FabSwingers.com forum: How did you first get verified?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

On your first profile where applicable. Thought this might be of interest to those who are asking how to get verified. (obviously my experience as a woman might not be of enormous help to guys)

In terms of meet verification, my initial profile text was apparently interesting and unusual, sounded more thoughtful and genuine than many blank new female profiles. In some ways luck was also involved, because my eyes were beginning to glaze over with the onslaught of messages I was getting initially, and I nearly ran away (I had no idea what was going on!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone wanted to jump my bones. They were kind enough to leave a nice review

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was "fresh meat" so highly sought after.

The first person I agreed to meet was one that didn't mention sex, that saw I was new and was understanding how tough the place can be for single fems.

Met for a social, never met again but I'm glad that he was my first meet.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I was told about this site by someone already on here.

Had my first veri within a couple of minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were veried within a week of joining. Got invited to a hot tub so got our big boy pants on, jumped a taxi and went. From there we hit a club and it was job done. Can understand people being nervous of stepping off the diving board though.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We got photo verified first. Then went in chatrooms to talk to people and was verified by cam before we met anyone.

Think too much put on verifications and rarely read. We do meet people that are not and use our own filters to decide if want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was lucky enough to meet a lovely couple who verified me after.. My first and only meet here so far

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Our original profile got deleted so lost all our verifications form personal and club meets, when we opened our new one we went straight on cam and got verified straight away.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I was "fresh meat" so highly sought after.

The first person I agreed to meet was one that didn't mention sex, that saw I was new and was understanding how tough the place can be for single fems.

Met for a social, never met again but I'm glad that he was my first meet.

Oh definitely. Although my first meets did mention sex, they were gentle and respectful about it. Took things at my pace and understood my nerves. (although my first social - we chose not to verify at that stage - was within 24 hours of joining Fab!)

The ones who went at it full throttle in their first message definitely intimidated me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club got chatting and got verified

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Northwich

1st veri was at a club and it opened the doors to a lot more x

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site. "

Fab women are terrifying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you believe it is met the person for a social and we're still friends to this day

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I had a profile before this one. I was lucky enough to meet someone quite quickly that verified me. Then I left and came back and it took ages to get verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got chatting to a local couple, went for a social that turned into a play meet. They’ve since left the site x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

The guy that introduced me to fab left me my first veri, he was also my first friend. We follow each other on Instagram and still chat every now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy that introduced me to fab left me my first veri, he was also my first friend. We follow each other on Instagram and still chat every now and again."
awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site. "

You made a good impression then

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My first few were all from social meets in clubs

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We were fucking a couple we’d met from somewhere else, they introduced us to fab as there were so many more local couples on here. They verified us. They’ve since left and returned numerous times.

Lex

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We decided to go to a club, posted in the forum on the thread that we were going, some lovely regulars got in touch & we meet them for pre drinks before attending the club & got verified

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t remember my first one on my single profile, that’s quite bad lol.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site.

Fab women are terrifying!

We continued to sleep together for a year so wasn’t too bad

Whenever he came back he’d verify me and leave within seconds. I never read what he had to say....hopefully it was good

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site.

Fab women are terrifying!

We continued to sleep together for a year so wasn’t too bad

Whenever he came back he’d verify me and leave within seconds. I never read what he had to say....hopefully it was good

Ooh that's weird!

It made it sound like, he fucked me then ran away!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I went in the cam/chat room. I didn't go in there looking for a veri but a woman saw me and for whatever reason she decided to leave me a veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone. And fucked him. He left a verification and then left the site.

Fab women are terrifying!

We continued to sleep together for a year so wasn’t too bad

Whenever he came back he’d verify me and leave within seconds. I never read what he had to say....hopefully it was good

Ooh that's weird!

It made it sound like, he fucked me then ran away! "

No, thankfully not. But I probably looked like a fake profile for a month or two until I met someone else. I had no public pics, a verification not on show, a very short profile...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Our first veri came from someone who told us when we went dogging about this place . Since we played , he was good enough to verify us when we joined up the next day .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had sex with a local one afternoon

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Our first verification came through just chatting to a couple at liberty elite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first veri was a cam one. We made it a meet one a few days after.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We went to a party and the hosts verified us first. (It was our first ever party & we loved it)

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

Mine was a via cam first...then a meet.

