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"You men can be fussy too you know " Guilty | |||
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"You men can be fussy too you know Guilty " See, there’s one right here | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P" Precisely. Some blokes (not all) give the impression that they assume we are just waiting for that next message so we can hop skip and jump over hoops just so they can blow their beans. | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P Precisely. Some blokes (not all) give the impression that they assume we are just waiting for that next message so we can hop skip and jump over hoops just so they can blow their beans." But being on here means shag fest ... doesn't it? | |||
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"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate " The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes | |||
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"Il fuck who i want not because a guy has sent me a hiya message with a dick pic attached" | |||
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"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes" Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs! | |||
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"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs! " As you're a bloke .. I'd expect a squirt or 2 to be a prerequisite | |||
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"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile. " well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it? | |||
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"Would you prefer they didn’t reply at all? Can’t please all of the people all of the time I’ve lesrned " No. If someone asked me a question and I didn't find her attractive.. I would still have the decency to answer the question. | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women . Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time . So , quite simply , a woman gets to pick one from ten men at any given time . Unlike other apps which are much more evenly balanced . As is the real world , night clubs , pubs etc where women and men are pretty much equal . Why is this ? Because men are wired to get off on meaningless nsa sex much more than women . And they can get that from fab with couples , TVs , or on the odd occasion from a woman . And as most men on here are attached , it’s ideal as there’s less likelihood of getting caught and pretty much everyone they meet know they are cheating . Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . | |||
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"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile. well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it? " | |||
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"Rant all you like. I will only meet men I am extremely attracted to. That is my preference and my prerogative. Will not settle for anything less. Thankfully, Fab hasn’t let me down in that regard. lots of hot men to choose from! " So no ranty fuckers for you then? | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " Welcome to 90% of the females on fab | |||
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"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever Danish x" That depends on the man. | |||
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"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile. well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it? " But I don’t get it? Absolutely everyone is entitled to have preferences. I like it when men state on their profile the type of women they like; if it doesn’t describe me, I won’t waste my time or their time by messaging them | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P" | |||
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"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever Danish x" For some men any hole is a goal | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women . Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time . So , quite simply , a woman gets to pick one from ten men at any given time . Unlike other apps which are much more evenly balanced . As is the real world , night clubs , pubs etc where women and men are pretty much equal . Why is this ? Because men are wired to get off on meaningless nsa sex much more than women . And they can get that from fab with couples , TVs , or on the odd occasion from a woman . And as most men on here are attached , it’s ideal as there’s less likelihood of getting caught and pretty much everyone they meet know they are cheating . Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ." | |||
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"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever Danish x For some men any hole is a goal " I'd better put protection on the downstairs loo overflow pipe then | |||
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"100% they’re allowed to be picky, imagine getting 200 messages a second n see how responsive you are lol. It’s simple fact women are outnumbered massively on this site Dnt take it personally Happy fabbing" I get maybe 30 messages a day at absolute most (more atm cause I’m in the hot pics). When I have single men blocked, I get none (unless from female friends). And I’m still entitled to be fussy. It doesn’t matter how many messages anyone gets, everyone can be as fussy as they like | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ." Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " I know, it's bloody awful, I thought we were all here just to shag anyone that asked, can't we just shut up, open our legs then fuck off? | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " What makes them arrogant?? | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering " Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " That’s not how you worded it to begin with. And yes, there is. Mine probably being one of them. But if it works for them, then oh well. I just worry about my own profile. | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " Maybe they're just informative? | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " Unfortunately woman want 1 man out off a 1000 so 999 men have to be eradicated somehow and the only way of doing it is gunning down their appearance and intelligence. | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant Unfortunately woman want 1 man out off a 1000 so 999 men have to be eradicated somehow and the only way of doing it is gunning down their appearance and intelligence." DDT may help | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " I started with the nicest profile ever. It’s gradually got more to the point and more specific. I don’t see an issue in being specific in what you’re looking for. Not that it really makes a difference anyway as most people obviously don’t bother reading it. | |||
