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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

It’s not just the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys "

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

It is odd when jealousy seems to smack in the face of the swinging ideal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys "

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do now never have in the past

Id say more possessive and competetive than jealous tho

It is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "
and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed "

I had to hide my veins for this reason.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, everyone does, guys, girls and couples lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason."
I always hide my veins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always viewed a little jealousy as a good thing. Just a tinge but nothing that stops anything. Makes the reclaim play fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I acted as a go between for two women who liked the same guy once ........that was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

I don't get jealous, I just put ricin in the post.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Seen women get pretty ridiculous. Had one message me once BC her FB was chatting to me, told me to back off 'cause he was hers. He thought differently and was not amused by her sleekit lamp post pissing. Going by chat patterns he reckoned she'd screwed up quite a few potential meets for him.

This was one time I was happy to clipe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men are bad just as some women are too ... but the worst by far are some of the couples where one half cant handle swinging ie jealous and controlling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

Seen women get pretty ridiculous. Had one message me once BC her FB was chatting to me, told me to back off 'cause he was hers. He thought differently and was not amused by her sleekit lamp post pissing. Going by chat patterns he reckoned she'd screwed up quite a few potential meets for him.

This was one time I was happy to clipe "
remember judge Judy's philosophy on these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbiee here, I'm confident in myself, 24 years young, looking to flirt and chat. Check out my profile if you wish

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Occasionally yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Yes. And couples, and women, and cross dressers, and transvestites, and transsexuals, and everything in between.

Also I’ve had three cans of green Monster in my fridge from before I was pregnant and your title has made me crave one

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

I’ve got so many “jealous boyfriend” tantrums that it feels to me as if I were back to dating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lamp post pissing goes both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbiee here, I'm confident in myself, 24 years young, looking to flirt and chat. Check out my profile if you wish "

Make a thread about it instead of hijacking, you’ll get more responses

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Jealousy is a huge turn off.

And a bit odd on a site like this.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"It’s not just the guys "

This has been our experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbiee here, I'm confident in myself, 24 years young, looking to flirt and chat. Check out my profile if you wish "
omg I'm green with envy you're 24 damnit

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.I always hide my veins "

varies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.I always hide my veins

varies "
it does vary from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things? "
if you get involved you're as guilty as the purpotrator

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

Seen women get pretty ridiculous. Had one message me once BC her FB was chatting to me, told me to back off 'cause he was hers. He thought differently and was not amused by her sleekit lamp post pissing. Going by chat patterns he reckoned she'd screwed up quite a few potential meets for him.

This was one time I was happy to clipe remember judge Judy's philosophy on these things"

???

Never seen Judge Judy, only seen memes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Occasionally I get possessiveness from people I've not met or even spoken to. Both "oh you met X person, you can't do that" and "now you're mine, we'll do xyz".

The block button is manna from heaven.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had my veris picked apart by people who fall outside of my meet criteria as well. Just because I've met the veris at organised socials or parties. I have no control over who attends those events, neither do I want to be told "you met them, they are over/under your age/distance" etc. Then be told I should meet them because of this!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things? if you get involved you're as guilty as the purpotrator"

I'm definitely guilty lol, in fact I was guilty several times over two days and have him his first Fmm and fed him his first real cock.

No regrets

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Gave*

Fuckingautocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things? if you get involved you're as guilty as the purpotrator

I'm definitely guilty lol, in fact I was guilty several times over two days and have him his first Fmm and fed him his first real cock.

No regrets "
well at least you own it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had my veris picked apart by people who fall outside of my meet criteria as well. Just because I've met the veris at organised socials or parties. I have no control over who attends those events, neither do I want to be told "you met them, they are over/under your age/distance" etc. Then be told I should meet them because of this! "

I even get told "you met him, he's (insults), so why won't you meet me?"

I still meet this particular person, he's been charming from moment one, I trust him, etc. Much more important to me than young and hot.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.I always hide my veins

varies it does vary from time to time "

Veris*

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things? if you get involved you're as guilty as the purpotrator"

perpretrators?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've had my veris picked apart by people who fall outside of my meet criteria as well. Just because I've met the veris at organised socials or parties. I have no control over who attends those events, neither do I want to be told "you met them, they are over/under your age/distance" etc. Then be told I should meet them because of this!

I even get told "you met him, he's (insults), so why won't you meet me?"