The cam veri gave the lady confidence to meet me as I was genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By meeting up with a woman from a couple who have since left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got to know a couple of people on the forum and then we made up a social. I went from 0 to 10 veris very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember. It must have been a verified man, but no idea who it was.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

verified from people that know me from other sites and verified me on here.

then a few partys since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got chatting to a lovely lady on here, arranged a get together, got jiggy, left each other sarcastic veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first veri was a cam one. We made it a meaty one a few days after. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit the bullet and went to eurekas. Got chatting with a few people and it expanded from there.

Single male advice.... go to a club or an organised social. Veri's will fly in after.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I let someone buy me a drink. He still has my knickers

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

"I let someone buy me a drink. He still has my knickers

Thieving bar steward!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I let someone buy me a drink. He still has my knickers

Thieving bar steward!!"

I know! At least I kept my dignity

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

"I let someone buy me a drink. He still has my knickers

Thieving bar steward!!

I know! At least I kept my dignity

Phew...that’s alright then!

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

I met someone.... quite easy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first veri was from a social, we met a great couple who are now good friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met up, became a thing, verified, onths later stopped being a thing, veri stayed as did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting

*tries to hold back the tears*

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"My first veri was a cam one. We made it a meaty one a few days after. "

We want all out on cam and got a great responce, apparently some comments was the best action they had seen? We just thought everyone else did the same but obviously not lol, are veris are worth a read

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Still waiting

*tries to hold back the tears*"

Hopefully the thread will give you ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I robbed a bank and fucked a fabber in the back of the getaway car, she veri'd me..... ....truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I robbed a bank and fucked a fabber in the back of the getaway car, she veri'd me..... ....truth! "

Only cos you gave me half the cash....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First verification was from friends we met at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I robbed a bank and fucked a fabber in the back of the getaway car, she veri'd me..... ....truth! "

I was the getaway driver......it was awkward with all the goldfish and Monster Munch flying about the car. The part where you put the money though? Priceless! I'll veri that as true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I robbed a bank and fucked a fabber in the back of the getaway car, she veri'd me..... ....truth!

Only cos you gave me half the cash...."

High class!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I arranged to meet someone for a social.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Met someone, left an impression... Is there any other way?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

First meet was in Edinburgh back in 2013. Arranged a meet with someone verified, booked an apartment along the Royal Mile and we meet in the evening. He came again the day after and prepared lunch together.

Now he is a good friend of mine.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I sent a message but if I'm honest I was not expecting a reply but I did. She'd been stood up the night before and I think she thought I'd do the same. Maybe after she looked at my profile she might just have felt sorry for me and agreed to meet Haha

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By *ambsguynextdoorMan
over a year ago

Ely

Was someone I knew away from here before I was a member. We planned to meet anyway so she gave me the verification ahead of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mailed a guy and asked him to verify me. He did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social and got a veri that way. Never did meet him after that.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Had sex bang that easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant remember it was so long ago!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I got my first verification from visiting a club in the northwest. The club owner was gracious enough to give me one

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Met a guy for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my willy in a girls bum hole and she liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my willy in a vagina

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post. Unfortunately confirm that is lot easier to be verified for woman and couple. While writing is difficult to make a "tone" so read with a smile please

Me as a single man have some truble, yes you will be verified when you meet someone of course, but everyone say

"at least 2-3 verif for meet with us/me".

Other say if you are here since 6 months and have less than 3 verif. you are time wasters.."

Ok but if you can't have any chance to meet how you can be verified...

Aaa and of course the opposite

"I dont meet people with more than 10 verif. Its mean they see too many people.."

And.. "if you are veified by old woman you are creepy, if you are verif. By young you are a perv" of course if you are not black your range in very little anyway.

...so I spend more time in the forum, which is good, but people are offended even by that.

And I even have had a verif Before, after a nice meeting with a couple, but I was living in another city, the account was inaccessible after a wile and had to make a "new" account now that I'm in London.

