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"I'd be gone like a flash of lightning. Spider woman becomes Flash Gordon " It's an option isn't it.. | |||
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"Is it fair to say that most singles only use fab when they're between relationships and wouldn't swing as a couple or is that an incorrect assumption?" Is for me yes. | |||
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"I wouldn't delete or hide it because if I went into a new relationship they would know about it" This x | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " of course if it was wait for it ' a relationship ' I've known as few on here who did enter into relationships but stayed mind ,it didn't end well | |||
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"Is it fair to say that most singles only use fab when they're between relationships and wouldn't swing as a couple or is that an incorrect assumption? Is for me yes. " An incorrect assumption? | |||
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"Is it fair to say that most singles only use fab when they're between relationships and wouldn't swing as a couple or is that an incorrect assumption? When I met an ex partner on here we agreed to come off this for a bit to get to know and explore each other for awhile before returning as a couple. It never got past the exploring each other sadly but each to their own I think. It's a useful tool however people decide to use it. Case serrah serrah! " I agree it's a useful tool. I'm just interested because it seems to me on the face of it and in general that singles use fab quite differently to couples and it leads to misunderstandings. | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " I would tell the new person that I was a perv and would they like to make a couples account | |||
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"I'm amazed at how conventional most people on here actually are. I thought this would be the place to meet others interested in consensual non-monogamy, but clearly I was wrong! " I’m amazed at how narrow minded a lot of ‘swingers’ are. | |||
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"Is it fair to say that most singles only use fab when they're between relationships and wouldn't swing as a couple or is that an incorrect assumption? When I met an ex partner on here we agreed to come off this for a bit to get to know and explore each other for awhile before returning as a couple. It never got past the exploring each other sadly but each to their own I think. It's a useful tool however people decide to use it. Case serrah serrah! I agree it's a useful tool. I'm just interested because it seems to me on the face of it and in general that singles use fab quite differently to couples and it leads to misunderstandings. " I think it's just a subjective thing. There tends to a lot of 'competition' for peoples attention or desired outcome so that dictates a lot of the approaches on here. As long as you are true to yourself, use this for exactly what you wish to gain from it and dont badger anybody mercilessly people will eventually get their desired outcome. Some dont want to wait. Fortunately I have surrounded myself with fun, well adjusted, direct individuals that look past the problems in my profile and see the actual me. I tend to drop my digital mask more here than on other places. But that's how I approach it. i do agree with you though there does seem a marked difference but it's all a subjective thing as I stated x | |||
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"I won't be dating or being anyones fool again so my profile is safe. I hide it when I get bored and lose interest." Done with love ? | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " Delete | |||
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"I've said this many times before so gloss over it if you're sick of reading it. If I was ever god forbid entering a new relationship I would have a full on discussion with the guy early on and if we weren't on similar pages of a similar book I wouldn't waste my or his time by trying to make things work out further down the road. If we weren't able to accept each other at the start of a relationship there'd be no hope later on." | |||
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"I've said this many times before so gloss over it if you're sick of reading it. If I was ever god forbid entering a new relationship I would have a full on discussion with the guy early on and if we weren't on similar pages of a similar book I wouldn't waste my or his time by trying to make things work out further down the road. If we weren't able to accept each other at the start of a relationship there'd be no hope later on. " That said I honestly don't think I'd want to start over. Once you've had the kind of relationship that takes 40 years to build it's a hard act to follow | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " I do love the way that considering this is a site for "swingers", soo many posts are single centric!! | |||
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"I'm amazed at how conventional most people on here actually are. I thought this would be the place to meet others interested in consensual non-monogamy, but clearly I was wrong! " That shocked me too when I joined here. | |||
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"I've said this many times before so gloss over it if you're sick of reading it. If I was ever god forbid entering a new relationship I would have a full on discussion with the guy early on and if we weren't on similar pages of a similar book I wouldn't waste my or his time by trying to make things work out further down the road. If we weren't able to accept each other at the start of a relationship there'd be no hope later on." That’s exactly what I like to do. Need to be compatible and on the same page from the off. | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... I do love the way that considering this is a site for "swingers", soo many posts are single centric!! " But a couple consists of two single people, does it not? Unless it is dysfunctionally co-dependent | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... I would tell the new person that I was a perv and would they like to make a couples account " Yep this is what we did lol, we now enjoy being pervs together | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " We both deleted our single accounts. Two years in we re joined as a couple. I’m glad we both deleted the accounts as we would have been tempted to keep checking what’s happening I think and I personally don’t think that would have helped us build the relationship we now have! But everyone is different. Now if we get bored with fab we’ve both said we will just hide rather than delete. | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " Neither! If I meet someone special they’ll either be on here already and we’d carry on swinging anyway - or they’d be in the real world and by about date 3 I’d have told them about fab/swinging bacause most of my best friends are fabbers - and I’m buggered if I’m giving them up - or the social side of swinging! I’d be monogamous if necessary though - but I’d rather I wasn’t! | |||
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"Is it fair to say that most singles only use fab when they're between relationships and wouldn't swing as a couple or is that an incorrect assumption? Is for me yes. " And me. | |||
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"Hey all.. So little question... If u met someone.. and if going into a relationship would u delete your fab account. ..or just hide it...I know it would depend on how serious you felt relationship may get... And no not me or anyone ..just asking as i see some get reativated..im happy with my fb and my "alone time"...I just call it peace and quite.... " Well a new relationship need time to grow so off in a hart beat.. | |||
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"I'm amazed at how conventional most people on here actually are. I thought this would be the place to meet others interested in consensual non-monogamy, but clearly I was wrong! " Agreed I think the next thread I start won’t be the usual ‘find an fwb’ one - it will be one for singles who actually ARE swingers - and don’t plan on disappearing into the sunset as soon as they find someone special! I’d be gutted if I met someone lovely and he expected me to delete my account and walk away from fab/swinging! | |||
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"I think swinging is as much a mentality as anything else. I’m not surprised singles look for exclusive relationships and only do hookups to fill the gaps. It is why so few of them consider themselves swingers I guess. " True | |||
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"I think swinging is as much a mentality as anything else. I’m not surprised singles look for exclusive relationships and only do hookups to fill the gaps. It is why so few of them consider themselves swingers I guess. True " I don't consider myself a swinger but that doesn't mean that I want a conventional monogamous relationship | |||
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