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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly "

Lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like 2 or 3 of my neighbours, we take parcels in for each other and chat, hold spare keys and things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lack of community in general compared to when I was a youngster I think.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

My neighbours are lovely, always chat over the fench....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But living in a small close, we do take parcels in and say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies! "

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab)

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

With a little understanding; you can find the perfect blend

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab) "

Well I hope she is now you've called her a looney tunes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab)

Well I hope she is now you've called her a looney tunes "

Floppy tits every morning soon lose their appeal, it's no great loss.....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab)

Well I hope she is now you've called her a looney tunes

Floppy tits every morning soon lose their appeal, it's no great loss..... "

Tut at you Xperia no need for that

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There is a lack of community in general compared to when I was a youngster I think. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab)

Well I hope she is now you've called her a looney tunes

Floppy tits every morning soon lose their appeal, it's no great loss.....

Tut at you Xperia no need for that "

I'm sorry, you know I could look at yours all day long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab) "

vacuum............ok.im leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lack of community in general compared to when I was a youngster I think.

Agreed"

I think ppl use that as an excuse to not get involved. Community spirit doesn't just exist, it's created, by ppl aka us.....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have no neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies!

TRUTH!!!

They're not all that and she also vaccums her driveway, I think she's insane....

(hope to fuck she's not on fab)

vacuum............ok.im leaving"

Yeah she goes out and vacuums the gutter and cleans off the yellow lines too, it's fascinating to observe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our nearest neighbours hate us because obviously we are a venue for parties and they don’t like the loud music..we were here first!! We don’t know any of the other neighbours though.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our nearest neighbours hate us because obviously we are a venue for parties and they don’t like the loud music..we were here first!! We don’t know any of the other neighbours though.

Danish x"

Where's my invite?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I adore my neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly "

You live opposite me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our nearest neighbours hate us because obviously we are a venue for parties and they don’t like the loud music..we were here first!! We don’t know any of the other neighbours though.

Danish x

Where's my invite? "

When we win the lottery (that we don’t play) we would turn this place into a swingers paradise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to have an elderly Indian neighbour ..couldnt have wished for a nicer bloke. He forced tea on you even though next door. Good neighbours are an assett

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

We take parcels in for them but that's about it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I adore my neighbours "

Come and live next to me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies! "

Agreed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. When we moved here we made a huge effort but it wasn't reciprocated so we just exchange polite "good morning/afternoon". If anyone new moves in we make a point of speaking to them though.

We do realise that it's possibly us who are the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand mine, I can't even bear to look at him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All pretty neighbour round here watch each other's backs - did however have an interesting chat over back fence with guy who lived behind me who had found me on here lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left (no) right (yes).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Left (no) right (yes)."
..

so if the left left you may be alright right and youd be left right same right,unless the right left in which case the only one left is not right on the left - right ?

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Love mine, not in and out of each other’s houses but over the fence friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clown.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We don’t have code neighbours and I don’t know who they are.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We don’t have code neighbours and I don’t know who they are. "

Code = close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most we get on with but not beyond small talk. Downstairs flat piss me off, she plays piano badly and loudly, has a rowing machine and is pig ignorant to the extent she won't even hold the building door open for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours we get along with very well...probably because thrown a few vanilla parties and invited them...think half the community spirit we refer to was because most people lived and worked locally often at the same place so many knew each other very well....sadly it's not getting better with people travelling and isolating themselves at home more and more..

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I live in a block of 6 flats and I have no idea who's even in 3 of them. Chat to the bloke opposite occasionally and also see him at work and the bloke below him just always looks depressed or stoned.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I live in a block of 6 flats and I have no idea who's even in 3 of them. Chat to the bloke opposite occasionally and also see him at work and the bloke below him just always looks depressed or stoned."
if it’s Crawley, it’s depressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even know what my neighbours look like lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I get on fine with my neighbours, probably because they're not joined onto my house, when I lived in a semi I wanted to kill my neighbour

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By *he_forgottenMan
over a year ago

Glaschu


"The lady opposite flashes her tits at me some mornings, I think that's pretty neighbourly

Lies! "

X2

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"I live in a block of 6 flats and I have no idea who's even in 3 of them. Chat to the bloke opposite occasionally and also see him at work and the bloke below him just always looks depressed or stoned. if it’s Crawley, it’s depressed. "

Actually, I think it's just his natural expression - like the miserable equivalent of "resting bitch-face".