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"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile. " I imagine they would see a person who knew what they wanted, rather than just vagina. | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " Just as you're entitled to that opinion, so they're entitled to ask for what they want. If it doesn't appeal to you then obviously they're not the person for you. I can't really understand why other people's profiles would irritate you so much. They're clearly not the kind of people you want to meet so just move on, no need for the big rant... Unless of course its because you feel a bit put out that they're excluding you or that they can do it and you can't. | |||
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"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs! As you're a bloke .. I'd expect a squirt or 2 to be a prerequisite " Oh go on then, if you insist | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women . Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time . So , quite simply , a woman gets to pick one from ten men at any given time . Unlike other apps which are much more evenly balanced . As is the real world , night clubs , pubs etc where women and men are pretty much equal . Why is this ? Because men are wired to get off on meaningless nsa sex much more than women . And they can get that from fab with couples , TVs , or on the odd occasion from a woman . And as most men on here are attached , it’s ideal as there’s less likelihood of getting caught and pretty much everyone they meet know they are cheating . Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ." Ive punched above my weight sometimes and below my weight too. Its not always about looks for many on here | |||
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"that is a small man.... 8 inches? i'm only little too at 5'4 but would struggle to hold his hand " At 8” you could use him as a dildo hun xx | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. I started with the nicest profile ever. It’s gradually got more to the point and more specific. I don’t see an issue in being specific in what you’re looking for. Not that it really makes a difference anyway as most people obviously don’t bother reading it. " Oh for sure. Cool, sex, interest, great! After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters. After more: are people really this stupid and rude? More: oh ffs you morons. Etc. It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off! | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " Not taking the piss but it a website for SEX not dating so if you want SEX you want the best hottest sex you can get so why go for chop liver when there so much steak out there... | |||
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"The way I see it, coming on Fab is a risky business, being exposed as a swinger, for some could have a negative impact on there lives. So why take such a huge risk and not get what you want? " That too. A lot of guys expect me to jump to and fuck them on the basis of a dozen words or so. Absolutely not. Too much risk involved. It might be NSA, not meaningful emotionally, but I still consider my safety, my anonymity, etc. | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. " | |||
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"The way I see it, coming on Fab is a risky business, being exposed as a swinger, for some could have a negative impact on there lives. So why take such a huge risk and not get what you want? " | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. I started with the nicest profile ever. It’s gradually got more to the point and more specific. I don’t see an issue in being specific in what you’re looking for. Not that it really makes a difference anyway as most people obviously don’t bother reading it. Oh for sure. Cool, sex, interest, great! After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters. After more: are people really this stupid and rude? More: oh ffs you morons. Etc. It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off! " I found it quite entertaining and funny at first. That soon wears off. I’m just not feeling it at all at the moment hence the hidden profile. Maybe my mojo will return | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. I started with the nicest profile ever. It’s gradually got more to the point and more specific. I don’t see an issue in being specific in what you’re looking for. Not that it really makes a difference anyway as most people obviously don’t bother reading it. Oh for sure. Cool, sex, interest, great! After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters. After more: are people really this stupid and rude? More: oh ffs you morons. Etc. It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off! I found it quite entertaining and funny at first. That soon wears off. I’m just not feeling it at all at the moment hence the hidden profile. Maybe my mojo will return " I hear you. The at times deluge of crap can be disheartening. | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. " We all know that the majority of guys wouldn’t date a woman from here . So it’s hardly news to read that you think it doesn’t make them look good . And least of all , do you really think they’re bothered by what we think on the forum ? I didn’t say anyone was only fuckable because guys didn’t have any other choice . I merely stated a fact , that women on here have a massive choice compared to other apps and the real world . Hence they can , and often do make rules and have preferences that wouldn’t carry any weight in the real world . If you interpret that as that men only fuck you because they have no other choice then that’s cool with me . You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South . | |||
