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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." yes all the time x | |||
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"Yes but I just think fuck it and mail anyway. At worst I get rejected from someone I don't know or ever have to face. At best I get to fuck a hottie." Maybe I need a new theory like this one..... | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Just had a peek at your profile and the thought crossed my mind | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." nope ,I think some are pointless messaging because of their popularity in hot pics | |||
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"Yes but I just think fuck it and mail anyway. At worst I get rejected from someone I don't know or ever have to face. At best I get to fuck a hottie. Maybe I need a new theory like this one..... " It's a good way to look at it | |||
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"I used to think that but not anymore. I stopped believing in leagues and standards as attraction is ambiguous." | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes, YOU | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." I find it hard to believe that anyone is out of your league Myself on the other hand... occasionally. Although I usually say hi anyway | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." No, never. If i like someone i will message them. If they dont like me they wont message back which is fair enough but God loves a trier | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes often, but message anyway, if nobody messaged them they would never get any meets, so I do it out of the kindness from the bottom of my heart | |||
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"I thought women didn't message men lol. I still message women who are out of my league sometimes, because I like chatting.. But not many see my message. " What made you think women don’t message men? | |||
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"I thought women didn't message men lol. I still message women who are out of my league sometimes, because I like chatting.. But not many see my message. What made you think women don’t message men?" Because all the time that I've been using apps hardly any have ever made the first move to have a chat with me. | |||
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"I thought women didn't message men lol. I still message women who are out of my league sometimes, because I like chatting.. But not many see my message. What made you think women don’t message men? Because all the time that I've been using apps hardly any have ever made the first move to have a chat with me. " That doesn’t mean they’re not messaging men though | |||
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"I thought women didn't message men lol. I still message women who are out of my league sometimes, because I like chatting.. But not many see my message. " women message me all the time they just dont read profiles | |||
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"Women are waiters, men are chasers" na im far too lazy to chase girls sit back act let em come to u | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Looking at your profile, I would say that no one is out of your league, if anything your out of their league!! | |||
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"Women are waiters, men are chasers" I dont wait or chase. Just message who appeals to me. Lifes too short to sit on the fence | |||
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"Women are waiters, men are chasers I dont wait or chase. Just message who appeals to me. Lifes too short to sit on the fence" you'll end up with splinters in your bum of you sit on the fence too | |||
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"I used to think that but not anymore. I stopped believing in leagues and standards as attraction is ambiguous. " This is life | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." More then id like alot more it seems everyone on fab is playing premier league and in kinda stuck here in Sunday leagues | |||
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"Women are waiters, men are chasers I dont wait or chase. Just message who appeals to me. Lifes too short to sit on the fence you'll end up with splinters in your bum of you sit on the fence too" Had worse than splinters in my bum | |||
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"Women are waiters, men are chasers I dont wait or chase. Just message who appeals to me. Lifes too short to sit on the fence you'll end up with splinters in your bum of you sit on the fence too Had worse than splinters in my bum " define worse, please | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league. Looking at your profile, I would say that no one is out of your league, if anything your out of their league!!" Right. I would think there is no point messaging the OP for a meet, because she can take her pick of "exceptional men" I'm not a normal man | |||
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"All the time lol My hotlist is full of people I want to message and don’t." This lol I just don't seem to have the bottle thinking of rejection puts me off 95% of the time | |||
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"Me! I send a wink so I don't have to deal with the rejection " Lol good idea | |||
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"All the time lol My hotlist is full of people I want to message and don’t. This lol I just don't seem to have the bottle thinking of rejection puts me off 95% of the time " Nothing ventured nothing gained | |||
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"All the time lol My hotlist is full of people I want to message and don’t. This lol I just don't seem to have the bottle thinking of rejection puts me off 95% of the time Nothing ventured nothing gained " hi ya nsa hows trix? | |||
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"All the time lol My hotlist is full of people I want to message and don’t. This lol I just don't seem to have the bottle thinking of rejection puts me off 95% of the time Nothing ventured nothing gained hi ya nsa hows trix? " D*unk | |||
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"There's lots of bravado here." You can say that again. | |||
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"All the time lol My hotlist is full of people I want to message and don’t. This lol I just don't seem to have the bottle thinking of rejection puts me off 95% of the time Nothing ventured nothing gained hi ya nsa hows trix? D*unk " Ohhh you lol as long as your having fun who cares right | |||
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"There's lots of bravado here. You can say that again." There's lots of bravado here. | |||
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"Yes, but I would definitely approach them if I saw them in a bar" It's interesting - I have a much better shot with the "out of my league" women when I meet them at bars than I do on this site. | |||
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"There's lots of bravado here. You can say that again. There's lots of bravado here." I was brave tonight and it's going ok so far. As leagues go he's a 10 to my 3 | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes, you. | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes and then I message them anyway! I have had rejections, never cruel though- the men have always been lovely x | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Why would you be here if that is the case. Am I missing something ? | |||
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"Me! I send a wink so I don't have to deal with the rejection " I can't imagine you getting rejected | |||
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"Me! I send a wink so I don't have to deal with the rejection I can't imagine you getting rejected" That's what I think when I read some of the posts on this thread ... confused | |||
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"There's lots of bravado here. You can say that again. There's lots of bravado here." | |||
