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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When ever i message anyone on here i always get the same response.

Sorry were not looking for a meet tonight.

I would understand if ive asked them to meet me tonight but i never do, whats wrong with chatting to see if we have a connection and go from there.

To many are to quick to jump to conclusions.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you need to accept that people all do this differently and some don't want a build up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way. "

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection"

Good

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection"

But you've been rejected and are complaining about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a polite no thankyou. Move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that"

Don’t sweat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection"

I would have said average but hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get the same response every time? Since it seems an odd response in itself I'd assume it's your messages that are the issue since they are the common denominator.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that"

So everyone you message replies with that same reply?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that"

Ok. As Steve said though people use code for "no thank you". They find it easier than saying it straight out, which is a shame because it leads to misunderstanding

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection

I would have said average but hey ho!"

That reminds me - would you like to see a photo of ‘thrust weapon missile pussy destroyer”?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that"

What difference does it make.

Jeez. Be thankful you got a reply. There are a lot of fabsters who would have simply deleted your message if they weren't interested.

The simple fact is that they've said no.

End of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that

So everyone you message replies with that same reply? "

I can be quite successful so not every reply just the 1s that are a no mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection

I would have said average but hey ho!

That reminds me - would you like to see a photo of ‘thrust weapon missile pussy destroyer”? "

Would I like to see what now?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For ‘tonight’ read ‘ever’ - they are being polite - in their own way.

Be honest and upfront im a big boy i can handle rejection

I would have said average but hey ho!

That reminds me - would you like to see a photo of ‘thrust weapon missile pussy destroyer”?

Would I like to see what now? "

Hahaha!

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that

So everyone you message replies with that same reply?

I can be quite successful so not every reply just the 1s that are a no mainly "

So you’ve just contradicted everything in your opening post why worry about it if your, to quote yourself “quite successful”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not complaining about being rejected im complaining that im not asking for a meet so why reply with that

So everyone you message replies with that same reply?

I can be quite successful so not every reply just the 1s that are a no mainly

So you’ve just contradicted everything in your opening post why worry about it if your, to quote yourself “quite successful” "

This wasnt a post for how successful i am its more for why arent people upfront and honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don't find you attractive, no point in finding out if there's a connection if I don't fancy someone.

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