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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not constantly checking myself out or doing make up hair etc,, but for the past week i've taken a lot of pictures of myself and thought to myself 'im quite pretty actually'

Never thought it before and always brushed off compliments when men pay me them.. but now i might just say thank you.

Are you a vain person?

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

No i'm not vain in the slightest, hate getting pics taken (unless for here, where head is chopped off, and 95% will be rejected by myslef). I very rarely wear make-up unless i'm out socializing, or a meet even then its very little.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Once a week maybe check the mirror.....

.... but thanks for reminding me of Carly Simon's "You're So Vain", wonderful song.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I lust in vain.

Either that or wait and see which way the wind is blowing.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Once a week maybe check the mirror.....

.... but thanks for reminding me of Carly Simon's "You're So Vain", wonderful song."

Not a bad album cover either, it has it's points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not constantly checking myself out or doing make up hair etc,, but for the past week i've taken a lot of pictures of myself and thought to myself 'im quite pretty actually'

Never thought it before and always brushed off compliments when men pay me them.. but now i might just say thank you.

Are you a vain person? "

No ! None of my last hundred pictures are good enough to do me justice. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a week maybe check the mirror.....

.... but thanks for reminding me of Carly Simon's "You're So Vain", wonderful song.

Not a bad album cover either, it has it's points. "

Ah no pics...so who cares as obviosuly on wrong thread

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Once a week maybe check the mirror.....

.... but thanks for reminding me of Carly Simon's "You're So Vain", wonderful song.

Not a bad album cover either, it has it's points.

Ah no pics...so who cares as obviosuly on wrong thread "

Look it up on the web, it's called "No Secrets" Elektra K42127

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm not vain, just gorgeous

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

There is a difference between honesty and vanity...sometimes people remind me of the girls in primary school who used to be self deprecating about their work so their mates would tell them how good it was,

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No... I am just happy the site is full of munters.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No... I am just happy the site is full of munters."

thats the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"No... I am just happy the site is full of munters.

thats the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me "

see, I pass on good cheer to all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't class myself as vain, but the mirror's on my ceiling look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im never out of the mirror have to keep checking i aint shrunk xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between honesty and vanity...sometimes people remind me of the girls in primary school who used to be self deprecating about their work so their mates would tell them how good it was,"

That's how I see it!

I'm going to be honest and admit that I'm vain to a certain extent. I put make-up on and ensure my hair is styled before I go out anywhere (except on holidays lol).

I won't look in the mirror again for the rest of the day..... unlike a girl I used to work with who constantly got a her vanity mirror out (checking EVERY angle of her face) and applied make-up where she 'saw' flaws and actually smiled at herself when she was 'satisfied' she looked beautiful.... the frequency was around 4-6 times an hour (no exaggeration)

.....she made me realise my vanity levels are low to normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im never out of the mirror have to keep checking i aint shrunk xx "

Do you lower your mirror weekly?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I,m not vain,although i have every reason to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never see our-self way others do .. when i go on my web cam i get them saying i look good but ...... thay say that to everyone , lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I checked out my pussy in the mirror at the weekend....it looked pretty good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not vain but im pretty certain i look fairly well for a woman of my age and that gives me a certain amount of confidence....I wouldnt have said the same thing of the "me " of 10 years ago i had no self confidence at all .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not vain enough, I had my photo taken for a new entry card recently.

My hair was so lop sided it looked like I was wearing a rug.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

yep i think i am vain and high maintenance...fab combo

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Nah!

I look like a bush moggy most days

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Once a week maybe check the mirror.....

.... but thanks for reminding me of Carly Simon's "You're So Vain", wonderful song."

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"There is a difference between honesty and vanity...sometimes people remind me of the girls in primary school who used to be self deprecating about their work so their mates would tell them how good it was,

That's how I see it!

"

and me too and if they go on and on about it, it's even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emm let me ponder this awhile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make sure I am presentable before I step out of the house.

I usually look myself in the mirror when I am washing my hands while in the ladies.

I don't go around seeking out mirrors and check myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate looking at myself in a mirror and especially

hate sitting having them bloody huge mirrors in front of me when having hair cut. I am tho very fond of the mirror wardrobe doors when I stay at Jets

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By *arklyCouple
over a year ago

Grantham

Well I have been labeld as a narcissus (by a proffesional shrink) but its not my fault am ace

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not vain, but i easily could be the amount of compliments im getting now. But i know i look good (in comaprison to what i looked like before) so im always appreciative of compliments. The best are always from my son as hes not a man of many words and he told me i looked stunning on his birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not constantly checking myself out or doing make up hair etc,, but for the past week i've taken a lot of pictures of myself and thought to myself 'im quite pretty actually'

Never thought it before and always brushed off compliments when men pay me them.. but now i might just say thank you.