I still meet this particular person, he's been charming from moment one, I trust him, etc. Much more important to me than young and hot. "

Oh yes, I've had this one too lol. I've been meeting the same people for years, I see no reason to change either. That's part of the reason most of my veris are now socials and cam to help newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perpetrators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooooooo - LOVE judge Judy! What was her philosophy on these things? if you get involved you're as guilty as the purpotrator

perpretrators?"
knew I'd spelt that wrong but hey ho

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I met a lovely guy years ago and spent quite a lot of time with him while he was living quite close to me for a few months, however it seemed to upset a “friend” of his so much she had to leave the site somehow this was my fault even tho he was inviting me round, I didn’t even know who the other woman was, it’s a funny old swinging world innit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had my veris picked apart by people who fall outside of my meet criteria as well. Just because I've met the veris at organised socials or parties. I have no control over who attends those events, neither do I want to be told "you met them, they are over/under your age/distance" etc. Then be told I should meet them because of this!

I even get told "you met him, he's (insults), so why won't you meet me?"

I still meet this particular person, he's been charming from moment one, I trust him, etc. Much more important to me than young and hot.

Oh yes, I've had this one too lol. I've been meeting the same people for years, I see no reason to change either. That's part of the reason most of my veris are now socials and cam to help newbies. "

It's always the same guy, too. Who I've told, and thinks it's hilarious. I even overheard some people slagging him off in similar terms in a club. He said, it doesn't matter, I'm fucking you, they aren't, I win

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Crap! I let my inner grammar pedant out. Sorry folks. I'll go stuff it back in its box m'kay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid ones who join even though they aren't cut out for swinging do.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Crap! I let my inner grammar pedant out. Sorry folks. I'll go stuff it back in its box m'kay? "

Can I stroke it first? (like a puppy, not I'm being creepy)

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Crap! I let my inner grammar pedant out. Sorry folks. I'll go stuff it back in its box m'kay?

Can I stroke it first? (like a puppy, not I'm being creepy) "

You may, if, I may stand behind you to observe while you do.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous."

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is everywhere unfortunately. Fab or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealousy is everywhere unfortunately. Fab or not. "
I'll have Strawberry please

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1"

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine. "

Shock as human beings arent Vulcans!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine.

Shock as human beings arent Vulcans!!"

No. But the thing to do is be pleasant, maybe pleasantly curious, rather than getting your knickers in a twist over what might be nothing.

I have my feelings about (prospective) meets. I try to have them privately and keep my reaction to them measured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine.

Shock as human beings arent Vulcans!!

No. But the thing to do is be pleasant, maybe pleasantly curious, rather than getting your knickers in a twist over what might be nothing.

I have my feelings about (prospective) meets. I try to have them privately and keep my reaction to them measured. "

Well forgive me for not knowing your experience when replying to an entirely differnt person who mentioned no knickers twisting at all

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine.

Shock as human beings arent Vulcans!!

No. But the thing to do is be pleasant, maybe pleasantly curious, rather than getting your knickers in a twist over what might be nothing.

I have my feelings about (prospective) meets. I try to have them privately and keep my reaction to them measured.

Well forgive me for not knowing your experience when replying to an entirely differnt person who mentioned no knickers twisting at all"

The question was about jealousy. My answer is about jealousy, and how to respond to it given it does arise in many of us. I'm not sure where the disconnect lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

But for all they know you've been chatting to this other person for months whereas you were going to meet them next week, because they interested you more.

The order of the meets usually means nothing that an outsider can determine.

Shock as human beings arent Vulcans!!

No. But the thing to do is be pleasant, maybe pleasantly curious, rather than getting your knickers in a twist over what might be nothing.

I have my feelings about (prospective) meets. I try to have them privately and keep my reaction to them measured.

Well forgive me for not knowing your experience when replying to an entirely differnt person who mentioned no knickers twisting at all

The question was about jealousy. My answer is about jealousy, and how to respond to it given it does arise in many of us. I'm not sure where the disconnect lies. "

Well your question was abour a very specific reaction they may well have been "curious" as you put it not kickers in a twist as you later put it.

Anyway given you've apprently blocked me for whatever reason I'll withdraw from talking to you as i dont want a ban.