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"Don't get the issue.. many male profiles request exceptional females only too.. I simply step to the side and remove that from my viewing as we clearly aren't compatible. If I worried about how many men I wasn't suitable for on here I'd be miserable so I don't. " Quite. I did/ do block the profiles that say, under size 12 only fatties need not apply, but that's because that's unnecessary in its wording and I'm not going to meet their criteria any time soon if ever, so I'll make it so I don't clutter up their search. | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me." But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do? | |||
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"If I didn't get any messages and got no attention, I'd still have standards. Sex isn't the be all and end all! Respect, safety, consent, and preferences trump my libido by a very long way. " | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. We all know that the majority of guys wouldn’t date a woman from here . So it’s hardly news to read that you think it doesn’t make them look good . And least of all , do you really think they’re bothered by what we think on the forum ? I didn’t say anyone was only fuckable because guys didn’t have any other choice . I merely stated a fact , that women on here have a massive choice compared to other apps and the real world . Hence they can , and often do make rules and have preferences that wouldn’t carry any weight in the real world . If you interpret that as that men only fuck you because they have no other choice then that’s cool with me . You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South ." It’s your turn of phrase that I didn’t care for. Who is to say people are ‘punching above their weight’? The attractive person with an ugly personality or the unattractive person with the amazing personality? All subjective. | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me. But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?" I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood. | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me. But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do? I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood. " See fussy | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me." You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me. You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. " You can consider then decline, too. | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me. But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do? I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood. See fussy " No. That's called a choice. If I was fussy, I wouldn't have opted for them in the first place. Anyway | |||
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" Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change . Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. We all know that the majority of guys wouldn’t date a woman from here . So it’s hardly news to read that you think it doesn’t make them look good . And least of all , do you really think they’re bothered by what we think on the forum ? I didn’t say anyone was only fuckable because guys didn’t have any other choice . I merely stated a fact , that women on here have a massive choice compared to other apps and the real world . Hence they can , and often do make rules and have preferences that wouldn’t carry any weight in the real world . If you interpret that as that men only fuck you because they have no other choice then that’s cool with me . You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South . It’s your turn of phrase that I didn’t care for. Who is to say people are ‘punching above their weight’? The attractive person with an ugly personality or the unattractive person with the amazing personality? All subjective. " I agree with you , it’s very subjective . I would say both with regard to single women on fab . A single guy can have a great personality and be physically an Adonis , yet will struggle to get an answer to a message . A single woman can be anything from Waynetta Slob to Katie Hopkins and still be inundated with offers . This is what I was eluding to . Perhaps the ‘punching above ones weight’ was a bit tactless on my part . | |||
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"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut. I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me. You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. Another selfie entitled guy if you had a clue what some guy's send to the women even one with partners you would see this another way I s surprised there even women on here at all so they have to be strong and resilient with the shit." Definitely. The "offers" I get on a daily basis make my skin crawl. | |||
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"Il fuck who i want not because a guy has sent me a hiya message with a dick pic attached" Ditto.... the effort that goes into the ‘hiya’ says a lot | |||
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"I've never really seen a guys profile say that he's into women that look a certain way etc. There is a bit of a double standard, if a guy were to have a list of 'preferences' then he'd probably be shot to pieces. I remember a guy posting in the forum that he liked slim women and most of the thread were from women that weren't slim, or his 'preference', saying "what about us?!?". Double standard is alive and well!" To be honest, I’d have more time for a guy who was fussy and had a list of preferences personally. | |||
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" You have all taken this to personal. I don't think it matters what else I write here now, because you have already made up your mind about me. Yeah see, thats the thing about putting stuff on the internet. Other people read it. In your case, the people you're trying to have sex with" | |||
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" You have all taken this to personal. I don't think it matters what else I write here now, because you have already made up your mind about me. " I do hope not. As we’ve had private conversations and you’re actually a nice guy. Sometimes it’s just the way things are worded that gets you grief on the forums. A lot of the time it wouldn’t matter what you said you’d still get grief. Don’t take it to heart. It’ll be someone else’s turn tomorrow x | |||