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By *he_forgottenMan
over a year ago

Glaschu

[Removed by poster at 23/03/19 19:03:06]

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By *he_forgottenMan
over a year ago

Glaschu

Girl next door

Emo chick who looks like she just got bullied every time she passes by

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?"

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

"

Nice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

*sings*.....”oh wouldn’t it be nice, to get on wiv me neighbours, but they make it very clear, they got no room for ravers...”

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I get on with my neighbours here at olov castle

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice "

South London too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on very well,with my neighbours

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice

South London too. "
Sarf Larhden. Posh bit though, eh?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice

South London too. Sarf Larhden. Posh bit though, eh? "

Not as posh as some.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Must admit my neighbours are all great. We take in each others parcels, whoever's home first brings in the bins, feed the cats when away, things like that. Just a friendly street.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice

South London too. Sarf Larhden. Posh bit though, eh?

Not as posh as some. "

Pound your banana..two pound your pear

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice

South London too. Sarf Larhden. Posh bit though, eh?

Not as posh as some. "
you could have a bit of Brighton rough to lower the tone.

That wouldn’t be me though, of course, because actually I’m not. Hang on, you sure that’s not North Streatham?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

"

An inconsiderate neighbour is a pain. A previous neighbour of ours was AWFUL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

An inconsiderate neighbour is a pain. A previous neighbour of ours was AWFUL "

What did they do?

Did you manage to stop it?

I'm not in a position to move and it's destroying my quality of life.

I work shifts and a loud door slam at 7am makes me jump awake every day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

"
I hope he beggars off soon I've had a few like that in the end I found it easier to move

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's not pc but do you know any 6'7"" blokes who could have a word ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's not pc but do you know any 6'7"" blokes who could have a word .."

I had someone offer to go down there and knock on his door with a cricket bat

Tempting ...

But not my style!

I live alone and I'm scared of what he might do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's not pc but do you know any 6'7"" blokes who could have a word ..

I had someone offer to go down there and knock on his door with a cricket bat

Tempting ...

But not my style!

I live alone and I'm scared of what he might do

"

lets hope he goes soon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

An inconsiderate neighbour is a pain. A previous neighbour of ours was AWFUL

What did they do?

Did you manage to stop it?

I'm not in a position to move and it's destroying my quality of life.

I work shifts and a loud door slam at 7am makes me jump awake every day "

They threw dog poo into our garden and against our walls, put nails behind our tyres, couldn't prove it but probably smashed my rear screen, drank loads and sat in the garden singing loudly until the early hours and much, much more. We complained to them and put up cctv which stopped it except the drinking and singing. Then they moved.

Do you rent?

I think you can seek advice from the council department that deals with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's not pc but do you know any 6'7"" blokes who could have a word ..

I had someone offer to go down there and knock on his door with a cricket bat

Tempting ...

But not my style!

I live alone and I'm scared of what he might do

"

Call the council?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

An inconsiderate neighbour is a pain. A previous neighbour of ours was AWFUL

What did they do?

Did you manage to stop it?

I'm not in a position to move and it's destroying my quality of life.

I work shifts and a loud door slam at 7am makes me jump awake every day

They threw dog poo into our garden and against our walls, put nails behind our tyres, couldn't prove it but probably smashed my rear screen, drank loads and sat in the garden singing loudly until the early hours and much, much more. We complained to them and put up cctv which stopped it except the drinking and singing. Then they moved.

Do you rent?

I think you can seek advice from the council department that deals with this."

Omg that's awful!

I guess slamming doors are tame in comparison.

Yes I private rent - I'm not sure who to complain to -and am worried about the repurcussions

I think I need to live on beans on toast for a few months and save to move.

I just don't want any trouble - someone that doesn't care about making me exhausted every day is going to make my life difficult if the landlord gets involved.

I'm getting a lottery ticket tomorrow lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hate my downstairs neighbour - he slams doors constantly and plays loud shit music

I have asked him to be more considerate - but he just doesn't care and continues to try and break his front door every morning by slamming it so loud which wakes me up every day!

An inconsiderate neighbour is a pain. A previous neighbour of ours was AWFUL

What did they do?

Did you manage to stop it?

I'm not in a position to move and it's destroying my quality of life.

I work shifts and a loud door slam at 7am makes me jump awake every day

They threw dog poo into our garden and against our walls, put nails behind our tyres, couldn't prove it but probably smashed my rear screen, drank loads and sat in the garden singing loudly until the early hours and much, much more. We complained to them and put up cctv which stopped it except the drinking and singing. Then they moved.