So enjoy your day of twisting peopels words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

"

That's exactly what I was getting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

"

And that Ladies and Gentleman are the credentials of a true fabswinger ...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

That's exactly what I was getting at. "

Ultimately it's not about whether people get jealous or not (as Dana said it's a perfectly natural reaction to get that "pang" for some) more how you deal with it.

Whilst there have been times I've had that "pang", I also know that it's none of my business who someone is meeting when they're not meeting me, unless their meeting that person somehow impacts me (which in the vast majority of cases it really shouldn't).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1"

Well I always make it clear that k already have meats lined up so just chatting at the min. Still doesn't stop them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

That's exactly what I was getting at.

Ultimately it's not about whether people get jealous or not (as Dana said it's a perfectly natural reaction to get that "pang" for some) more how you deal with it.

Whilst there have been times I've had that "pang", I also know that it's none of my business who someone is meeting when they're not meeting me, unless their meeting that person somehow impacts me (which in the vast majority of cases it really shouldn't). "

Oh indeed. And knowing that, I try to deal with my feelings privately and try to keep things upbeat so as not to burn bridges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

Well I always make it clear that k already have meats lined up so just chatting at the min. Still doesn't stop them "

Who wouldn’t be jealous if they were stuck behind half the butchers shop?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Not just guys as I've found out. Doesn't bother me to be honest, people can do as they please, I just focus on finding the right people and getting involved in pleasurable shenanigans.

Don't have the energy or time for anything else. Life is too short

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"It’s not just the guys "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s not just the guys

I don't really chat to females so wouldn't really know. I just find that when your chatting to someone and they see you have met while you have been chatting they get jealous.

Kinda to be expected though isnt it.

It tells them they're number 2, 3, 4 etc on your list not nunber 1

Well I always make it clear that k already have meats lined up so just chatting at the min. Still doesn't stop them

Who wouldn’t be jealous if they were stuck behind half the butchers shop?"

If they can't deal with the fact that many of us juggle lots of prospective and future meets at once, this might not be the best site for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind jealousy it means your valued its when it becomes destructive where the problems start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "
it's all down to status ,veris and bragging about where you've been and what you've done before ,keep it to yourself minimise negativity .............not everyone is here for same things remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If they can't deal with the fact that many of us juggle lots of prospective and future meets at once, this might not be the best site for them. "

Or they can meet people who meet in a similar way to them - there are quite a few who around who don't juggle lots of prospective meets at once.

I do agree with what Dana's said up there.
" Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy...?"
Yes, yes it is. I allow myself to feel it (it doesn't happen with most people) and then am primarily positive for all involved. The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be. "

Or knowing friends are meeting people that you think are hot too and being all YEAH YOU GO AND GET YOUR END AWAY YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Not just the guys but yes some really get bitchy about other guys on here. Its a shame really they should be concentrating on themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy for the people that I lust after when they meet others just means that they’re having fun it doesn’t bother me I get on with my own thing

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Yes, everyone does, guys, girls and couples lol. "

Nope... I've never experienced jealousy in my life. And i know several people who are the same.

But i certainly can agree that jealousy is experienced by men, women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

"

I find it sad when some people just don't care that (some of us!) are human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens and sometimes you can't help yourself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be.

Or knowing friends are meeting people that you think are hot too and being all YEAH YOU GO AND GET YOUR END AWAY YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH. "

Absolutely.

People can use this site how they like, but in terms of jealousy, it grinds my gears when guys (in my experience, I'm sure others too) pretend to be happy with the idea of swinging and/or want to sleep around, we start talking and they lose their goddamn minds when I meet someone else. I'm pretty upfront how I do things! I don't share my priorities, that's a recipe for trouble, but unless things go wrong I'll meet people other than you (person I'm messaging), probably before we meet. If you don't like it, then I'm not right for you.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be.

Or knowing friends are meeting people that you think are hot too and being all YEAH YOU GO AND GET YOUR END AWAY YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH. "

Hahaha oh that's like my recent internal monologue. I've snorted loudly at the accuracy of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be.

Or knowing friends are meeting people that you think are hot too and being all YEAH YOU GO AND GET YOUR END AWAY YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH.