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"If you get 10 shit messages a day from blank profiles saying here for fun and having no pics or worse just a cock pic, is that better than getting none? I'd prefer to get none than from men who have blatantly ignored what I am looking for, men need to take responsibility that if you can't be arsed to entice the women, and take responsibility for your own actions, then stop bloody moaning about it with the 'woe is me, the women are too fussy and up their own arse! " | |||
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"If you get 10 shit messages a day from blank profiles saying here for fun and having no pics or worse just a cock pic, is that better than getting none? I'd prefer to get none than from men who have blatantly ignored what I am looking for, men need to take responsibility that if you can't be arsed to entice the women, and take responsibility for your own actions, then stop bloody moaning about it with the 'woe is me, the women are too fussy and up their own arse! " If I'm fussy and up my own arse for not immediately running to the guys who a) send me a hi or an X with a bunch of cock pics, b) send me disturbing or disgusting fantasies that have actually made me dry heave, and/or c) can't be bothered to read my profile which I wrote to help people work out how to sell themselves to me... Good. | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! " When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. | |||
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" You have all taken this to personal. I don't think it matters what else I write here now, because you have already made up your mind about me. Yeah see, thats the thing about putting stuff on the internet. Other people read it. In your case, the people you're trying to have sex with" Hey atleast I don't try to be something I'm not. Honesty is the best policy.. I'm not the type of man who will fill a woman up with bullshit online, just to see what i can get from her. | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. " I always end up bulk deleting and probably miss some nice ones as it just gets ridiculous. If people actually read profiles and only messaged if they fit what you’re looking for this place would be much better | |||
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"If you get 10 shit messages a day from blank profiles saying here for fun and having no pics or worse just a cock pic, is that better than getting none? I'd prefer to get none than from men who have blatantly ignored what I am looking for, men need to take responsibility that if you can't be arsed to entice the women, and take responsibility for your own actions, then stop bloody moaning about it with the 'woe is me, the women are too fussy and up their own arse! If I'm fussy and up my own arse for not immediately running to the guys who a) send me a hi or an X with a bunch of cock pics, b) send me disturbing or disgusting fantasies that have actually made me dry heave, and/or c) can't be bothered to read my profile which I wrote to help people work out how to sell themselves to me... Good. " Exactly! I can't remember the last time I responded to a total stranger on here, I find it easier to just ignore! I just don't understand why men think it is easier to ignore what I want or what I am looking for and end getting more frustrated! Some really don't do themselves any favours from the off! | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. I always end up bulk deleting and probably miss some nice ones as it just gets ridiculous. If people actually read profiles and only messaged if they fit what you’re looking for this place would be much better " I'd like to set a character minimum for my messages received, but I know it'd just result in "fancy a fuck xxxxxxxxxxx" | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " Fair rant. I answer all first messages and often get men thanking me for actually being nice. I dread to think what their experience on here must be like for them to be so appreciative of a reply. I've also replied to pissed off men and they've ended up apologising for being rude. | |||
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"Some men on here think, the fact women are on fab must mean we are all easy and we would wanna " drop our knickers" for any one. " Unfortunately that does seem the case a lot of the time | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant Fair rant. I answer all first messages and often get men thanking me for actually being nice. I dread to think what their experience on here must be like for them to be so appreciative of a reply. I've also replied to pissed off men and they've ended up apologising for being rude. " I get pissed off on a regular basis lol and after I feel sorry and allways end up apologising, because I know how much hassle women get online. | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " I suggest you read some of the very useful articles that Google produces when you search on "Supply and Demand" | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question. " By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty. | |||
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"Some men on here think, the fact women are on fab must mean we are all easy and we would wanna " drop our knickers" for any one. Unfortunately that does seem the case a lot of the time " Wait a minute.. You mean that's not the case!!?? Haha I feel badass | |||
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"Besides being up to them if they want to have specifics wants or nots, doesn't it save your time if they list a load of stuff and you don't like that kinda thang? They've just filtered themselves for you. Unless of course you are the kinda person that sends a message to say you noticed you aren't what they are looking for but just wanted to alert them to your existence in case they may make an exception in your case and change their mind." As is often the case, I have a lot of teenagers message me saying I know I am outside you age criteria, older men just ignore it altogether! Which one is better? The one who acknowledges or the one who just blatantly ignores what I want? The fact my wants and needs are blatantly ignored on a regular basis really does piss me off either way! | |||
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"Ah yes we should really all just be less fussy about who we want to bump uglies with. Sex without attraction or connection- that's the gold standard of sexual exploration." Exactly .. make yourself available here lol A message to all fussy women btw | |||
