful thing to share with someone.

cali "

I understand what you're saying about the one nighters or screening partners, and how some pick how to get pregnant and its other people's life style/choice.

I just disagree with those taking pot luck with their potential child's health and think of the morning after pill or abortion as the best forms of contraception/protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always be in the pro side for those that chose to have multiple partners to concieve.. after all.. it is a natural way of increasing the odds and nature designs us this way..

but I dont think that its right to do it for the thrill of gettign pregnant.. then to not keep the child

as to if the woman in question miscarried or terminated.. either way its tragic that she did it twice.

cali

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it... "
termination...a form of contraception?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it... "

I'm all for pro choice! Accidents happen. You should have the right to choose whether you become a mother. Accidents don't happen twice in 3 months tho. That's just careless stupidity!

I was set to have a termination with my first at 17. Luckily I started bleeding and they had to do a scan, after that I couldn't go through with it. I kicked myself for deciding to have her all the way through my pregnancy, thought I was ruining my life but I haven't kicked myself once for that decision after she was born! Wouldn't change keeping her for the world now.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

what happened to the first pregnancy?

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

omg this thread really boils my piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why Nat in what respect. My post was more with regard to someone who has on their profile that they are 20, already got 2 children and gone onto do bare back which has resulted in 2 pregnancies in 3 months.

I do take on board she is young. But my post was to show how she had indeed gone on to learn the hard way to realise bareback was not the way for her

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually... what i am tempted to do is keep the link to this thread.. and the next time i see a bareback thread, and all the bareback defenders come out, just link this thread and dont say anything else.....

simple, subtle, effective...

yes i can see the fantasy side.... but sometimes a huge dose of "reality" are what threads needs...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it... termination...a form of contraception? "

Oi mrs I never said that.. accidents happen even when women are taking contraception...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it... termination...a form of contraception?

Oi mrs I never said that.. accidents happen even when women are taking contraception... "
...ok il explain meself...you can agree with termination, thats one thing, but more n more women are using a termination as their contraception...its very scarey

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Having lost a child... And wanting another one I would consider a "doner" to use to get pregnant. As how do I know I am going to meet the love of my life before all my eggs dry up. I often wonder was that the only time I was going to get pregnant. I mean I am 32 not been carful at times yet never fallen pregnant then to fall pregnant. I just often wonder was it my only chance!! It sometimes eats me up inside wondering.. I guess you just got to get on with life and smile. As far as terminations I agree with them. I would rather have a woman who knew she never wanted the child than to give birth to it and resent it... termination...a form of contraception?

Oi mrs I never said that.. accidents happen even when women are taking contraception... ...ok il explain meself...you can agree with termination, thats one thing, but more n more women are using a termination as their contraception...its very scarey "

Thats just stupid then... Aint it.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why Nat in what respect. My post was more with regard to someone who has on their profile that they are 20, already got 2 children and gone onto do bare back which has resulted in 2 pregnancies in 3 months.

I do take on board she is young. But my post was to show how she had indeed gone on to learn the hard way to realise bareback was not the way for her"

Babes it wasnt you who made my piss boil it was the person your chatting about having myself lost 4 babies in the past 3 years and really wanting one so badly, to read how this person had to dispose of babies through a bareback sex buzz well shall we say it again really boiled my piss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will always be in the pro side for those that chose to have multiple partners to concieve.. after all.. it is a natural way of increasing the odds and nature designs us this way.."

I understnad where you're coming from Cali, and you're right, nature doesn't really give a shit who fathers which baby so long as a baby is produced.

But we're educated to assist nature in her natural selection cycle as we've identified what would not be a good cross in terms of parentage (shared genes brother/sister, parent/child etc).

There is another angle to be considered though. I am my family's historian and tracing one's family tree is relatively easy until you hit the 1970s and you start seeing 'father unknown' on birth records. It stops a line dead in it's tracks and future generations of that child will never know fully from whence they came. It may not make a lot of difference to most people who aren't particularly bothered about their ancestry, but from my experience whenever I tell people I've traced all 8 lines of my family (8 gt. grandparents) back to the 1500s they always say, "Wow" or "how cool is that!"

Knowing who one's father is is important to a child. IMHO.

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