FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That people can’t use some basic manners and send you a reply on here. I appreciate women and couples get swamped with messages, but those guys that actually take the time to read a profile and meet the ‘criteria’ for someone doesn’t even get a polite message back.

Damn rude!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Because some profiles get hundreds of messages and it would take forever to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh plz stop, no carry on this'll be fun

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Oh no ... not again

See the FAQs .. and be enlightened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply, unless they have sent me a FAF message. That's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t be fucked

Sometimes I’m in a good mood and I’ll send a nice reply explaining that I’m not interested. I’ve had abuse back, I’ve had the whole ‘why?’ ‘Oh go on give me a chance x’

Nah. Can’t be bothered with that.

No one is entitled to a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That people can’t use some basic manners and send you a reply on here. I appreciate women and couples get swamped with messages, but those guys that actually take the time to read a profile and meet the ‘criteria’ for someone doesn’t even get a polite message back.

Damn rude! "

Tut.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

As they say, do you reply to every spam email you receive, or junk mail through the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quoted from FAQs:

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Quoted from FAQs:

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

And there you have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply, unless it’s something really disgusting, think it helps doughnut was a single bloke once.

However when I was single, i’d have to get a PA in to respond to everyone!! It’s just not feesible to respond to everyone.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe,

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because the majority of times I replied with a no thank you, I'd get abuse, pleading, or "oh let's be friends then (I'll revisit the benefits thing later)" as a response. Can't be dealing with it. Site rules exist for a reason.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just because you meet their criteria op ,doesn't mean they will be attracted to you or your profile.

The best thing to do is delete messages from your outbox once sent.

Nobody has to reply to anyone

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Damn rude!

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

Read the quote regarding FAQS above

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies.. I think lol

I completely appreciate everyone lives busy lives and it would take time to sift through hundreds of messages. But on one hand I’ve heard so many complaints about how people hate 1 liners, rude messages, people that clearly haven’t read the profile, don’t fit height, body type, race etc etc.

But on the other hand when someone has read the profile properly and puts together a reply that is suitable it’s ignored point blank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe, "

Trust me I honestly don’t think I’m the centre of the universe. All I ask is for some manners and courtesy.

On the other hand well done with the maths work. I’m sure you were top of your class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how do you know they even read it before deleting? They might've looked at your profile and decided you weren't what they were looking for. No matter how good a message someone sends if you don't fancy them you don't fancy them so why waste time? A delete lets them know you're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always reply, unless they have sent me a FAF message. That's just rude. "
also I'm guessing a cock pic and no face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it's called perogative,simply put it's their choice and like the ladies have said either they've a full box(no pun intended),your not what they're after or something better has piqued their interest or in fact your message just didn't stand out from the herd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they cant be bothered to read my profile i cant be bothered replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't ask for anyone's attention so they shouldn't get angry or annoyed if I don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But how do you know they even read it before deleting? They might've looked at your profile and decided you weren't what they were looking for. No matter how good a message someone sends if you don't fancy them you don't fancy them so why waste time? A delete lets them know you're not interested. "

That’s a really fair point. But most guys will relate to the fact you may send 100 messages and get 1/2 replies. I honestly don’t think 98/99% of people here don’t read their messages. Maybe some but not that many.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thanks for the replies.. I think lol

But on the other hand when someone has read the profile properly and puts together a reply that is suitable it’s ignored point blank."

You are simply not what they are looking for.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Damn rude! "

We reply to almost everyone, except for crass messages (fancy sitting on this), those who clearly haven't read profile usually get a reply in the negative and those who say hi or similar get ignored and blocked if the profile is clearly at odds with what were looking for. Can't vouch for other people but it's nice to be nice if the message is fine but not our cup of Joe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

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again it's called choice,why engage in meaningless conversation using up valuable messages on someone your not interested just get a grip pick yourself up and move on ,you got to remember lots have said no thanks not for me/us &the messenger then tried to start a dialogue of persuasion or abuse because they have been rejected

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Thanks for the replies.. I think lol

But on the other hand when someone has read the profile properly and puts together a reply that is suitable it’s ignored point blank."

I read all messages. If I've deleted, it means no thank you. End of story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I think lol

But on the other hand when someone has read the profile properly and puts together a reply that is suitable it’s ignored point blank.

I read all messages. If I've deleted, it means no thank you. End of story. "
and there u go op your answer in a nutshell

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe, "

5 minutes per message!, Slow typing or what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because for every message we get from someone who meets our "criteria", we also get another 10 from those who don't. It's annoying and bothersome.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Would a 'Thanks, but no thanks' message make a difference? The end result is still the same, and some people just wont accept that (no inference OP) so its just easier to delete.