Do you rent?

I think you can seek advice from the council department that deals with this.

Omg that's awful!

I guess slamming doors are tame in comparison.

Yes I private rent - I'm not sure who to complain to -and am worried about the repurcussions

I think I need to live on beans on toast for a few months and save to move.

I just don't want any trouble - someone that doesn't care about making me exhausted every day is going to make my life difficult if the landlord gets involved.

I'm getting a lottery ticket tomorrow lol x"

I understand your reticence as a woman alone. Its difficult. Does he rent from the same landlord?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"There is a lack of community in general compared to when I was a youngster I think. "

Most likely because it’s hard to trust anyone nowadays.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?"

still the same in my area.

I also help the ones in my area and get help back when i need it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Our main social circle is in the neighbourhood. We help each other.

In terms of my immediate neighbours and those I know them all - chatted to two (different houses) just this evening.

The young couple are the only ones who don't communicate or join in from the homes closest to me. They're also the ones with a full drum kit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with all my neighbours. My neighbour to my right has a key to my house as I do hers. She locks herself out more than I ever have though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neighbours from hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be buying a house in Erdington that's in a quiate cul-de-sac. I'm already worry about even having to talk to my potential neighbors as they will be pretty much in my face everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah chit chat here n there. No gossip.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve lived in my house a year, I don’t know my neighbours. My last two houses I did, we got on really well. When growing up we knew all our neighbours and would pop into everyone’s house for whatever reasons. I remember my mum collecting my neighbour’s washing in if it was raining and she was out. A lot of them still live there, such a lovely community that I miss a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbours are lovely. We all take each other's bins in, take in parcels, send each other Christmas cards. Not too invasive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lad next to me is in mine all the time. We have a good laugh and he has keys to mine. The other way? Shot at my dog with an air rifle, him, I......do......not.......tolerate but i try to be easy going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never said more than Hi....to my neighbors

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Oh wouldn't it be nice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sheep on one side of us

And we did have an awesome elderly couple on other

But sadly they’ve just both died within year of each other.

We loved popping over or them to us. They were ever so kind and thoughtful. They taught me what it is to be a private but supportive neighbour.

Their house is up for sale- I do hope we get some new neighbours with great personalities again

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the Left of us utter Knob Head but to the right of us, and elderly couple we love to bits and help out with their shopping and look after their garden now they cant manage. They are like a 2nd Mam & Dad to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may be buying a house in Erdington that's in a quiate cul-de-sac. I'm already worry about even having to talk to my potential neighbors as they will be pretty much in my face everyday. "

you never know,your may find a new best friend

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By *aughtyforcouplesMan
over a year ago

exeter

My nearest neighbour is half a mile away, exchange pleasantries when I see them but thats only a couple of times a year normally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like 2 or 3 of my neighbours, we take parcels in for each other and chat, hold spare keys and things. "

I'd hold your spare key anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on very well with mine. One side has a key and the ones opposite share childcare and school runs sometimes too. We are all on speaking terms but dont really go into each others houses much unless we are pet sitting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That song Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle is appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That song Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle is appropriate.

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Haha... thats about right

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My awful neighbours have just moved out - yippee!!!!!! We’ve not been able to use our garden for the last 3 years do to the stench of

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One side like Ice Station Zebra, but the other side is a bit of a FB!

Shame both sides aren’t like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well one of my neighbours has a son that went to prison for armed robbery and other not nice things. His mum is an absolute psychopath who I had words with when I first moved in whilst secretly and silently shitting myself as I tried to hold my ground! Now though I get in with her great. When that guy I was infatuated with blew me off not Xmas just gone but the one before she came in and cleansed all the rooms in my house that he had been in and gave me healing crystals. Still hands down the scariest woman I have ever met and I don’t scare easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know them. Moved in 2 months ago. Never see them. But neighbours cat passes my flat and came to my door the other day I'm happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well one of my neighbours has a son that went to prison for armed robbery and other not nice things. His mum is an absolute psychopath who I had words with when I first moved in whilst secretly and silently shitting myself as I tried to hold my ground! Now though I get in with her great. When that guy I was infatuated with blew me off not Xmas just gone but the one before she came in and cleansed all the rooms in my house that he had been in and gave me healing crystals. Still hands down the scariest woman I have ever met and I don’t scare easy. "

Good for you, set your stall out from the start and you earn their respect and these bad eggs can actually turn out to be rough diamonds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbours are twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My neighbours are twats "

Can I be your neighbour?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I go on holiday with my next door neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't live in an apartment 1 my nearest neighbors are a sweet retired couple , they live about 100yds away and don't care about noise or anything else ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My neighbours are twats

Can I be your neighbour? "

Yes, you absolutely can. As long as you don't have 3 little children that you constantly swear and scream at, or 2 dogs that are left in a tiny, shitty yard and bark continuously..... all day...... every day...... all night, every night.....

