FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why does not having a verification fuck everything up don't want to meet due to not having one? Is it me or is that how you get them by meeting?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some people use it as an excuse because they don't want to tell you the real reason.

Some people prefer to know the person is sincere about meeting and take verifications as evidence of this.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes to get a meaningful verification is by meeting in person, and to meet in person, you have to intrigue someone else.

If you have limited information and no public pictures, you will be diminishing your chances.

So if you want in the game you have to step up to the mark so to speak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people tend to have this like a treat for their spare time which is precious. Verification shows you turned up at least once so it's less risky that you'll waste their time.

There are loads of people who do meet unverified people though.

Or why not think about going to a club or social and getting one that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got an afternoon of sex with a real hotty 2 weeks in with no veris there not the be all end all

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By *ornycpl1989Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I have a question about verifications. What is the tag icon at the side of the tick?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have a question about verifications. What is the tag icon at the side of the tick? "

The flag? That means you're photo verified.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why take the risk with someone unverified, frankly? Yes, I know someone did with me. I might change my mind with a great profile, first message, and conversation.

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By *ornycpl1989Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

No not the flag. I mean the tag.

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By *ornycpl1989Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It's under the verification summary next to the gree circle with white tick

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It's under the verification summary next to the gree circle with white tick"

Oh yea, I've never noticed that before! No idea

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve met several people with no verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often meet unverified profiles if their initial face pic and message interests me.

I usually suggest a video call on Kik and then take things from there x

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Probably already been said but go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more about the person how they put themselves forward and how they interact that concerns me and not what a stranger said about them in a verification. In reality verifications are pretty worthless to most discerning people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of socials you can attend to get yourself verified

Like most on here no it’s doubtful we would meet people without verifications unless at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U dont need thrm lots meet veriless people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does not having a verification fuck everything up don't want to meet due to not having one? Is it me or is that how you get them by meeting?"
loads don't put emphasis on verifications just go for those people forget the others

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first. "
when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first. "
people here can read omg I thought they just looked at pics

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Why does not having a verification fuck everything up don't want to meet due to not having one? Is it me or is that how you get them by meeting?"

Welcome to the fab catch 101.

People Won't meet unless you have a very.

You Can't get a very unless you have a meet.

Try and get to a group social. It's the only way to get your 1st very.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's under the verification summary next to the gree circle with white tick

Oh yea, I've never noticed that before! No idea "

It's definitely new.

*insert pondering face*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are more ways of getting verified as genuine than hooking up for a sex meet, you can meet plenty of people at organised socials or clubs. You can also get yourself on webcam

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's no One Thing to do before you're drowning in pussy or genital of choice. Being verified makes it easier. So does a good profile, so does good messages, so does a good reputation. But unfortunately the fact of the matter is, part of it is also consistent effort over time, and part of it is luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile now supports a green tick and a shiny flag

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I am impressed even if I say so myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile now supports a green tick and a shiny flag

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I am impressed even if I say so myself

And a meeting in person verification...

Ain't no stopping me now ...

I am on the movvve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first. people here can read omg I thought they just looked at pics "

I read them. How's Woking? I'm from that area x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first. people here can read omg I thought they just looked at pics

I read them. How's Woking? I'm from that area x"
are you now it's undergoing improvements

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's not just a lack of verification fucking things up OP. People look at profiles first. people here can read omg I thought they just looked at pics

I read them. How's Woking? I'm from that area x"

I definitely read verifications. They're not foolproof, but they sometimes give insight into character (or risk taking).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click."

I have wondered about the logistics of saying, I'll be at the X pub on Saturday at 12, wearing (something unusual) if you want to be verified. But I'm not sure if people could behave themselves, or if they could be bothered with the medium term thinking of "if I'm verified I might get laid" rather than "eww bunch of other blokes I won't get laid today".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click."
I don't blame you love batten down the Hatches don't let the buggers in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

I always say is just a social meet for a cup of coffee or drink. Just to see if there is any connection, attraction. Don't expect anything else.

Most guys on here I call them "just fuckers" are not swingers and if clearly is said social only then they will disappear.

The thing I won't say is if we get on well then is a possibility of naughty fun.

but they will never find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not verified, although I have twice had coffees with 2 verified men.

