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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "
no they shouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me what people do or don't do tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...but I read it in a haughty tone which makes me smile

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, they could just come back, don't put that on your profile and only use the forums anyway. At least if it's on the profile, you know not to bother messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t lick them off , they maybe just having a break

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"You can’t lick them off , they maybe just having a break "

You really can't lick them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless. "

Richard Osman is great isn’t he ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. Bloody time wasters, wasting everyone’s time by having a profile on a swinging site. Goddddddddddd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless.

Richard Osman is great isn’t he ?"

The. Chase. I watch, lol.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

There’s room here for everyone. What harm are they doing? They don’t stop anyone from meeting anyone else (one would hope) and usually they make it clear on their profiles so they’re not leading anyone on either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it’s up to them how they use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting, chatting and my profile is hidden. I also pay a subscription.

People use the site how they wish too. I like to browse the forums, I should think there are lots of people like me, who just like to browse.

Doesn't impact on anyone else. Worry more about timewasters, ghosters and false accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure you’ve done this thread before OP, running out of material ?!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve paid £5, i’ll use it how i darn well like and to hell with the consequences!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,everyone has a right to use it as they like,as long as they are upfront and don't mislead.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve paid £5, i’ll use it how i darn well like and to hell with the consequences! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t lick them off , they maybe just having a break

You really can't lick them off "

Imagine if you could tho

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


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The. Chase. I watch, lol."

Anyone else read this in Yoda's voice?

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Do whatever they want I say ..what's the lick bit lol I like to lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but you should have limited access or a closed profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why it's her for what ever your looking for I'm meeting and trying to chat but no luck so should I leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

People might change their preferences from day to day. I can think of plenty of bellends who ARE chatting that need kicking off first....

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Fab would be quite bland without the forums, it’s nice to read the threads and some great posts, Does it matter if people are not meeting people, why not just be appreciative of people giving time to put some good posts on here

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

I tried putting "only here for the sex, not interested in chatting and don't use the forums" on mine.

That didn't work at all.

So..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no rules about who can access the site or why. It provides a range of features for people to use however they want. I don't see the issue.

If kicking them off becomes a thing then people just won't write it on their profile so then it's just wasting time for those who choose to mail them.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"No but you should have limited access or a closed profile"

Why? I haven’t met off here for years but I am on the forum everyday, how more limited should I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

Someone might screenshot this and tell on you......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it clear that I’m a shit-swinging time-wasting wankshaft on my profile and advise people to ignore and block me. If they choose to ignore this excellent advice then they really only have themselves to blame.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

You have to sit in the corner for an hour and think about what you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no rules about who can access the site or why. It provides a range of features for people to use however they want. I don't see the issue.

If kicking them off becomes a thing then people just won't write it on their profile so then it's just wasting time for those who choose to mail them.

"

Fuck me you're smart some days!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

Yea. Waste of cyber space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

Someone might screenshot this and tell on you......"

Lol...i wouldn’t be surprised...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

Does that mean I get kicked off by association?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

Does that mean I get kicked off by association?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No, how others use the site is up to them and has no bearing on how we used it.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

You have to sit in the corner for an hour and think about what you did "

Shall we get some wine and you can sit with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

Does that mean I get kicked off by association? "

You wrote that twice and heard you the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

Does that mean I get kicked off by association? "

I swear the fbi are inside my phone now coz of Mamba it all froze up and posted twice.....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

Does that mean I get kicked off by association?

I swear the fbi are inside my phone now coz of Mamba it all froze up and posted twice..... "

Maybe this is one of the punishments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

Ah the double cross. That was my profile for about a year

I never once got thrashed for it sadly.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no rules about who can access the site or why. It provides a range of features for people to use however they want. I don't see the issue.

If kicking them off becomes a thing then people just won't write it on their profile so then it's just wasting time for those who choose to mail them.

Fuck me you're smart some days! "

Some days?!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's usually the single guys complaining about all the hot ladies that aren't meeting, taking up their precious time reading.

People use the site as they see fit, they meet who they want, when they want and if they want. Any alternative to that is rather unsavoury.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"There are no rules about who can access the site or why. It provides a range of features for people to use however they want. I don't see the issue.

If kicking them off becomes a thing then people just won't write it on their profile so then it's just wasting time for those who choose to mail them.

Fuck me you're smart some days!

Some days?! "

*backhanded compliment #6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now

Ah the double cross. That was my profile for about a year

I never once got thrashed for it sadly. "

Can be arranged retrospectively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's entitled to use fab for there own reasons thats saying single people who arnt in anyway into swinging and only on here for 1 to 1 meets should be kicked off i realise it was a question and not your view and i mean no harm towards anyone here

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

No each person uses it they way they wish to x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner "

I like your roasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner

I like your roasts "

You should see what I have on the menu for dessert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner

I like your roasts "

I like the look of your dumplings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner

I like your roasts

You should see what I have on the menu for dessert "

Care to share?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile."