When I first came on here I made a point of replying to every single message, I actually hit a limit on messages and had to wait 72 hours to be able to send any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

again it's called choice,why engage in meaningless conversation using up valuable messages on someone your not interested just get a grip pick yourself up and move on ,you got to remember lots have said no thanks not for me/us &the messenger then tried to start a dialogue of persuasion or abuse because they have been rejected"

I totally understand that and I get that most men give out a lot of abuse it doesnt affect me in anyway I just think it's polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply, unless I miss one in the rush. When I get too many messages coming in to comfortably reply to I block men, and take them off my "looking for", so I can deal with what's built up in my inbox.

I think I deserve a medal or something.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Would a 'Thanks, but no thanks' message make a difference? The end result is still the same, and some people just wont accept that (no inference OP) so its just easier to delete.

When I first came on here I made a point of replying to every single message, I actually hit a limit on messages and had to wait 72 hours to be able to send any more"

And this too! I want to save my messages for people I want to talk to!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe,

5 minutes per message!, Slow typing or what."

Well you could cut and paste ... but then you'll be vilified for that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

I totally understand that and I get that most men give out a lot of abuse it doesnt affect me in anyway I just think it's polite

Most men don't give out a lot of abuse. Out of at least 1000 first messages I've declined I've had 4 bad responses, and one of them was from a couple's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU may think that you meet the criteria. That doesn't mean your intended recipient agrees with you.

Forget your outbox. It only decreases your fab experience.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

It's not rude; I don't respond to every bit of junk mail that i get through my letter box - even it is well written on the best paper. I could nailmy letter box shut but then I wouldn't get the mail from those that I want it from. Fab is the same, you may be able to send a message but you should accept that, regardless of how much effort you've put into writing it, some recipient's will still regaurd it as junk mail and not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe, "

Nothing in his opening post suggests he thinks he is the centre of the universe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

I strongly agree with you I got blocked after sending a face picture not a liitle as a no not our type that would be fine a little common courtesy wouldn't go a miss would it

I totally understand that and I get that most men give out a lot of abuse it doesnt affect me in anyway I just think it's polite

Most men don't give out a lot of abuse. Out of at least 1000 first messages I've declined I've had 4 bad responses, and one of them was from a couple's profile.

Fair enough I take it back my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP of you received 98 "no thanks" replies for every 100 messages you sent would it really make you feel better?

The end result is still the same - you're not getting a fuck!

My thoughts are that if this was the case you would be back on here whining about all the rejections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Just laying there like a sack of spuds while they bask in there own smugness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe, "

*You’re

As we all know it’s couples that are the centre of the universe. We bow down before thee.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm yes and no But it’s always nice just to get a polite rejection. Well at least you know you’re never going to get your leg over Good point no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also see the fussy women thread,

Why oh why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also see the fussy women thread,

Why oh why!! "

Guaranteed this is the bloke of the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Just laying there like a sack of spuds while they bask in there own smugness. "

Thinking the other person has to do all the work.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Two things in my opinion that make for the best chances of a reply. That’s timing and a clever title, after all the contents of the message mean nothing if it’s not got an eyecatching title or if it’s buried in the midst of a hundred others. Time it well and it will be glaring them in the face standing out with the heading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies.. I think lol

But on the other hand when someone has read the profile properly and puts together a reply that is suitable it’s ignored point blank."

I agree, a decent message should get a reply. But if they don't, you know they're not the kind of people you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always reply, unless I miss one in the rush. When I get too many messages coming in to comfortably reply to I block men, and take them off my "looking for", so I can deal with what's built up in my inbox.

I think I deserve a medal or something."

I'd give you one.

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Exactly!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I deserve a medal or something.

I'd give you one.

Ooh matron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two things in my opinion that make for the best chances of a reply. That’s timing and a clever title, after all the contents of the message mean nothing if it’s not got an eyecatching title or if it’s buried in the midst of a hundred others. Time it well and it will be glaring them in the face standing out with the heading.

A hot bod or sexy face could message me with a hi, and I'll reply.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Why are you sending 100 messages?!

As lots of others have said and others will no doubt reiterate; you're not owed a reply. Well done for writing tailored messages and being respectful in them, however expecting a reply and a gold star for behaving like a decent human being isn't really behaving respectfully and decently is it?

No one is entitled to anything, no response isn't rude, it's just a "no thanks".

No matter how well written your message is, if the recipient doesn't find you attractive, it really doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice try, but it’s none of these things. It’s being hot, if you’re hot they will reply whatever you write within reason.

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Great attitude.... You justify not replying to everyone.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Damn rude! "

I don’t get swamped with messages and I still don’t bother to reply to most messages. Feel free to block me.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you sending 100 messages?!

No one is entitled to anything, no response isn't rude, it's just a "no thanks".