You'd be an awesome neighbour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My neighbours are twats

Can I be your neighbour?

Yes, you absolutely can. As long as you don't have 3 little children that you constantly swear and scream at, or 2 dogs that are left in a tiny, shitty yard and bark continuously..... all day...... every day...... all night, every night.....

You'd be an awesome neighbour x"

It's just me, myself and I. And my singing olus the occassional oooh and aaah coming from my flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My neighbours are twats

Can I be your neighbour?

Yes, you absolutely can. As long as you don't have 3 little children that you constantly swear and scream at, or 2 dogs that are left in a tiny, shitty yard and bark continuously..... all day...... every day...... all night, every night.....

You'd be an awesome neighbour x

It's just me, myself and I. And my singing olus the occassional oooh and aaah coming from my flat "

Boom! I'll get a tenancy agreement sent out first thing

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my new neighbour Bella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lack of community in general compared to when I was a youngster I think.

Agreed

I think ppl use that as an excuse to not get involved. Community spirit doesn't just exist, it's created, by ppl aka us..... "

^ This ^

Mine are great. Very sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have nice neighbours, always say hello and help each other out if needed, but were not social. Like the OP, I was raised in a socially derived area with people from different cultures. We were all in the same boat trying to get by and make the best of what we had and shared what we had. My own personal view, is that mind set slowly changed from the late 70's early 80's when Thatcherisum flourished and we became more aspirational in our desire for wealth. I not complaining, I had the same aspirational attitude and have done well out of life. I feel that as a society we have become more isolated from our neighbours and also as a nation less empathetic to fractions of society that are less fortunate than ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love my new neighbour Bella "

Yeah, I'm pretty awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great to read all the positive posts and infuriating to read about all the inconsiderate neighbours.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its great to read all the positive posts and infuriating to read about all the inconsiderate neighbours. "

You two look like you'd be awesome neighbours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in terraced houses right in the middle of another 3 houses on either side I talk to my neighbors but wouldn’t go knocking on their door enough to borrow sugar or something. When I was younger we had a lovely little old lady who lived next door she was like a gran to me and I called her nana

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I now live on the dark side of the bourugh so I like to keep myself to myself I often worry if the neighbors hear us having sex mr m can be quite rough at times but secretly i love it wen he makes me cry just worried what the neighbors must think

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does fucking one count as getting on with? Asking for a neighbour

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was brought up 60's Yorkshire,back to back terraced housing.A lot of gossip but got on well and "borrow a cup of sugar" was real.Has that all gone now ?

There are 61 houses on my road, and we have a street Facebook page. We hold a street party every September, closing off our road, our local bobby pops along for food and a boogie (nice to see him to remind me what he looks like).

If dodgy characters are in the area, pets being stolen, parcels delivered etc, all goes on Facebook. There are also a lot of professional and tradesmen on the road, your neighbour is not going to do a botched job!

Nice

South London too. Sarf Larhden. Posh bit though, eh?

Not as posh as some. you could have a bit of Brighton rough to lower the tone.

That wouldn’t be me though, of course, because actually I’m not. Hang on, you sure that’s not North Streatham? "

There's a north Streatham?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbours next door are lovely we chat and take in parcels.. across the road now theres a young hot guy who walked past and smiled yesterday.. im hoping he turns into a good neighbour

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

How would your neighbours describe you?

We can't expect community if we don't make it.

One set of neighbours, our 'difficult' family, would describe me as the interfering old spinster. Others as the safe place to leave their children or parcels and keys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 2 neighbours, both middle-aged couples with grown-up children - both husbands are loud-mouthed bullies who I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire. One wife is a snotty cow, the other acts like a fishwife. Thankfully the dislike is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One side the guy is total arsehole but I should love to fuck his wife! Other side an older lady,quite nice but has an idiot for a boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we have great neighbours. We aren’t in each other’s pockets, but we look out for each other, regularly chat and have fairly regular get together for drinks and stuff a few times a year.

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