Don’t forget all those “straight” men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using fab like Facebook but nobody seemed interested in what I had for dinner

I like your roasts

I like the look of your dumplings "

Bring your meat and 2 veg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile.

Don’t forget all those “straight” men too "

I do not play with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile.

Don’t forget all those “straight” men too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile."

Maybe they tried it and decided it wasn't for them but liked the pics.

Maybe they write it so they don't have to deal with couples who are only after someone to put on a show for the male half.

Maybe they have a select few they already play with and not interested in playing with any new ladies.

But as a single guy, really not sure why it should even concern you to begin with if a woman states she doesn't want to meet other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

No. There are times when I don't want to meet or chat, all I want to do is chill on the forums.

We can't all be turned on 24/7

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Maybe that should be an option? To just join the forums?

I think people would miss the pretty pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile.

Maybe they tried it and decided it wasn't for them but liked the pics.

Maybe they write it so they don't have to deal with couples who are only after someone to put on a show for the male half.

Maybe they have a select few they already play with and not interested in playing with any new ladies.

But as a single guy, really not sure why it should even concern you to begin with if a woman states she doesn't want to meet other women. "

Relax, just saying.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

I'm not able to meet due to circumstances I'm not going to broadcast on here

Sometimes on chat mornings before I get up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile."

We should be grateful they are giving us something to wank over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or females that state on their profiles. That they are not into women. But, clearly having sex with women on their profile.

We should be grateful they are giving us something to wank over."

lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some ladies say they're not meeting or chatting to stop men from hassling them and they message who they like.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

Nope definitely not. Tho I'd think it wise to hide profile, set filters or put on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me what people do or don't do tbh! "

Same here. . People shld do as they please

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

This is us at the moment but I’ve just had a big operation & don’t want to waste anyone’s time

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but you should have limited access or a closed profile

Why? I haven’t met off here for years but I am on the forum everyday, how more limited should I be? "

By receiving messages your wasting peoples time

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"No but you should have limited access or a closed profile

Why? I haven’t met off here for years but I am on the forum everyday, how more limited should I be?

By receiving messages your wasting peoples time"

What about messaging friends though?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site? "

I quite regularly remove my bio & put something similar up.

There are times when I really can't meet anyone.

Doesn't mean I'm never going to meet again.

But real life priorities take over for a while.

So I'll stay, chat with existing friends, hang round the forums.

Changing my bio just saves others wasting their time, messaging me when I'm not going to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Not meeting and not chatting. Only here for the forums."

Should they be kicked off the site?

I quite regularly remove my bio & put something similar up.

There are times when I really can't meet anyone.

Doesn't mean I'm never going to meet again.

But real life priorities take over for a while.

So I'll stay, chat with existing friends, hang round the forums.

Changing my bio just saves others wasting their time, messaging me when I'm not going to reply. "

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We are not meeting at the moment but mine is due to ill health

Does that mean we have be kicked off

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"No but you should have limited access or a closed profile

Why? I haven’t met off here for years but I am on the forum everyday, how more limited should I be?

By receiving messages your wasting peoples time"

I don’t receive messages, my profile says all it needs to say, my filters stop all mail, so no time wasted by anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve done this thread before OP, running out of material ?!"

Digging up the dregs at the bottom of the bucket.

Check your thread spreadsheet, have I done one about bareback with couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are no rules about who can access the site or why. It provides a range of features for people to use however they want. I don't see the issue.

If kicking them off becomes a thing then people just won't write it on their profile so then it's just wasting time for those who choose to mail them.

"

That throws up interesting points about rules and what to say on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some ladies say they're not meeting or chatting to stop men from hassling them and they message who they like.

"

You win today's Internet.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

This is me, but I'm very clear about it, even have it on my header so if I come up in a search guys don't waste time clicking onto the profile.

Don't see why my presence here is less desirable than people who've been here a year plus and never met, the fakes and so on.

I choose not to hide my profile as I am still in contact with old friends and because I know I sometimes like to see the profile behind the poster on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some ladies say they're not meeting or chatting to stop men from hassling them and they message who they like.

"

This basically. I'm here to chat to my friends. I mainly only meet people from the forums or who go to my club. I have two fb/fwbs I don't have time for more as I see one every week or two and the other I'll be seeing as often as we can. I also have a busy life so that's why my profile says that. It gives me a great get out clause , you can see if it's been noted in the message they send if they have read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some ladies say they're not meeting or chatting to stop men from hassling them and they message who they like.

You win today's Internet. "

The fab equivalent of flashing your wedding ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just changed my profile too not meeting but I was meeting and have met since changing it, so what happens to me now "

You should get kicked off for meeting!

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

Short answer, No

At least they are being open and upfront about what they are here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Why is it of any concern but their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they shouldn't be kicked off site.

If it says not meeting only here for forums in the profile thats ok with me.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I pay for it and generally read the forum, but when I want to change my mind I'm able to. Also I don't believe in false promises that I can't deliver if not meeting so I change my profile to my needs.

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