Hahaha oh that's like my recent internal monologue. I've snorted loudly at the accuracy of that. "

I think that's a crucial part of our friendship in a nutshell

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Ive only ever had the jealousy thing from women. Even had one message me telling me to 'back off her man.' Truth was I had no interest in him, but was going to the same daytime event and had agreed to have a game of pool. Didnt even know she existed. Never happened and both got blocked, their issue to sort out. I think the thing was she was looking for love, like alot of women on here, and he was a swinger. The irony ....she was more my type.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I do... If I'm honest I don't probably suit "swinging" or open relationships.. I have too many insecurities. I'm not weird about it and not possessive etc but I just give myself head fuck wondering about things.. Which is a stupid thing to do hence why I have long breaks from fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do... If I'm honest I don't probably suit "swinging" or open relationships.. I have too many insecurities. I'm not weird about it and not possessive etc but I just give myself head fuck wondering about things.. Which is a stupid thing to do hence why I have long breaks from fab x"

I can be the same. As a single I over think things but part of a couple I love the swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do... If I'm honest I don't probably suit "swinging" or open relationships.. I have too many insecurities. I'm not weird about it and not possessive etc but I just give myself head fuck wondering about things.. Which is a stupid thing to do hence why I have long breaks from fab x"
you look very attractive can I not suit swinging with you ?

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I do... If I'm honest I don't probably suit "swinging" or open relationships.. I have too many insecurities. I'm not weird about it and not possessive etc but I just give myself head fuck wondering about things.. Which is a stupid thing to do hence why I have long breaks from fab x

I can be the same. As a single I over think things but part of a couple I love the swinging lifestyle. "

Yes I've been on here not single... But as a single its a completly different perspective x

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


" The people I fuck are friends and I want them to be out fucking others because it's hot and they are and they should be.

Or knowing friends are meeting people that you think are hot too and being all YEAH YOU GO AND GET YOUR END AWAY YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH.

Hahaha oh that's like my recent internal monologue. I've snorted loudly at the accuracy of that. "

ALL of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabswingers = Overthinking

POF = Lets get busy lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve yet to meet a jealous man. Most seem to get a bit excited about the thought of you seeing other men, particularly if you sort of tease them that they could “clean you up” afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

I find it sad when some people just don't care that (some of us!) are human. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s human nature ffs. I bet half the people who’ve said they don’t on here probably do. Doesn’t mean you’re a crazy stalker. It’s how you deal with it. It’s not really jealousy it’s more I wish that was me. It’s happened to me a couple of times but if it bothered me that much I wouldn’t meet them again. Then again I suppose I don’t have the mind of a swinger and maybe I’m too honest I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.I always hide my veins

varies it does vary from time to time

Veris*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it human nature to feel pang of jealousy when that guy you met and fancied the pants off has met someone younger or prettier than you and the verification gushes fabulousness. Or that woman you've met now has a verification from an Adonis with a bigger cock and a better body than you? It’s okay to feel like that, but keep the feelings to yourself.

That's exactly what I was getting at.

Ultimately it's not about whether people get jealous or not (as Dana said it's a perfectly natural reaction to get that "pang" for some) more how you deal with it.

Whilst there have been times I've had that "pang", I also know that it's none of my business who someone is meeting when they're not meeting me, unless their meeting that person somehow impacts me (which in the vast majority of cases it really shouldn't). "

That was deep D. Really deep thoughts. "Pang of jealousy" like that! Agreed and it is human nature, but it's the extreme jealousy that causes problems. That is when the claws/monster reveal a different side... #nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get jealous if it is someone I care about more than I should

I dont act upon it beyond letting it wring my heart out for a bit before laughing it off. (And fashioning another voodoo doll)

But it is rife on here for everyone swingers or not. I dont show any new veris anymore.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've had it happen a few times, couple of FBs who threw their toys out of theirs prams.

Quickest way to get removed from my friends list and blocked.

I've also had the pleasure of dealing with the jealous ex.

Not sure how meeting someone months after they split up makes me the villain, but hey ho.

Jealousy is an emotion I don't possess, and can't tolerate.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't feel jealousy, but if I really want to meet someone and we've not managed yet for whatever reason, I might get a bit of envy if they meet someone else. In a kind of "lucky fucker, I wish it was me" way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it happen a few times, couple of FBs who threw their toys out of theirs prams.

Quickest way to get removed from my friends list and blocked.

I've also had the pleasure of dealing with the jealous ex.

Not sure how meeting someone months after they split up makes me the villain, but hey ho.

