FabSwingers.com forum: Most people you've blocked in a day?

By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

So scared of you right now but love the danger..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t blocked that many in the 9 and a bit years I’ve been on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me if you like.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

5 is the max I think all resulting from people attitude on the Jackson threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure they’re devastated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I think I've only blocked 2 people ever on here . And that's because they were just fucking idiots

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"So scared of you right now but love the danger..

Moi?

I am but a cute fluffy little pussy cat...

Nah who am I kidding, I'm a sarcastic bitch

be scared, be very scared hehe.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

9 wow ... I think the most in a day is 3 for repulsive messages.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am. "

Can I join them please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. From that 1 time I blocked someone.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am.

Can I join them please?"

I mean, you could just block me if you want to, has the same effect.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

11 so far today

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Heaven knows. Dozens, probably.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"9 wow ... I think the most in a day is 3 for repulsive messages. "

These were all at the very least rude when I sent a reply to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is a humble brag thread.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I think it was 4 or 5, when clicking around found a bunch of people who had blocked me so blocked them back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now this is a humble brag thread.

I might or might not be inferring similar on that thread!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"So scared of you right now but love the danger..

Moi?

I am but a cute fluffy little pussy cat...

Nah who am I kidding, I'm a sarcastic bitch

be scared, be very scared hehe. "

let's play cat and moues..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am. "

Please don't ban me...

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Now this is a humble brag thread.

I thought it was more a different slant on "why don't people read profiles and why do they have to be so horrible when you reply to their pointless message"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think I've only blocked four in my entire time on here - although two of them (both women, both homophobic) were from the same thread if that counts?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Now this is a humble brag thread.

I thought it was more a different slant on "why don't people read profiles and why do they have to be so horrible when you reply to their pointless message""

And anyway, I'm not sure why attracting idiots and horrible people would be anything to brag about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So scared of you right now but love the danger..

Moi?

I am but a cute fluffy little pussy cat...

Nah who am I kidding, I'm a sarcastic bitch

be scared, be very scared hehe. "

Ooooh a sarcy one

I don't have anyone blocked. If I wanted to could have a few, but I am not going to block anyone now. Keeping that list clear no matter what. Bloody hard though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero.

I've never found the need to block anyone.

Does it make me odd?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I rarely block anyone. So probably only one or two in one day would be my record. But the vast majority of days it’s zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 20

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Chill out guy's it's a bit of fun some over reaction going down..

She only reclaim power and good for her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the trouble it’s so easy to block someone, some just block for the sake of it. But I do understand if some one being abused or don’t take no for an answer but some just block for anything I have been blocked twice and even now don’t know why.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Zero.

I've never found the need to block anyone.

Does it make me odd?"

I think it's likely a difference between the male and female experience here. I can't imagine having the nerves of steel or non existent upchuck reflex to not use the block button.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"That’s the trouble it’s so easy to block someone, some just block for the sake of it. But I do understand if some one being abused or don’t take no for an answer but some just block for anything I have been blocked twice and even now don’t know why. "

Not worth worrying about. As you say, it could be for anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I don't really block people unless there's a very good reason for it. Even on Facebook if someone's really getting on my nerves I just put them on mute for a month. I've seen so many people get really isolated and insular just because all they do is block everyone that isn't 100% on the same page as them about everything.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I actually think the way are so block-happy on here kinda undermines how severe the act of blocking someone should be. I've had a couple of situations where someone has winked at me so I've messaged them politely, they've then said something quite rude to me then blocked me immediately... In my mind that's pretty bad behaviour but it seems that it's normal for thi site :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now this is a humble brag thread.

I thought it was more a different slant on "why don't people read profiles and why do they have to be so horrible when you reply to their pointless message"

And anyway, I'm not sure why attracting idiots and horrible people would be anything to brag about? "

My mistake, totally not a humble brag thread.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am. "

Its It's usually 10 to 15 most is prob 25

I have also blocked and reported the same fake over 15 times in one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chill out guy's it's a bit of fun some over reaction going down..

She only reclaim power and good for her.."

What does that even mean? She’s not Rosa Parks.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I actually think the way are so block-happy on here kinda undermines how severe the act of blocking someone should be. I've had a couple of situations where someone has winked at me so I've messaged them politely, they've then said something quite rude to me then blocked me immediately... In my mind that's pretty bad behaviour but it seems that it's normal for thi site :/"

Why should the act of blocking be severe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chill out guy's it's a bit of fun some over reaction going down..

She only reclaim power and good for her..

What does that even mean? She’s not Rosa Parks. "

Haha, fucking classic.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Why should the act of blocking be severe? "

It's like shunning a person as if they're dead to you. If all you've done is say hello politely to someone and you happen to have the wrong shape face for them or something, it strikes me as a bit extreme. Yes, I understand that some people on here behave like assholes etc etc, in which case fair enough, block them... But I think blocking people just in case they might be an asshole is a step too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am.

Can I join them please?

I mean, you could just block me if you want to, has the same effect. "

I'm too sensitive.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why should the act of blocking be severe?

Or it's being efficient, saving you both time in the future. I understand it can be personal and hurtful, but it probably doesn't help to read it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should start a new thread ‘how many times have you been blocked in one day’

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why should the act of blocking be severe?

How about looking at it this way? You cold message someone who isn't interested in further dialogue, for whatever reason, they block you to prevent you wasting your time messaging them again with the same result. It's nothing personal, just a simple site tool to save both people going round the same dance again - really it's no different than having a message deleted without reply for the same reasons.

