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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i was wondering if any ladies out there find me attractive? Ive been on here for a while now and has 1 meet. I have also been seeing another girl off ankther dating site and been dropped like a ton of bricks with no explanation. This isnt the first time this has happened either so any words of encouragement would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, sorry I don’t. But plenty of people will.

It’s rubbish that the woman who you were seeing just dropped you. She should at the very least have given you an explanation. Some people, unfortunately just suck.

Also fab is a whole different ball game. It says you’ve been here for over a year, that could be a year and a half, or ten years for all I know. But you had a meet a few months ago, you’re doing something write

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, sorry I don’t. But plenty of people will.

It’s rubbish that the woman who you were seeing just dropped you. She should at the very least have given you an explanation. Some people, unfortunately just suck.

Also fab is a whole different ball game. It says you’ve been here for over a year, that could be a year and a half, or ten years for all I know. But you had a meet a few months ago, you’re doing something write "
thanks for that. I have been on here a year and a half. I know im not everyones cup of tea but i have to be someone's. Anyway thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, sorry I don’t. But plenty of people will.

It’s rubbish that the woman who you were seeing just dropped you. She should at the very least have given you an explanation. Some people, unfortunately just suck.

Also fab is a whole different ball game. It says you’ve been here for over a year, that could be a year and a half, or ten years for all I know. But you had a meet a few months ago, you’re doing something write

thanks for that. I have been on here a year and a half. I know im not everyones cup of tea but i have to be someone's. Anyway thanks for the reply"

I like to think there’s someone for everyone keep trying buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i was wondering if any ladies out there find me attractive? Ive been on here for a while now and has 1 meet. I have also been seeing another girl off ankther dating site and been dropped like a ton of bricks with no explanation. This isnt the first time this has happened either so any words of encouragement would be great"

The fact that you've had one meet means you've likely done better than 90% of single guys here.

It's not easy getting a meet on here, and women (and men) can be pretty mean and disrespectful on here. It really isn't the best site for "feeling good about yourself".

I'd say if you want to increase your chances of meeting, work on yourself. Hit the gym for a few months etc and maybe write a better bio.

You'll find your stride eventually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, sorry I don’t. But plenty of people will.

It’s rubbish that the woman who you were seeing just dropped you. She should at the very least have given you an explanation. Some people, unfortunately just suck.

Also fab is a whole different ball game. It says you’ve been here for over a year, that could be a year and a half, or ten years for all I know. But you had a meet a few months ago, you’re doing something write "
yeah .... Ive just recently been dropped before Christmas... Was seeing her for a couple months ... Getting along perfectly fine... I honestly thought this could be it, I might of found a relationship and the person I'd like to be with ..... Then all the sudden dropped... No explanation or reason she ends up moving to Manchester and I never hear from her again... I tried my best to find out why ... To them point I tried messaging her friend asking if she'd heard from the one I was seeing.... Never found out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Being dropped isn't usually about how you look because they must have found you attractive when they started seeing you.

It's really easy to assume that your looks are what stop you getting meets on fab when in reality it could be any of a number of factors, the main one being the ratio of men to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it bother you, buddy - we live in a throwaway society.

If it does start to get you down just ignore it all for a while and go about your normal business

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I agree with if someone considered dating you in the first place they must have liked you.

You're not my type though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There right bud it happens more often then not but just keep going things will get better you'll settle in better and talking in forums you'll build better relationships witg people who you get on with before hand chin up dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re alright! Bit of facial hair you would definitely tick my boxes!!

In my vast experience with dating apps, did get sexual quite quick?

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for this guys. I got a bit pissed last night and over thought things because i got dropped from a number of different women in a short space of time. I know fab is different to anything else but still upwards we go

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