We've also been stood up by a guy with 5 or 6 verificatuons, so...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

I always say is just a social meet for a cup of coffee or drink. Just to see if there is any connection, attraction. Don't expect anything else.

Most guys on here I call them "just fuckers" are not swingers and if clearly is said social only then they will disappear.

The thing I won't say is if we get on well then is a possibility of naughty fun.

but they will never find out.

I do the same thing whether people are verified or not. I more meant, like, put a status up. But given some of the people on here, given the messages I get, that might cause chaos.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

I always say is just a social meet for a cup of coffee or drink. Just to see if there is any connection, attraction. Don't expect anything else.

Most guys on here I call them "just fuckers" are not swingers and if clearly is said social only then they will disappear.

The thing I won't say is if we get on well then is a possibility of naughty fun.

but they will never find out.

This has been tried and tested. Put up a social, very little interest, offer a hook up, overflowing inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

I always say is just a social meet for a cup of coffee or drink. Just to see if there is any connection, attraction. Don't expect anything else.

Most guys on here I call them "just fuckers" are not swingers and if clearly is said social only then they will disappear.

The thing I won't say is if we get on well then is a possibility of naughty fun.

but they will never find out.

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omg the thought of never knowing would kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged few meetings with unverified people... all was time wasting... no show or just block before the meet. So I won't meet unverified person unless I'm in a club and we click.

I always say is just a social meet for a cup of coffee or drink. Just to see if there is any connection, attraction. Don't expect anything else.

Most guys on here I call them "just fuckers" are not swingers and if clearly is said social only then they will disappear.

The thing I won't say is if we get on well then is a possibility of naughty fun.

but they will never find out.

This has been tried and tested. Put up a social, very little interest, offer a hook up, overflowing inbox. "

I never put up socials unless I'm attending organised social or a club. I prefer long term people... more fun. don't like one off hook ups. So at the moment I stick to people I know thay are reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not just veris as of course you have to start somewhere. A good profile description with pics helps a lot and I always read what they put in their status’ to see if they’re just fuck n go type of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not just veris as of course you have to start somewhere. A good profile description with pics helps a lot and I always read what they put in their status’ to see if they’re just fuck n go type of people "
status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or serial blockers...

*chuckles*

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

When I was a single fem I offered to meet unverified people for a social in Manc. (I was going shopping so a brew stop was needed). Nobody took me up on it. Never offered again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was a single fem I offered to meet unverified people for a social in Manc. (I was going shopping so a brew stop was needed). Nobody took me up on it. Never offered again."
omg I so missed that ......sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of profiles are just a dick pics or no pics. Bio is... fill in later; new to this...user over a year on the site; or funny guy looking for ladies and couples... no most of them they don't have sense of humour at all.

However there are some nice sounding profiles but people behind them can be extremely up to their arses. Oh fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However there are some nice sounding profiles but people behind them can be extremely up to their arses. Oh fab life

Oh the fab life

*more chuckles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's obviously a lot of men or other verifying new women as soon as they join the for brownie points. Even though they have never met them. So they can't always be taken as gospel I'd imagine.

Of course though they are great to get more of a sense of what the person is like and you can see who they've been with as well haha

That elusive first verification is still trying to find its way to me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"There's obviously a lot of men or other verifying new women as soon as they join the for brownie points. Even though they have never met them. So they can't always be taken as gospel I'd imagine.

Of course though they are great to get more of a sense of what the person is like and you can see who they've been with as well haha

That elusive first verification is still trying to find its way to me

Oh sure. Everything here has to be taken with a pinch of salt. But one verification is better than none, and the nature of the verification and verifier makes a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's obviously a lot of men or other verifying new women as soon as they join the for brownie points. Even though they have never met them. So they can't always be taken as gospel I'd imagine.

Of course though they are great to get more of a sense of what the person is like and you can see who they've been with as well haha

That elusive first verification is still trying to find its way to me

Oh sure. Everything here has to be taken with a pinch of salt. But one verification is better than none, and the nature of the verification and verifier makes a difference. "

Life should be taken with a pinch of salt ha! I totally understand. I'd agree with that

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