FabSwingers.com forum: Wife wants to go solo

By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

My wife has told me shes arranged to go out for the evening with her BBC friend and after go back to the hotel to fuck now shes never done this before without me shes only ever played with me around and she wants me to pick her up in the early hours of the morning ,its a turn on for me but going into the unknown in terms of never experienced it before has anyone else experienced it if so were they great experience for you and is it something you done again after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever play alone, my husband doesn’t want to play at all so here I am.

We both enjoy it, but we discussed it for weeks before I joined here, then a month passed before anything happened. I would never just say ‘well that’s me off to go fuck someone else’ and expect him to be okay with it.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Discussed first or did she just change the rules of engagement and tell you what she's going to do?

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

She did say I hope u dont mind hun so I just went with it as a lady is it sexier and more exciting with out ur hubby watching I'm curious to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you happy with this or do you feel that this is outside your boundaries

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

She thought it would be more exciting if she just did it and it was to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you discussed it or has she told you what’s going to happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She did say I hope u dont mind hun so I just went with it as a lady is it sexier and more exciting with out ur hubby watching I'm curious to know"

He’s never watched so wouldn’t know

The fact you’re asking a forum kind of shows that you two need to have a proper chat about this. Boundaries need to be set...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Can't help but think that it sounds like tough shit if you do mind .. but every couple had their own dynamic

Add it is ... we don't play solo so don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess she knows you well enough OP to know you’re as excited about it as she is and your both going to enjoy the new experience

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd suggest sitting down and having a proper chat about it all. Sometimes the reality of the situation doesn't quite match up to the fantasy. As far as it being hotter when my partner watches? It depends on our particular dynamic etc. Different times we like different things.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It kinda sounds like she made the decision for you which is worrying for me

My partner and I have clear rules as a couple and solo meets but depends on your dynamic I suppose

Surely you communicate about these things first than her just making the arrangements?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Are you into cuck thing?

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

I probably didn't explain it right sorry the point I'm making is I haven't got a problem with her arranging it without me knowing its I just want to know if anyone else on here has experienced it and if so what was it like and did as a cple you made it happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know the guy ok if he’s a stranger there’s a big risk

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

Yes we know him hes a nice guy

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I have solo meets and my partner is fine with that as I am with him because we’ve takked about it a lot

We have rules to make sure that no ‘dating’ stuff leaks into meets like no dinner dates, no sleepovers or weekend meets

It’s always nerve wracking the first time as you’ll be thinking about it a lot so I’d recommend you do something yourself on the same night to keep your mind occupied if you’re worried

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

Thank you that was the sort of thing I wanted to know didn't explain myself properly anyone else had the same experience

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Thank you that was the sort of thing I wanted to know didn't explain myself properly anyone else had the same experience "

Also definitely be open and honest with her when she’s home so you both know how it felt

It’s natural to feel a pang if jealousy and that is TOTALLY healthy

it’s how you handle it and how you feel about it that counts

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

When u say weekend meet u mean dont let them spend the whole weekend together

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

I started meeting solo then opened my own single account so I can arrange my own meets without hubby

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"When u say weekend meet u mean dont let them spend the whole weekend together"

Yeah no sleepovers at all and we only do couple meets on a Saturday or the odd social if he needs to

Sunday we save for us and only us, we don’t even chat to anyone else

Keeps our relationship healthy and balanced

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ah right. Now I've read Playful's response I get your question. Apologies Op.

Yeah, it's been great. I always sort of debrief with my partner. It's also great knowing I can call at any time if I have a down or a problem etc. For us, we make sure we focus on each other first and foremost - if either wobbled at any point we would discuss it etc. The first time we fucked for hours when I got back which was... tiring.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

I’m a hot wife and with my husbands full permission and the right guy I will meet alone. But this is something agreed upon between us - not something I just announced I was doing!

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I started meeting solo then opened my own single account so I can arrange my own meets without hubby "

Yep I did the same years back with this one

My now primary and I have a couple profile and solo ones each and it works so much better

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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago

swindon

I asked playfully if it was sexier or more exciting if ur partner wasn't there and once u did it did you want to do it more often

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