Are you a vain person? "

About time you accepted them. you are CUTE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have been labeld as a narcissus (by a proffesional shrink) but its not my fault am ace "

He said you were a daffodil???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in terms of looking in mirrors and checking myself out, no

in terms of keeping myself clean, wearing clothes that fit me / suit my build, keeping myself neat and tidy down below etc then yes

so whilst i'm not self obsessed, i do my best to tend to what genetics bestowed on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I don't carry a hand mirror with me or constantly reapply make up once its on, I do look in mirrors when they are in front of me, either in the loos, or at various places around chams etc, ill look in them, fluff up my hair etc.

In the car before I get out I check my face in the mirror too.

It would be a lie to say that I'm not vain when I have so many pics of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only vain i know is varicose!

dont even have mirrors as i cant afford the 7 years.

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By *xscotMan
over a year ago

Kingston

I just know I am so handsome - especially in a kilt - that all the ladies fall at my feet to worship me.

I learnt to laugh at my opinion of myself a long time ago and never take anything I say seriously

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Hm not sure. I do take pride in my appearance and I have the confidence in knowing I'm considered beautiful. I still wouldn't like to think I'm vain though. I don't constantly check myself out but I may reapply lipgloss while out but I'm no hairflicker.I hate having my pic taken and am usually the one behind the camera...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to check myself in every car window when i was a kid. mates took the piss i was that bad

i was a very goodlooking kid tho

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A true narcissist is not actually vain. He is so self obsessed that he is convinced he is AWESOME so doesn't need to check.

I am this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"used to check myself in every car window when i was a kid. mates took the piss i was that bad

i was a very goodlooking kid tho

"

a very good looking kid that alas just got progressively uglier with age ? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"used to check myself in every car window when i was a kid. mates took the piss i was that bad

i was a very goodlooking kid tho

a very good looking kid that alas just got progressively uglier with age ? ! "

haha u could say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"used to check myself in every car window when i was a kid. mates took the piss i was that bad

i was a very goodlooking kid tho

a very good looking kid that alas just got progressively uglier with age ? !

haha u could say that

"

i feel your pain

i was once a blond haired, blue eyed cutey too

the blue eyes remain, but alas the blond hair turned brown and then over progressive years dropped out everywhere but where i wanted it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i was once a blond haired, blue eyed cutey too

"

I still am!

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say am vain although I do have a few pictures on profile. I am not a particular fan of my own photographs however I don't mind the body shots as much. I would certainly never look at my own pictures and think "Oh am pretty". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don't run myself down but I don't big myself up either. I am who I am, people are either attracted to me or not...quite simple really.

I do like to look nice and will make a effort with how I look. But on the same hand I will also go on cam first thing in the morning with bed head and no make up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... only look in the mirror once first thing in the morning or before I go out, it gets costly if I look any more often than that - new mirror's ain't cheap y'know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol well am not as cute as i was in my teens but am still one sexy mofo of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol well am not as cute as i was in my teens but am still one sexy mofo of a man "
mmmmmmm i bet you are xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say i'm vain. I rarely wear make up and absolutely hate pictures been taken of me. I'm as self critical as the next person. But I'm not totally unaware of myself. I know when I look good just as much as I know when I look bad. I know which bits to accentuate and which bits to hide and I know when I go out that I'm looking foxy. You can be aware of your own looks and sexuality without being vain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... only look in the mirror once first thing in the morning or before I go out, it gets costly if I look any more often than that - new mirror's ain't cheap y'know

"

i found my full length mirror in the cellar of an office we were moving out of

walked past it and then stopped and had another look

thought 'hmmm you look much slimmer in that stevie boy'

so it was promptly repatriated to my hallway where it was titivated and hangs to this day

it works wonders

i've only seen one other like it but funnily enough that was on a funfair

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I checked out my pussy in the mirror at the weekend....it looked pretty good.

"

Everytime I try to get my pussy in front of a mirror, he buggers off...

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look nice ... and thats even over the horses .. It dont make me vain. I just feel better about how i am looking if i look crap i feel crap ,

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I like to look nice ... and thats even over the horses .. It dont make me vain. I just feel better about how i am looking if i look crap i feel crap , "
If the horses appreciate it then your efforts are not lost

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