Jealousy is an emotion I don't possess, and can't tolerate. "

I’m jealous of your hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature of the beast im afraid..men hav huge egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get jealous if it is someone I care about more than I should

I dont act upon it beyond letting it wring my heart out for a bit before laughing it off. (And fashioning another voodoo doll)

But it is rife on here for everyone swingers or not. I dont show any new veris anymore. "

It is rife on here. I learnt how to deal with that years ago when I first discovered how some people take things way to far/serious! In terms of verifications I was not going to display any this time, but decided to show some of my social ones. More coming soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get jealous if it is someone I care about more than I should

I dont act upon it beyond letting it wring my heart out for a bit before laughing it off. (And fashioning another voodoo doll)

But it is rife on here for everyone swingers or not. I dont show any new veris anymore.

It is rife on here. I learnt how to deal with that years ago when I first discovered how some people take things way to far/serious! In terms of verifications I was not going to display any this time, but decided to show some of my social ones. More coming soon... "
"Pangs"

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I do get jealous if it is someone I care about more than I should

I dont act upon it beyond letting it wring my heart out for a bit before laughing it off. (And fashioning another voodoo doll)

But it is rife on here for everyone swingers or not. I dont show any new veris anymore.

It is rife on here. I learnt how to deal with that years ago when I first discovered how some people take things way to far/serious! In terms of verifications I was not going to display any this time, but decided to show some of my social ones. More coming soon... "

Sadly thats all too true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging maybe isn't for them if they get jealous

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

One of the reasons we blocked single guys is just that,had one bloke keep messaging begging to sleep with the wife when we said she don't play with other males his reply was along the lines of so wot do you have I don't

A 23 year relationship you dick shortly after we blocked them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nature of the beast im afraid..men hav huge egos"

Have look on any thread for egos and you’ll find women are very well represented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Anyone else find sweeping generalisations really tedious ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just the guys "

Spot on!!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I don't feel jealousy, but if I really want to meet someone and we've not managed yet for whatever reason, I might get a bit of envy if they meet someone else. In a kind of "lucky fucker, I wish it was me" way."

Yes there is a difference between jealousy and envy.

Envy is "lucky fucker i would like some of that too"

Jealousy is "i can't have that so you can't either".

I feel the opposite... "I'm thrilled my partners/friends are having such a great time because i care about them and their happiness"

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think if anything came in the way to disrupt what we do as a couple then it would be an instant block and delete.

At the end of the day we are here for our own sexual gratification and our own needs

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I do get jealous if it is someone I care about more than I should

I dont act upon it beyond letting it wring my heart out for a bit before laughing it off. (And fashioning another voodoo doll)

But it is rife on here for everyone swingers or not. I dont show any new veris anymore.

It is rife on here. I learnt how to deal with that years ago when I first discovered how some people take things way to far/serious! In terms of verifications I was not going to display any this time, but decided to show some of my social ones. More coming soon...

Sadly thats all too true. "

They don't read the veris either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nature of the beast im afraid..men hav huge egos"

And women dont?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's all down to what people search for and enjoy....a couple like us seeking guys for mfm fun dont see jealousy as a bad thing as it's part of the emotions that make hot wife or stag and vixen type meets enjoyable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use fab for different reasons then they judge others by their own standards. Universal fab miscommunication number one.....

Yvw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People use fab for different reasons then they judge others by their own standards. Universal fab miscommunication number one.....

Yvw"

Here, here miladdo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huuuuuuulk smaaaaaaaash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel jealousy, but if I really want to meet someone and we've not managed yet for whatever reason, I might get a bit of envy if they meet someone else. In a kind of "lucky fucker, I wish it was me" way.

Yes there is a difference between jealousy and envy.

Envy is "lucky fucker i would like some of that too"

Jealousy is "i can't have that so you can't either".

I feel the opposite... "I'm thrilled my partners/friends are having such a great time because i care about them and their happiness" "

Wow easy now Gus!! Absolutely fucking loved reading that!!

That is exactly what this is about for me. I been doing that for years on here... sharing the happiness and seeing friends enjoying their time on and off the scene.

Because of your post I am going to share the following right here right now...

Since I have been back I been checking what's the "situation" with current events throughout the country (being in the Midlands it's even more easier/accessible for me now then it was when I was in London) I am happy to report...

Fab is stronger and better then it was years ago. I didn't think that was possible, but my god!! The Fab buzz is real and there is plenty of opportunity for everyone to get what they want/need.

Friends - I am thinking about you we are going to have a fabulous journey meeting many more like minded fabbers.

