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By *hyguy-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

everywhere

I recently read on someones profile about her not wanting blokes with a numb cock who can’t cum.

It sounds great but most women soon get bored, frustrated when you can’t cum. I’ve suffered (if that’s the right word lol) all my life with this to the point I used to suffer serious anxiety/embarrassment from it.

Although in my old age now I know how to deal with it and make the most from it.

I just wondered how common this is?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I know it takes some people a long time to cum, but I've never heard it in called numb before, is there actually a lack of sensation and that's why it takes a long time to cum?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I think anxiety about any aspect of sexual performance and how our partner views us is incredibly common, whether it be the scenario you depict or some other. Find partners who can celebrate sex, its idiosyncrasies, and who you can have a good time with, and above all always be considerate and sensitive in how you discuss what you’d enjoy and you can’t go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently read on someones profile about her not wanting blokes with a numb cock who can’t cum.

It sounds great but most women soon get bored, frustrated when you can’t cum. I’ve suffered (if that’s the right word lol) all my life with this to the point I used to suffer serious anxiety/embarrassment from it.

Although in my old age now I know how to deal with it and make the most from it.

I just wondered how common this is?"

More common than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sam's on tablets that make it very hard to cum and if he does it's a dry orgasm. We aren't visiting clubs or playing at the moment as he doesnt want to offend anybody. Doesn't mean he's not still enjoying himself but some people get offended or feel awkward if one guy cums playing and the other doesn't.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We always said on our profile that we didn’t want to meet guys who struggled to cum .

The joy of the meet was always my wife getting the guy off , so without that we wouldn’t have enjoyed it .

Thankfully it always worked out well and we had no problems with guys that struggled .

I’m sure there are plenty of women who don’t mind though . Whenever a thread about cum comes up most of the women on here say they hate it so a guy who can’t cum would be ideal for them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think anxiety about any aspect of sexual performance and how our partner views us is incredibly common, whether it be the scenario you depict or some other. Find partners who can celebrate sex, its idiosyncrasies, and who you can have a good time with, and above all always be considerate and sensitive in how you discuss what you’d enjoy and you can’t go far wrong."

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I also struggle to cum. For my part I don't think there is any anxiety involved, I just get really wrapped up in the other person to the point where I almost "lock out".

I wouldn't exactly call it a "numb cock" but I think that possibly me having a really high pain threshold, I am just generally desensitized..

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By *hyguy-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

everywhere

I know it’s horses for courses.. some will like it some won’t. It was more curiosity.

Numb was her phrase but I agree with above it’s more desensitised, saying that though I think I could knock nails in with it lol

I don’t have problems cumming myself and the biggest irony is when I do it’s bucket loads.. which was another embarrassment in my youth and I think part to blame with my brain not wanting to cum. Lol.. it’s all good now though this isn’t a pity speech!

Some one did mention circumcision would help but fuck that at 41.

Nice to know I’m normal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it can be in the mind.

Cumming the second or third time sometimes takes concentration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently read on someones profile about her not wanting blokes with a numb cock who can’t cum.

It sounds great but most women soon get bored, frustrated when you can’t cum. I’ve suffered (if that’s the right word lol) all my life with this to the point I used to suffer serious anxiety/embarrassment from it.

Although in my old age now I know how to deal with it and make the most from it.

I just wondered how common this is?"

You're not alone my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming is to do with feeling relaxed and at ease for me, or being in the moment and not distracted lol....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've never been with anyone who had this issue, but as long as they were up front about it, it wouldn't bother me, as long as I knew he was still enjoying himself. I'd hate to not know and think I was doing something wrong though.

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