Have laugh and dont take your life so seriously seems the only way to stay here and at least enjoy the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised a photo from Fab on Plenty of Fish.

I knew even back then it would be rude to bring it up. It was only a pair of luscious looking lips.

I was three months out of my marriage and horny as sin, ready to fuck like a wild thing, to help me forget for a while.

She ignored my crap message on Fab. Was under the misapprehension that every woman on here was clearly as desperate as I was. So must have sent something crude and ugly along with my beautiful cock.

A couple of months later I got a sad-on and swapped the styles of each profile around. Made my PoF one eroticaly honest.. my Fab one emotionally honest.

Fab died overnight because everyone wrongfully assumed all I wanted was love.

PoF blew up though

She contacted me within a day. My Fab/PoF woman. We were facetiming by the evening.

Met a week later, I bottled it and shot out of her house the second she tried to kiss me!

Went back a week later and had amazing sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recognised a photo from Fab on Plenty of Fish.

I knew even back then it would be rude to bring it up. It was only a pair of luscious looking lips.

I was three months out of my marriage and horny as sin, ready to fuck like a wild thing, to help me forget for a while.

She ignored my crap message on Fab. Was under the misapprehension that every woman on here was clearly as desperate as I was. So must have sent something crude and ugly along with my beautiful cock.

A couple of months later I got a sad-on and swapped the styles of each profile around. Made my PoF one eroticaly honest.. my Fab one emotionally honest.

Fab died overnight because everyone wrongfully assumed all I wanted was love.

PoF blew up though

She contacted me within a day. My Fab/PoF woman. We were facetiming by the evening.

Met a week later, I bottled it and shot out of her house the second she tried to kiss me!

Went back a week later and had amazing sex. "

Maybe the fact that she didn't respond was something related to sending "your beautiful cock"...ahaha

99,9% of woman here the only thing they say is "don't send me your dick".. apparently there is something to read into the line here you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recognised a photo from Fab on Plenty of Fish.

I knew even back then it would be rude to bring it up. It was only a pair of luscious looking lips.

I was three months out of my marriage and horny as sin, ready to fuck like a wild thing, to help me forget for a while.

She ignored my crap message on Fab. Was under the misapprehension that every woman on here was clearly as desperate as I was. So must have sent something crude and ugly along with my beautiful cock.

A couple of months later I got a sad-on and swapped the styles of each profile around. Made my PoF one eroticaly honest.. my Fab one emotionally honest.

Fab died overnight because everyone wrongfully assumed all I wanted was love.

PoF blew up though

She contacted me within a day. My Fab/PoF woman. We were facetiming by the evening.

Met a week later, I bottled it and shot out of her house the second she tried to kiss me!

Went back a week later and had amazing sex.

Maybe the fact that she didn't respond was something related to sending "your beautiful cock"...ahaha

99,9% of woman here the only thing they say is "don't send me your dick".. apparently there is something to read into the line here you know

Ummm.. that's EXACTLY why she didn't. A good lesson for anyone who isn't having much luck.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I went on camera to someone who asked for verification that I was real haha

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We got photo verified when we first joined and cam verified in the chatrooms shortly afterwards.

Mr2

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Got chatting, had a social, he then verified me and we are still friends a few years later.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was verified within a few minutes from a guy who introduced me to here and then for the following 6 months all my other verifications where from guys who all ready knew me. I didnt meet anyone directly fro

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped uglies with a gorgeous young man

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We were just dipping our toes in the water so arranged a social with a couple at our favourite haunt.

Once they had given us our first veri, things sort of took off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went into the chat rooms. Chatted. Met a woman from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From an in person meet.

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We met a couple at our first club night and they were kind enough to tell us about Fab and give us our firat (and so far only) veri

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I went to a club with a very good friend and joined fab on the way home. She verified me and a few people I'd chatted to in the club did after they got my fab name off her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went and still going on socials

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I did the sex thing with a female Fabster..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

A beautiful soul thought I looked like Hardy’s description of Tess of the d'Urbervilles, and took me to an art gallery, and more. He was verified. He verified me.

I’ve forgotten to ask anyone who knows me this time to verify me since I’ve returned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social at Starbucks I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She had two choices to make and she made the right one..

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