No matter how well written your message is, if the recipient doesn't find you attractive, it really doesn't matter. "

I would send 100 messages if I could be arsed to send any. I don't have a type, and I have to see a face to determine attraction, so, I would need to say hello and see a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

Read and follow, treat it as your Fab Bible. And stop throwing your toys out of the pram just because you don't get replies.

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By *nicecoupleXCouple
over a year ago

Hitch

Damn rude! "

Most girls/ couples get hundreds of messages

Here's my last example of why we can't always reply

Me "thank you for your message, we are fine though and not currently looking for single guy, take care"

Single guy "so when your looking what are you after?"

Me "not at this time, thank you"

Single guy "bu t i just see your profile and I like being filmed, what roleplay is it you like "

Me "I only tell people I am or thinking of meeting"

Single guy "I can massage you and your husband can watch"

Me " no thank you"

Single guy "so when do you normally see guys?"

Me "please leave me alone"

Single guy "I am so horny"

Me "goodbye"

Single guy "i see you are going to club on Friday - meet for pre drinks?"

Me "No thank you"

Single guy "If you don't like me I will leave after drink"

Me "blocked"

Single guy on KIK

"Hello, have you left fab"

That OP is why we don't have time. It's not everyone but this is more common then you can imagine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

That, or "sorry, I'm not interested."

"I was only being nice. I'd never shag a fat slag like you anyway, I have self respect."

Or... much worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

Most girls/ couples get hundreds of messages

Here's my last example of why we can't always reply

Me "thank you for your message, we are fine though and not currently looking for single guy, take care"

Single guy "so when your looking what are you after?"

Me "not at this time, thank you"

Single guy "bu t i just see your profile and I like being filmed, what roleplay is it you like "

Me "I only tell people I am or thinking of meeting"

Single guy "I can massage you and your husband can watch"

Me " no thank you"

Single guy "so when do you normally see guys?"

Me "please leave me alone"

Single guy "I am so horny"

Me "goodbye"

Single guy "i see you are going to club on Friday - meet for pre drinks?"

Me "No thank you"

Single guy "If you don't like me I will leave after drink"

Me "blocked"

Single guy on KIK

"Hello, have you left fab"

That OP is why we don't have time. It's not everyone but this is more common then you can imagine

Why do you keep replying after you said no thank you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Just laying there like a sack of spuds while they bask in there own smugness. "

Oh are we meant to move?

I though you just lift your nighty and spread em and let them do 2 pumps and a squirt! I must be doing it all wrong!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Just laying there like a sack of spuds while they bask in there own smugness.

Oh are we meant to move?

I though you just lift your nighty and spread em and let them do 2 pumps and a squirt! I must be doing it all wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

Most girls/ couples get hundreds of messages

Here's my last example of why we can't always reply

Me "thank you for your message, we are fine though and not currently looking for single guy, take care"

Single guy "so when your looking what are you after?"

Me "not at this time, thank you"

Single guy "bu t i just see your profile and I like being filmed, what roleplay is it you like "

Me "I only tell people I am or thinking of meeting"

Single guy "I can massage you and your husband can watch"

Me " no thank you"

Single guy "so when do you normally see guys?"

Me "please leave me alone"

Single guy "I am so horny"

Me "goodbye"

Single guy "i see you are going to club on Friday - meet for pre drinks?"

Me "No thank you"

Single guy "If you don't like me I will leave after drink"

Me "blocked"

Single guy on KIK

"Hello, have you left fab"

That OP is why we don't have time. It's not everyone but this is more common then you can imagine

You have to block after saying no. I tell them they are not what I'm looking for. That way they don't get the idea they might be, at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can't be arsed to reply to a message imagine what they will be like in bed

Just laying there like a sack of spuds while they bask in there own smugness.

Oh are we meant to move?

I though you just lift your nighty and spread em and let them do 2 pumps and a squirt! I must be doing it all wrong!

They are supposed to lift your nighty for you.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

Read and follow, treat it as your Fab Bible. And stop throwing your toys out of the pram just because you don't get replies. "

Just read that thread and it is brilliant.

More people should read it. It should be recommended on joining fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok say u get 50 random messages a day also have established friends who u know u like of even fuck who u have regular too and fro conversations with most of the day

It takes say 10 secs to look at each of there messages as well as maybe 30 secs to respond to each one of there friends thats before reading the drivel some of the crazys send as well as the genuine essays some send at the same time your still having a conversation with friends and doing work housework or whatever never mind the forum threads there possibly involved in

Now you see how much time would have to be dedecated to answering random well thought out messages

My advise buck up kid stop twittering and move on there not being rude they just have lives

Ps my finger now hurts from typing

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Ok say u get 50 random messages a day also have established friends who u know u like of even fuck who u have regular too and fro conversations with most of the day

Now you see how much time would have to be dedecated to answering random well thought out messages

My advise buck up kid stop twittering and move on there not being rude they just have lives

Ps my finger now hurts from typing

Really do you ladies do you get the brunt of it well hey that is the law of averages on here. And if after all that I get a reply I think that’s a little lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "
it's the never ending whinge ,so many complain about it but the nature of the beast is that they can't reply to everyone, not enough hours in the day ,you'll just have to get used to it

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Damn rude! "

Same with people who don't use the forum search facility for threads and questions before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reply because if I do, when the filters are put back on, it means that person can continue to message which makes the filters pointless.

