FabSwingers.com forum: No takers ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s not you. It’s them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s not you. It’s them.

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thats ok then lol. Hand it to them on a plate and not interested. And you hear all these single guys moaning they cant get meets lol

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

There a thread in swingers asking if anyone is from Leicester

I’ll skip the finders fee this time

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Swingers chat that should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting a meet where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There a thread in swingers asking if anyone is from Leicester

I’ll skip the finders fee this time

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oh ok thanks will have a look. Thanks for skipping charge lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You live in Leicester

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Posting a meeton where? "
just on the updates. Sometimes we put it on meets but doesnt seem to make any difference lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You live in Leicester

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yes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on the meet today bit. Not everyone will see the status update.

Post in the meets forum.

Shout out a meet in the chat rooms.

Maximise the exposure.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Had the same when I posted a social meet OP lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

love a daring outside couple, I’d be very suprised if you don’t find anyone for some fun, happy Saturdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get on the meet today bit. Not everyone will see the status update.

Post in the meets forum.

Shout out a meet in the chat rooms.

Maximise the exposure."

Sang that in my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You live in Leicester

yes we do"
he's suggesting that's why

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By *he_forgottenMan
over a year ago

Glaschu

If I may share my humble opinion

Try posting on status updates. I believe that shall catch more eyes than the meet page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

If I was over there I'd take you up on that offer fun will be assured

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get on the meet today bit. Not everyone will see the status update.

Post in the meets forum.

Shout out a meet in the chat rooms.

Maximise the exposure."
yeah guess we could lol but then we get messages off people like 300 miles away lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

If I was over there I'd take you up on that offer fun will be assured

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thanks. Never mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I may share my humble opinion

Try posting on status updates. I believe that shall catch more eyes than the meet page"
yeah we will next time. Thanks for the advice. Getting a bit late now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had the same when I posted a social meet OP lol. "
yeah its getting hard work. Lots of time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

love a daring outside couple, I’d be very suprised if you don’t find anyone for some fun, happy Saturdays "
weve been asking for a few weeks but no takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You live in Leicester

yes we dohe's suggesting that's why "
oh ok. Is there something wrong with leicester then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you? "
sometimes we do and you wait hours for a reply and give up. Then they message and expect you to rush out and meet them late lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You live in Leicester

yes we dohe's suggesting that's why oh ok. Is there something wrong with leicester then ?"
I love Leicester been many times to St Nicholas square area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you? "

Mail people. Chat. Meet.

Do you have a social meet first OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You live in Leicester

yes we dohe's suggesting that's why oh ok. Is there something wrong with leicester then ?I love Leicester been many times to St Nicholas square area "
yeah we have some good pubs and clubs and nice shopping centre. A nice busy place.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you? sometimes we do and you wait hours for a reply and give up. Then they message and expect you to rush out and meet them late lol. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you?

Mail people. Chat. Meet.

Do you have a social meet first OP? "
sometimes we do. Mostly we just jump in and have fun if everyones happy

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Manchester man here bored shitless if anyone wants to message me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh yes, that's another thing, they think you will be desparate enough to meet anyway despite preferences if they leave it late enough. I post meets several days in advance then get a load of inbox messages after 10 at night. I've now learnt to take the meet off at lunchtime to try and avoid this. It's not gender specific either. "
yeah exactly same with us. Think they all go out down pub get half d*unk then want to meet you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manchester man here bored shitless if anyone wants to message me x"
too far away for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always thought couples had it easy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive sent you a message to see if we click

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

"Ive sent you a message to see if we click"

Ok I will check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bother anymore as always get nocked back so find clubs easier xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always thought couples had it easy lol"

Nooooo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you?

Mail people. Chat. Meet.

Do you have a social meet first OP? sometimes we do. Mostly we just jump in and have fun if everyones happy"

We used to start mailing people about 2-3 weeks before we wanted to meet. Enough time to chat and arrange something but not too long that they got fed up and changed their mind. We always had a date and a plan in mind.

Some of the people we chatted to just drifted off, some we didn't get on. Some we carried on chatting and eventually whittled it down to the ones who fancied our plan.

It took a fair amount of 'work'/ effort but it was always worth it. We never got stood up, which is mad considering how many people do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always thought couples had it easy lol"
no definitely not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive sent you a message to see if we click"
thanks. Replied to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't you try approaching the people you like the look of yourselves? Save waiting for them to come to you?

Mail people. Chat. Meet.

Do you have a social meet first OP? sometimes we do. Mostly we just jump in and have fun if everyones happy

Some of the people we chatted to just drifted off, some we didn't get on. Some we carried on chatting and eventually whittled it down to the ones who fancied our plan.

It took a fair amount of 'work'/ effort but it was always worth it. We never got stood up, which is mad considering how many people do. "
wow sounds like hard work. Not surprised people drifted off talking for weeks before meeting lol

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By *exy studMan
over a year ago

Derby

When was you looking to meet I could be available with a bit of notice x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Oh yes, that's another thing, they think you will be desparate enough to meet anyway despite preferences if they leave it late enough. I post meets several days in advance then get a load of inbox messages after 10 at night. I've now learnt to take the meet off at lunchtime to try and avoid this. It's not gender specific either. yeah exactly same with us. Think they all go out down pub get half d*unk then want to meet you lol"
It does make me chuckle. I must be truly awful if they have to be dr*nk to meet me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

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could be anything could be your veris,could be people you've met, could be your pics,could be your location ,it's just luck that someone is around at the time you need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been posting for a meet for a couple or female or single guy to have some fun and we havent had one single message ? Whats wrong with everyone ? Or us ?

Our Male half would meet you, if you weren’t in Lestier.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Anyone still looking at this thread ?

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