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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after reading through the "anal" thread on swingers chat, it got me thinking (again).

I, like many other men on here, love anal with the wife and would with any other fem who offered.

but if, say in a group situation, a guy offered, i would turn it down and probably be repulsed by the idea.

So, why is this?? and how many other men on here feel the same way?? and what is the difference?? after all, anal is anal (with your eyes closed, i think)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not really for me....

have given.. always with condoms... would never without .... 100% for protection, 100% for not wanting to withdraw and see shit.

never taken, never will.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and I appreciate some people douche x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gag everyone and turn the lights off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not really for me....

have given.. always with condoms... would never without .... 100% for protection, 100% for not wanting to withdraw and see shit.

never taken, never will.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not really for me....

have given.. always with condoms... would never without .... 100% for protection, 100% for not wanting to withdraw and see shit.

never taken, never will.

"

not taking anytime soon either - just been banded today

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference for me would be, I would know it's a blokes arse and not a womans!

The idea of a guy's arse in front of me would make me go limp very quickly!

Anyway, Shaz don't like receiving it and I don't like giving it so a good match

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

refuse to read this whilst eating chocolate phili

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"refuse to read this whilst eating chocolate phili "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a guy who see a regular guy he is married and often takes his wife up the bum and says ,mine feels better ,i let him do me bare back ,long term ,however i have been with a few guys who are also married ,and they have all had me in thet way ,condoms, and say there is no diferance ,except i like it a little harder than there wifes ,slam it in mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps they don't like it when their balls bang together?!

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer."
. I think the answer lies in the fact that if the guy is str8 then there is no lust involved, no lust = no pleasure

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer."

Guess some people prefer to have anal sex with the person, rather than just the orifice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer."

Would you give any women anal? Whether attracted to them or not?

You are not sexually attracted to men and there will be women you are not sexually attracted to.

Not every hole is a goal!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer.

Would you give any women anal? Whether attracted to them or not?

You are not sexually attracted to men and there will be women you are not sexually attracted to.

Not every hole is a goal!! "

this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer.. I think the answer lies in the fact that if the guy is str8 then there is no lust involved, no lust = no pleasure "

I think really it's a matter of whether they have their eyes open or closed at the time

Wolf

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"let me clarify my question.

why will men GIVE anal to a fem but not GIVE anal to a male, the condom issue is not critical to the answer.

Would you give any women anal? Whether attracted to them or not?

You are not sexually attracted to men and there will be women you are not sexually attracted to.

Not every hole is a goal!! "
what a good answer, to the point and exactly how I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guy giving has no bi or gay tendencies whatsoever i personally think the answer is obvious or am i missing something?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the guy giving has no bi or gay tendencies whatsoever i personally think the answer is obvious or am i missing something?? xx "

I reckon you've nailed it Soapy

From a personal perspective, I would happily have anal with a female and have taken a strapon from a female but have no interest in either giving or receiving from a male; so guess the hole is not the whole [story].

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes I feel the same. As to why, and what the difference is, read on.

Maybe logic will explain it:

Facts:

- all women have anuses

- all men have anuses

- all women have mouths

- all men have mouths

- straight men are sexually attracted to women

- straight men* are not sexually attracted to men

- some straight men like blowjobs

- some straight men like anal sex

- fish have both anuses and mouths

Logical inferences based on the facts:

some straight men like women to give them blowjobs

some straight men like to have anal sex with women

Questions:

Since men have anuses, wouldn't straight men who like anal sex enjoy it just the same with men?

Since men have mouths, wouldn't straight men who like blowjobs enjoy it just the same from a man?

Since fish also have mouths and anuses, why not just fuck one of those it might be easier?

Answer: No, because straight men are attracted to women. Not fish. Or men. So the only mouths, anuses, elbows or gills that they find sexually attractive are those owned by women. And not all women either, only those who they find attractive.

I could go on...but I think I need a rest.

* (100% straight I mean)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I feel the same. As to why, and what the difference is, read on.

Maybe logic will explain it:

Facts:

- all women have anuses

- all men have anuses

- all women have mouths

- all men have mouths

- straight men are sexually attracted to women

- straight men* are not sexually attracted to men

- some straight men like blowjobs

- some straight men like anal sex

- fish have both anuses and mouths

Logical inferences based on the facts:

some straight men like women to give them blowjobs

some straight men like to have anal sex with women

Questions:

Since men have anuses, wouldn't straight men who like anal sex enjoy it just the same with men?

Since men have mouths, wouldn't straight men who like blowjobs enjoy it just the same from a man?

Since fish also have mouths and anuses, why not just fuck one of those it might be easier?

Answer: No, because straight men are attracted to women. Not fish. Or men. So the only mouths, anuses, elbows or gills that they find sexually attractive are those owned by women. And not all women either, only those who they find attractive.

I could go on...but I think I need a rest.

* (100% straight I mean)"

Come rest over here on my knee oh wise one!

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