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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good day sorry if this has been mentioned before but.....here goes

Receiving a wink - the user wishes to chat - return the wink for the chat to start and ........... nothing.

Or would the user sending the wink prefer the recipient to engage in chat straight away with intros etc.

I/we Find it frustrating on occasion

Thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good day sorry if this has been mentioned before but.....here goes

Receiving a wink - the user wishes to chat - return the wink for the chat to start and ........... nothing.

Or would the user sending the wink prefer the recipient to engage in chat straight away with intros etc.

I/we Find it frustrating on occasion

Thoughts

"

When you return a wink, what are your expectations?

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

If we get a wink from someone that intrests us we send a quick msg to thank them, if the reply great if not then no loss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe they winked by mistake

We've done it before on the mobile site.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a wink is returned back from us ... my interpretation is that yes we’re interested to engage in conversation, but it’s 50/50 on that happening.

Would it be better to just send a message of introduction etc rather than returning a wink?

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I’ve had a couple of messages, which i replied to straight away and they remain unread over a week later. Lol

Can’t worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had a couple of messages, which i replied to straight away and they remain unread over a week later. Lol

Can’t worry about it. "

Yeah have that too ...... and another wink 4 weeks later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wank

God damn you auto correct!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Good day sorry if this has been mentioned before but.....here goes

Receiving a wink - the user wishes to chat - return the wink for the chat to start and ........... nothing.

Or would the user sending the wink prefer the recipient to engage in chat straight away with intros etc.

I/we Find it frustrating on occasion

Thoughts

"
Exactly the same happens to us. They’re not that keen then. Maybe they just like winking (spell checked!)

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

If I see a profile that has veri's and nice pics and very little else then I'll send a wink, just out of intrigue, and also because they've not inspired me to think of anything to say, but they look hot in their photos.

But they are a great ice breaker. if I get a wink I reply with a message, the majority of my successful meets have started this way.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I wink a lot,

Some are returned which is great,

Ive sent messages before lots get ignored and deleted, save time and send a wink,

I like receiving a wink who doesnt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with them, mainly because I forget to check them

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"If a wink is returned back from us ... my interpretation is that yes we’re interested to engage in conversation, but it’s 50/50 on that happening.

Would it be better to just send a message of introduction etc rather than returning a wink?"

I agree a returned wink hints at interest and wait to see what their next move is ... if there is no next move we do tend to wonder well why the fuck did they wink in the first place.

If they wink expecting you to then send an introductory message ... meh ... height of laziness to me

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"[Wink Removed by poster at 20/03/19 17:47:20]"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Prefer winks at times as some of the messages I receive are terrible. If I get a wink and I'm interested in them, I'll message rather than wink back, just a thanks for the wink. Hopefully that gets the conversation started or if sent accidentally totally ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mixed views on the winking then cheers guys and gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got winked today, which is rare, what am I supposed to do now officially?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got winked today, which is rare, what am I supposed to do now officially? "

If you don’t know what to do at your age then there’s really no hope for you

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I’ve had a couple of messages, which i replied to straight away and they remain unread over a week later. Lol

Can’t worry about it.

Yeah have that too ...... and another wink 4 weeks later lol"

I don’t mind a wink. Let’s you know they’re interested. I would have winked at you but wrong sex. Lol x

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