Exciting times ahead!!

#2019

Whoop! Whoop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nature of the beast im afraid..men hav huge egos

And women dont?"

Of course not. They are all genteel and benevolent without a hint of jel beasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nature of the beast im afraid..men hav huge egos

And women dont?

Of course not. They are all genteel and benevolent without a hint of jel beasty "
damn it and ya think u know a gal

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

jealousy adds to the hormone of the situation and there for the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do now never have in the past

Id say more possessive and competetive than jealous tho

It is what it is"

Me too MrsC x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the opposite... "I'm thrilled my partners/friends are having such a great time because i care about them and their happiness" "

Now you're just showing off

Even thought that is exactly me I never knew there was a word for it. "Compersion" thanks for telling me. Always nice to learn something new.

The meaning:

"The feeling of Joy associated with seeing a loved one love another"

Powerful stuff that!!

There are many fabbers like that on here Gus! Like minded people are always connecting. Helping others without expecting anything in return. Selfless acts and all of that! That is what I call...

#NSA

Thanks for sharing Gus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall I'd say I'm not a jealous nor envious person. So long as the person I "care" about is happy and safe, then I am happy for them.

I will admit though, at times I can get a little self conscious that I'll no longer be wanted. That doesn't stop me from being happy for them, but it is another issue in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the opposite... "I'm thrilled my partners/friends are having such a great time because i care about them and their happiness"

Now you're just showing off

Even thought that is exactly me I never knew there was a word for it. "Compersion" thanks for telling me. Always nice to learn something new.

The meaning:

"The feeling of Joy associated with seeing a loved one love another"

Powerful stuff that!!

There are many fabbers like that on here Gus! Like minded people are always connecting. Helping others without expecting anything in return. Selfless acts and all of that! That is what I call...

#NSA

Thanks for sharing Gus."

Bizarrely I would find watching a long term partner with someone else quite a thrill, despite my best efforts that is never likely to happen. I think I would get more sad about watching a newer partner maybe just as that connection to them is less strong. I dont know though, I think I probably still could once I was used to the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? "

Not Jealous but mystified sometimes when someone says they haven't had any action for several months and yet they have a veri saying they had a meet 3 days ago !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

Not Jealous but mystified sometimes when someone says they haven't had any action for several months and yet they have a veri saying they had a meet 3 days ago !! "

Does it mean they had that meet 3 days ago or was it a veri from a while back. I’ve often given them months later. Also, a meet doesn’t mean it’s a sexual thing. My last veri was just drinks but guys seem to have read into things and concluded that I had sex etc. Not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

Not Jealous but mystified sometimes when someone says they haven't had any action for several months and yet they have a veri saying they had a meet 3 days ago !! "
people get them from folk who leave and return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip big time & it’s all because I’m still with my man will never give him up for anyone ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous?

Not Jealous but mystified sometimes when someone says they haven't had any action for several months and yet they have a veri saying they had a meet 3 days ago !!

Does it mean they had that meet 3 days ago or was it a veri from a while back. I’ve often given them months later. Also, a meet doesn’t mean it’s a sexual thing. My last veri was just drinks but guys seem to have read into things and concluded that I had sex etc. Not true. "

Agreed the date may not have been accurate but the very was quite explicit. I find it quite often tho so you maybe correct with the date issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very glad I don't suffer from envy or jealousy...I think people are predisposed to it rather than something that they can control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put fuel on the fire it gets bigger ,take the oxygen away keep your conquests to yourself it's the only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yip big time & it’s all because I’m still with my man will never give him up for anyone ever! "

Must be harder when part of a couple

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason."

Is Dracula a member of FAB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm jealous of everyone else having sex makes me feel like I've been missing out on alot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.

Is Dracula a member of FAB?"
he's everywhere, he's a modern day phlebotomist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else find that guys from here get jealous? and women in fact more often women especially if veris are displayed

I had to hide my veins for this reason.

Is Dracula a member of FAB?he's everywhere, he's a modern day phlebotomist "

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over a year ago

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Yip big time & it’s all because I’m still with my man will never give him up for anyone ever!

Must be harder when part of a couple "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yip big time & it’s all because I’m still with my man will never give him up for anyone ever!

Must be harder when part of a couple

Why?"

Well I just hand to think about myself. I guess I'd imagine being part of a couple I'd always wonder if the other person was jealous.

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