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over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Damn rude!

Same with people who don't use the forum search facility for threads and questions before.

Or the site FAQs that explain how this works.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Please have the decency to reply to every post on your thread before accusing others of being rude OP. Oh and read the faq section.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Please have the decency to reply to every post on your thread before accusing others of being rude OP. Oh and read the faq section.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a bit like coming into someone's house and complaining about the house rules. If the rules in the house say take your shoes off, take your shoes off.

The house rules here include delete without reply means no thank you. End of.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Damn rude! "

You've mailed me twice

You don't meet my 'criteria'

I don't reply to people who can't read my profile.

I'm not the rude one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the majority of times I replied with a no thank you, I'd get abuse, pleading, or "oh let's be friends then (I'll revisit the benefits thing later)" as a response. Can't be dealing with it. Site rules exist for a reason. "

This is exactly why! Couldn’t have said it better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started life here replying to every message as I like to think I'm polite. Amazing how I have changed, sometimes I reply depending on my mood, but often I don't

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I started life here replying to every message as I like to think I'm polite. Amazing how I have changed, sometimes I reply depending on my mood, but often I don't "

Me too. The bad sizeable minority and appalling few ruin it for everyone else.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Damn rude!

You've mailed me twice

You don't meet my 'criteria'

I don't reply to people who can't read my profile.

I'm not the rude one "

case closed.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Damn rude!

You've mailed me twice

You don't meet my 'criteria'

I don't reply to people who can't read my profile.

I'm not the rude one

case closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an open and shut case

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I started life here replying to every message as I like to think I'm polite. Amazing how I have changed, sometimes I reply depending on my mood, but often I don't

Me too. The bad sizeable minority and appalling few ruin it for everyone else. "

I thought so bloody bad people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus it was only a question lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

One that's been asked a million times!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

Which would be unnecessary if you read other similar threads and the faq section. Did you answer every post on this thread out of interest?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

Asked crankily.

And now you have an answer.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

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he never answered me shall I block ?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

he never answered me shall I block ?"

Nah..I wouldn't bother..

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Because it's our life and we do what we want with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "

Experiment, for you why dont you respond to every thread in the i introductions forum?

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Take it our leave it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

Suck it up buttercup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

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it's nowhere near same thing

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

it's nowhere near same thing

It is. We all approached him with the idea of interaction and it's ignorant not to respond.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

it's nowhere near same thing

It is. We all approached him with the idea of interaction and it's ignorant not to respond."

Yes

don't start a thread if you are not prepared to respond to people who have taken the time to reply to you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1 thing that single men here in particular need to accept is that you will need to send many messages over a long period of time, mainly getting no response or meets - and to keep your sanity and determination up. Those who can't or won't are not suited to being here and are better finding some other way to meet people.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Jesus it was only a question lol

You haven't replied to many of the posters on here, it's the same thing really

it's nowhere near same thing

It is.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Damn rude! "

I always reply. But then no one really messaged us! Lol

Smile, if they don’t bother replying you’ve had a lucky escape xx NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some profiles get hundreds of messages and it would take forever to reply. "

Exactly ... booom! Xxx

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

And the forums are public and you invite anyone to resond here.

Except you can't use here to get round being block.

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I hate block

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I love lamp

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Lamp shade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "

Fuck you

Joking

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude!

We get on average 60/90 emails a day

60 x 5 minutes to reply = 3 hours of our day wasted

Stop complaining & get over yourself,

Your not the center of the universe, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude! "

Use your imagination OP, I don't send messages, but if I did, I would imagine a carlsberg style reply along the lines of:-

"If only I had the body confidence to meet someone as perfect as you. Your message has encouraged me on a journey to improve my self to a point where I could meet you and shag your brains out.

Hope you are still there when I achieve this nirvana xx"

So much better than the "no chance fatty" that they would actually reply

No reply = No interest, simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus it was only a question lol"

An ignorant one, so accept the responses you're getting.

Would you reply to 500 messages in a day? No. It's unfair to say " thanks, but no thanks" to some and not others. Most people say a delete is their way of saying no thankyou. Unread is exactly that. Unread. It's not rocket science.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Lamp shade "

Sun glasses.

I think we turned this topic into a word game?

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