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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever had the chance to meet up with someone who you like and changed your mind?

This happened to me recently

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, I'm usually as sure as I can be that I like them before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do you mean you liked the idea of meeting them or thought you liked them until you met them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not yet, I’m sure it happens a lot with both men and ladies alike...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didn't like or didn't fancy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I liked her alot and she asked me to visit her house for a coffee, and a few days before we were going to meet she told me she wanted a regular fwb and I couldn't be a regular fwb for her.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes. Should have trusted my instincts lesson learned....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Should have trusted my instincts lesson learned...."

I'm intrigued to know what happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ,

Had them change there mind , or more like block me just before we were going to meet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I liked her alot and she asked me to visit her house for a coffee, and a few days before we were going to meet she told me she wanted a regular fwb and I couldn't be a regular fwb for her. "

That sounds like she just changed her mind. It happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No ,

Had them change there mind , or more like block me just before we were going to meet "

I've had that too.

The lady who I met on here told me she was messed around by men who told her they wanted to be her regular fwb and and she never saw them again after one visit.

I didn't want to mess her around again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have.

If for whatever reason I've not "felt it" as the time has gotten closer. If I've been overly stressed or not feeling as though I could bring laughter and positive vibes. I don't want someone making an effort and spending their precious time on a grizzle-grump. Didn't feel it was fair on them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. Some guys think it's a green light when I tentatively agree to a social, and they stop behaving themselves and start revealing they have no intention of respecting my wishes. I cancel, tell them why, and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ,

Had them change there mind , or more like block me just before we were going to meet

I've had that too.

The lady who I met on here told me she was messed around by men who told her they wanted to be her regular fwb and and she never saw them again after one visit.

I didn't want to mess her around again. "

No idea why I got block , have her phone number but doesn’t answer?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No ,

Had them change there mind , or more like block me just before we were going to meet

I've had that too.

The lady who I met on here told me she was messed around by men who told her they wanted to be her regular fwb and and she never saw them again after one visit.

I didn't want to mess her around again.

No idea why I got block , have her phone number but doesn’t answer? "

If you've been blocked why would she answer you call?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No ,

Had them change there mind , or more like block me just before we were going to meet

I've had that too.

The lady who I met on here told me she was messed around by men who told her they wanted to be her regular fwb and and she never saw them again after one visit.

I didn't want to mess her around again.

No idea why I got block , have her phone number but doesn’t answer? "

Omg. Lose her number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Some guys think it's a green light when I tentatively agree to a social, and they stop behaving themselves and start revealing they have no intention of respecting my wishes. I cancel, tell them why, and block them. "

Il be honest I thought it was a green light for sex when she asked me to call in for a coffee and I was crazy for her.. But I know I couldnt be a regular fb for her and she was a lovely woman, I didn't want to mess her around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes. Some guys think it's a green light when I tentatively agree to a social, and they stop behaving themselves and start revealing they have no intention of respecting my wishes. I cancel, tell them why, and block them.

Il be honest I thought it was a green light for sex when she asked me to call in for a coffee and I was crazy for her.. But I know I couldnt be a regular fb for her and she was a lovely woman, I didn't want to mess her around. "

The guys I'm thinking of, I made it clear that social meant social only and other things that are non negotiable, and we're telling me before the social that I was going to go further than I said because they'd persuade me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yes. Some guys think it's a green light when I tentatively agree to a social, and they stop behaving themselves and start revealing they have no intention of respecting my wishes. I cancel, tell them why, and block them.

Il be honest I thought it was a green light for sex when she asked me to call in for a coffee and I was crazy for her.. But I know I couldnt be a regular fb for her and she was a lovely woman, I didn't want to mess her around. "

That doesn't fit with your OP. She clarified what she wanted, you couldn't provide that and you were kind enough not to take advantage by lying. Isn't that what meeting is about?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's the trying of manipulation on here I can't stand! Why the hell don't people respect what the other says and try and twist it? If you don't match what the other wants, then leave well alone, I'm long sickened what others try to achieve to suit their own wants!

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