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"No I dont think that. I've not searched, rarely send a first message. Due to profiles as its unusual I feel anyone is on the same page let alone the same book. Looks are such a small part if you're looking for different things its of no relevants. " Cough cough inbox that WAY | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yep many times....but sometimes I still message....because u never know. | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league. Yep many times....but sometimes I still message....because u never know. " That's the spirit | |||
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"Well as literay no one here wants to meet me i can only conclude i am an ugly fucker...so that means everyone is out of my league" But you're not an ugly fucker. | |||
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"Well as literay no one here wants to meet me i can only conclude i am an ugly fucker...so that means everyone is out of my league But you're not an ugly fucker. " Well thank you...but the lack of response is telling lol | |||
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"Well as literay no one here wants to meet me i can only conclude i am an ugly fucker...so that means everyone is out of my league" It can be a rough life here, depending on what you're looking for. Guys that are just looking fir women are better off in bars or other sites. Don't let it get you down. | |||
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"I don't do bars....too many d*unk twats around in york looking to pick a fight" Swingers club ? | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Most of the time....and tell them. | |||
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"Well as literay no one here wants to meet me i can only conclude i am an ugly fucker...so that means everyone is out of my league But you're not an ugly fucker. Well thank you...but the lack of response is telling lol " That's probably got a lot to do with the number of men compared to women. | |||
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"Well as literay no one here wants to meet me i can only conclude i am an ugly fucker...so that means everyone is out of my league It can be a rough life here, depending on what you're looking for. Guys that are just looking fir women are better off in bars or other sites. Don't let it get you down." This. Dont take this place to heart or get you down. Its all bullshit chin up and like Lib said the real world is the place to be. | |||
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"Well i guess i might as well just leave this place then...and resign to being single...bars are full of d*unks...and i hate them Bye folks" You've been here two months. For single guys it usually requires a fair bit of groundwork and some networking. | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes, thats why you're on my hotlist | |||
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" Guys that are just looking fir women are better off in bars or other sites. " Is this true. Damn I wish I knew this before ... I am sure there are women looking for just men on here.I will be amazed if I am wrong. | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league. No, never. If i like someone i will message them. If they dont like me they wont message back which is fair enough but God loves a trier" Exactly bluebell. I can't PM you but what the hell you've just admitted in a forum that you do it. Well so do I. | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league. Yes, YOU " | |||
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"God no, any lady would be lucky to have me in bed for all of the 48.7 seconds I can offer " Wow that's a really long time | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." All. Of. The. Time. | |||
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"God no, any lady would be lucky to have me in bed for all of the 48.7 seconds I can offer Wow that's a really long time " Definitely im doing something wrong if he's hitting the 48.7 second mark i thought i was good for lasting 22.9 seconds spill your secrets dude help a brother out | |||
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"No. I don't believe in leagues " The Premier league exists... Believe me | |||
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"No. I don't believe in leagues The Premier league exists... Believe me " Most certainly does people say they don't believe in leagues but it's a harsh truth that there blatantly is a league and im still in relegation lol | |||
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"No. I don't believe in leagues The Premier league exists... Believe me Most certainly does people say they don't believe in leagues but it's a harsh truth that there blatantly is a league and im still in relegation lol " Chin up son, spend the parachute payments wisely and you could be challenging in the premier league. Always look on the bright side of life | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yes | |||
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"Wouldn't even know where to start sadly...and as no one even bothers to respond to messages guess i will never find out " Finding away to get your personality across in text form can be difficult for a lot of people, I've met, and ended up having fun with, a few people who's profile I wouldn't have given a second look. See if there is a local social meet or club, and let people get to know the real you, they are a great way of meeting likeminded people, and just chatting to new people can be a great confidence booster; most of people i've met in clubs, parties, etc. have been the most welcoming and friendliest of people. | |||
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"No. I don't believe in leagues The Premier league exists... Believe me " In football maybe. If it exists here (or anywhere else come to that) I'm not aware of it and don't adhere to that belief | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." Yep all the time! (Although it’s the profile mainly as messages are like gold dust!) | |||
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"Yes I do.. Which is sad because you don't know unless you try... But I guess that's the way it is " Not really. What puts me off messaging most of the time is that I fail to meet one of their criteria. Women can have boob jobs to go from a C Cup to a DD, when are men going to be able to go from 6" to 8" lol | |||
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"Yes I do.. Which is sad because you don't know unless you try... But I guess that's the way it is Not really. What puts me off messaging most of the time is that I fail to meet one of their criteria. Women can have boob jobs to go from a C Cup to a DD, when are men going to be able to go from 6" to 8" lol " I don't have a size criteria, but I guess it's down to individual choice. | |||
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"No. I don't believe in leagues The Premier league exists... Believe me In football maybe. If it exists here (or anywhere else come to that) I'm not aware of it and don't adhere to that belief" I concur | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league." All the damn time. | |||
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"Yes but I just think fuck it and mail anyway. At worst I get rejected from someone I don't know or ever have to face. At best I get to fuck a hottie." | |||
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"So do you ever read a message or come across a profile and once you've looked you think no point in mailing as the person is out of my league. All the damn time." What are the rates for billboard space these days ? | |||
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"Well i guess i might as well just leave this place then...and resign to being single...bars are full of d*unks...and i hate them Bye folks" If it's a relationship you're after then join a relationship site ha! Don't know why you wouldn't really, after all there many more women looking for a relationship than men so the odds won't just be levelled out but actually tipped in your favour? B | |||
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