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"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps? Here's a few things I've come across today.. "only looking for exceptional men“ "No beards" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ “Must be gym fit" "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant " I am the opposite, I prefer normal looking guys. But will talk to any one to see if there is anything there. Variety is the spice of life they say xxx | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question. By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty. " Haha it was you? "Im not here to answer questions" is down right civil in that case | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question. By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty. Haha it was you? "Im not here to answer questions" is down right civil in that case " I am actually quite nice in my pm’s, to start with | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here. Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them." Brilliant. Having sex with strangers and having an account on fabswingers is exactly like advertising a house, you’re right. Also if I was selling a house I would hope they would arrange it with the solicitor and not just knock on my door | |||
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"From a man who'll meet ANYONE from 19 - 99. Obviously not picky at all! " 19???? What about all those poor unfortunate 18 year olds he's excluding??? | |||
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"From a man who'll meet ANYONE from 19 - 99. Obviously not picky at all! " Some 99 year olds are hot | |||
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"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site. " Ignore those then, I don’t like beards find them a turn off and I’m only interested in locally based people, likewise a lot of people won’t like my body type but that doesn’t worry me. Prefer to spend time replying to people who I’m interested in meeting as opposed to worrying about the people who won’t meet me. | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P" I love cherry bakewell | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P I love cherry bakewell " Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells. | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P I love cherry bakewell Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells." But also I like lemon drizzle too, I'm torn!! | |||
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"I'd take fussy and knowing someone was actually attracted to me over 'any hole's a goal' to be honest V x" I like holes | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here. Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them. Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking. " But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince. and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase. | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here. Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them. Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking. But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince. and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase. " Are you saying we should have sex with someone we aren’t attracted to? Just to be inclusive of everyone? | |||
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"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference. If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available P I love cherry bakewell Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells. But also I like lemon drizzle too, I'm torn!! " Buffet? You're allowed to sample more than one ya know, if that's what you like. Cherry bakewell can fuck off with avocado into room 101 for me | |||
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" "only looking for exceptional men“ " Even for me that’s a bit vague " "No beards" " Personally preferences aren’t allowed? Although I love me a beard and prefer them actually ha " “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ " It proves that at least someone has taken the time to skim read through your profile that you’ve spent ages writing to make your needs and who you are clear to anyone approaching you to hopefully prevent wasting other people’s and my own time. Profiles are a great filter that SO many people don’t seem to use or take note of. E.g if a guy or gal has said they’re married and their spouse doesn’t know, I instantly know they’re not for me. Or if someone read my profile and saw I don’t want to meet anyone in armed forces then they know not to waste their time messaging " “Must be gym fit" " Again it’s a personal preference, why can’t someone have a type? " "I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" " Don’t see what’s wrong with that statement other than again it’s a bit vague because attractiveness is subjective " "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller) " Yeah I have a 6 inch rule now because honestly anyone below 6 just doesn’t do anything for me unless they’re purely up for oral but it’s rare. Again personal preference but some women mistake size for pleasure when actually it can be what they do with it that counts for me " I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" " Hell at least she replied LOL | |||
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"Wonder who the woman was that told you that! When someone has a high volume of messages everyday and they give you a polite response saying not their type, it’s impolite for that person to keep messaging further and asking more questions. All that does is stop the next guy getting a response and makes women just want to delete messages from people who aren’t what they’re looking for. Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here. Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them. Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking. But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince. and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase. " If I don't get the attention I want, I don't moan about it. I hold out until I do. And believe me, most of my experience here is not my ego being stroked. I'll uphold inclusion in the rest of my life. Here, I uphold my bodily autonomy. | |||
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