Add to that that there *are* some men who *do* get abusive for being rejected (and the person blocking has no way of knowing which ones will and which won't) and it all starts to make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block anyone ... They block me .... I don't think there's any woman in the northeast that hasnt yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 100 that's because while looking for meets I block men/women I don't like

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I have blocked two today - but it's purely for sensible reasons. If someone intimates they aren't interested then its to ensure I don't message them again.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We only counter block , so if someone blocks us we will block them back . It’s very rare that we will be the first go block .

The most counter blocking in one day is about six I think . It just depends on what topics I comment on in the forums I think

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I've only blocked about 10 people from the forums in 4 years, But 100s from the chat rooms, Half the time its just to slow the room down so I don't see the repeated "show us your tits" "watch my cam I'm going to cum" comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insane levels of blocking means you are intolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. I don't count them up as I block them.

I'm lazy, so I let men message me and I block them when they aren't what I'm looking for.

That's so they don't inadvertently message me again a week or 2 years later.

Saves us both hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insane levels of blocking means you are intolerant."

What you mean by that?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Insane levels of blocking means you are intolerant."

Or you get pestered and/or sent lots of vile messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People expect too much. You can't write a decent mail to everyone. People say they wantbsex and then block when you ask for a fuck. That's the insanity of this method of contact.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I very rarely block so I will say 1 in a day.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"People expect too much. You can't write a decent mail to everyone. People say they wantbsex and then block when you ask for a fuck. That's the insanity of this method of contact."

You also can't expect someone to want sex with you if you can't be bothered to write a decent message to them though, surely.

Having said that, I've only got a handful of people on my block list, most of which are counter blocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a bar you often start with hi. Not a lengthy intro. Why write more if someone wants just NSA sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly block so probably one.

I only really block if I've reported someone who had been nasty and I can see then if admin do anything about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I know the answer. I usually block about 20 per day. If I post a meet then it's much more coz most of those who are horny don't read my profile before messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I know the answer. I usually block about 20 per day. If I post a meet then it's much more coz most of those who are horny don't read my profile before messaging me."
I always read your profile

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"In a bar you often start with hi. Not a lengthy intro. Why write more if someone wants just NSA sex?"

Because it uninventive and does not invite anything to respond to. Hi does not get you laid in a bar and unlikley to here.

NSA sex does not meen you sleep with every dimwited person who cannot hold a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dozens and dozens based on the veris given to a certain lady who liked her van meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dozens and dozens based on the veris given to a certain lady who liked her van meets. "

Van meets?

Sounds like the name of a well-endowed Dutch male porn star.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a bar you often start with hi. Not a lengthy intro. Why write more if someone wants just NSA sex?

Because it uninventive and does not invite anything to respond to. Hi does not get you laid in a bar and unlikley to here.

NSA sex does not meen you sleep with every dimwited person who cannot hold a conversation

Hyperbole .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I know the answer. I usually block about 20 per day. If I post a meet then it's much more coz most of those who are horny don't read my profile before messaging me.I always read your profile "

Still?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am.

Its It's usually 10 to 15 most is prob 25

I have also blocked and reported the same fake over 15 times in one day "

9 so far today the same man 4 times already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three I think. All people that couldn't be arsed to read my profile. I may have been a bit

that day too though

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By *irty Boy-123Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

One since joining but she seemed a little bit physco.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 300 in 2 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the stalkers or pushy ones and the random friend invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, my first and last....

Fine line between cockiness and power crazy look a me'ness....

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I don't block people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since I joined.

Anyone who declares themself hammer happy though, I would just avoid. So I dont end up under a patio.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I gave up blocking people years ago, no one can do anything that warrants it. It’s the internet and 99.9% of profile that I won’t look at/ever meet in person.

It’s just not important enough.

I understand other people’s rationale to press the block button and it’s cool

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Profiles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to block because in life we can't, but I'm ace at ignoring people. Any I have blocked at let out at Christmas (in the spirit of the time of year)

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I counter blocked two women in one day, that’s the most. There really is no point because I’m sure people have their ways of still looking at your profile. I don’t generally have a need to block.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So, I'm feeling a bit ban hammer happy today so am up to 9 people since 10am. "

9? I've blocked 17 at least today , one man 3 times

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

At least 1 per day. Would be 0 if people were more respectful.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

You can block people here???

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By *he Squire of Knotty AshMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Jeeeeese I am lacking here I haven't blocked anyone at all I am pretty useless at this blocking thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

78 and counting lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It was a lot, I said that I was pro-life and got a lot of abuse and a lot of the women blocked me, whenever I get blocked I block back as I think people will unblock me in the future. So it was all just blocking back and not replying to them.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

So far I'm up to 25 in the past 24 hours. New record hahah

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

We have a grand total of 3 people on our block list ... all of whom were persistent buggers who didn't understand a polite no thanks which turned into a fuck off not on your Nelly ... which turned into a whiney "aw why not"

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"We have a grand total of 3 people on our block list ... all of whom were persistent buggers who didn't understand a polite no thanks which turned into a fuck off not on your Nelly ... which turned into a whiney "aw why not"

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

You couldn’t offend anyone, you’re too lovely for that

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

You couldn’t offend anyone, you’re too lovely for that

You're too kind ... wait ... was that sarcasm??

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

None.....ever !!!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Think I've probably blocked around 10 people in two years.

It isnt something I often feel the need to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 25

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

I said it once !!!!!!!! Let it go will you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m blocked more than I block....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

You couldn’t offend anyone, you’re too lovely for that

You're too kind ... wait ... was that sarcasm??

Nooo!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

No idea how many other people's lists we appear on though

Can't be many ... nor known for expressing opinions enough to offend anyone

You couldn’t offend anyone, you’re too lovely for that

You're too kind ... wait ... was that sarcasm??

Nooo! "

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