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Pushing boundries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what point is the line crossed when pushing my boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that’s a Question only you can answer.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"At what point is the line crossed when pushing my boundaries"

When your not having given consent is not heeded.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Am I crossing the line by asking what are your boundaries?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For me, with someone I don't know well, any pushing of boundaries is completely inappropriate. With someone I know a little better, they might be able to play at the edge and be OK but not any further. It takes someone quite special to be able to exceed my boundaries without it being a violation: someone who knows me really well, what my boundaries are and why I have them, who I trust not to take the piss and stop at or before the moment where I say this isn't OK.

In almost all cases I'd say, pushing boundaries isn't acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point is the line crossed when pushing my boundaries"

Thats very vague it would be better if you can be more specific.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think someone can try and push your boundaries but must stop immediately if you say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point is the line crossed when pushing my boundaries"

Isn't the point of pushing boundaries to extend the line. The skill is to keep within permissions and not to leap accrross the boundary......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you shoud be pushing your own boundaries, nobody else. They can join in when you decide to do the pushing but they don't get to take the decision out of your hands.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Agreed 100%

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Well myself if someone doesn't tell me what they like or anything I'll try everything on them until they say no, I would never step over that line though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well myself if someone doesn't tell me what they like or anything I'll try everything on them until they say no, I would never step over that line though"

I hope you're not serious.

If someone doesn't tell me what they like I follow their lead and/or only do very tame stuff unless or until they give me guidance otherwise.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Well at the end of the day odviously going with what you feel at the time they would be comfortable, because if they aren't feeling it then they'll say no

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well at the end of the day odviously going with what you feel at the time they would be comfortable, because if they aren't feeling it then they'll say no"

Err... That's not always how it goes down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always wanted to give my wife anal , when we’re playing I keep rubbing out juices around her ring and slipping a finger in a little bit , but that’s as far as Iv got

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