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Define the word CONFIDENCE

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By *itty9899 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

What does it mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing my strengths and weaknesses. Being honest. Being brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking 'fuck it' I will do it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking 'fuck it' I will do it anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like confidence but with the CAPS LOCK turned on.

Hope this helps X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believing in your own ability to handle whatever life throws your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Placing my lips on a hard cock knowing he's going to like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Placing my lips on a hard cock knowing he's going to like it "

oh my.. I like that CONFIDENCE I'd like a portion of that please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking 'fuck it' I will do it anyway. "

This.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Assured, self believing, unfazed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a radio world service documentary this morning,for ladies ...confidence is a new haircut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to define but it comes deep from within. Like charisma, you've either got it or you haven't

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

The strength that comes from loving who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be able to do and say things without the fear of what others think. Self belief and comfortable with yourself.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I get told I'm a confident person even in situations when I'm not feeling confident at all. It's funny how people can see you differently to how your actually feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being brave and believing in yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine line between confidence and arrogance

But get it right and it’s an attractive trait to have

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"on a radio world service documentary this morning,for ladies ...confidence is a new haircut."

Well it certainly helps me as long it's a good haircut. That and as others have said accepting who you are flaws an all and loving yourself. Accepting you can't please all the people all the time so don't try, be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Placing my lips on a hard cock knowing he's going to like it

oh my.. I like that CONFIDENCE I'd like a portion of that please "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to overcome your anxieties and do things you never did before.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Confidence is being comfortable in your own skin, knowing your strengths and accepting your weaknesses.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're able to he yourself in every situation you're confident in yourself.

If you go into an exam knowing you'll pass you're confident in your knowledge of that subject.

If you're not always worrying about how you look and asking for reassurance about it you're confident in your body.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What does it mean to you?"

When a scene starts and Dom me takes over.

"Now you be a good boy and do what you're told. Relax,I've got this"

Always feels amazing

Feels like I'm sailing.

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Its long and got a few vowels in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, something I’m short of doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is a preference for the habitual voyeur of what is known as

Parklife

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Assurance of your ability to deal with a situation, using your strengths and mitigating your weaknesses.

It's definitely not stuff (including hair cuts)!

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Confidence is being comfortable in your own skin, knowing your strengths and accepting your weaknesses.

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I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Placing my lips on a hard cock knowing he's going to like it

oh my.. I like that CONFIDENCE I'd like a portion of that please "

Yes, I'm quite taken with this kind of confidence...

Henceforth if a lady ever says to me quietly "Can I confide in you?" I shall immediately drop my Jeans and boxers and tell her to confide away...

B

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Assurance of your ability to deal with a situation, using your strengths and mitigating your weaknesses.

It's definitely not stuff (including hair cuts)! "

It isn't stuff but stuff helps. If I was interviewing or being interviewed I would dress slightly differently. Appearing more formal gave me confidence.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Sameas arrogance except everyone agrees with you.

Bet someone else has already said that but i cba to read the thread.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Assurance of your ability to deal with a situation, using your strengths and mitigating your weaknesses.

It's definitely not stuff (including hair cuts)!

It isn't stuff but stuff helps. If I was interviewing or being interviewed I would dress slightly differently. Appearing more formal gave me confidence. "

Oh sure. But if I have reserves within myself to draw on, the hair cut, clothes, makeup (I do have a red lipstick I describe as confidence in a tube) etc bolster that. If the foundation isn't there, the stuff is just stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is being happy in yourself for 3 seconds before people smash your self worth to be bits 'because you think you're better than them'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting up everyday and going about life with a can do attitude. Where ever they go they would like for there confidence to run off on other people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Assurance of your ability to deal with a situation, using your strengths and mitigating your weaknesses.

It's definitely not stuff (including hair cuts)!

It isn't stuff but stuff helps. If I was interviewing or being interviewed I would dress slightly differently. Appearing more formal gave me confidence.

Oh sure. But if I have reserves within myself to draw on, the hair cut, clothes, makeup (I do have a red lipstick I describe as confidence in a tube) etc bolster that. If the foundation isn't there, the stuff is just stuff. "

Very true

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Confidence is being happy in yourself for 3 seconds before people smash your self worth to be bits 'because you think you're better than them'. "

People certainly try don't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking 'fuck it' I will do it anyway.

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That's having steel balls (brave)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being comfortable in your own skin and not being held back by other people’s opinions. Some thing like that any ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing yourself well enough to accept yourself as you are and be who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it mean to you?"
assured,experienced ageing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The strength that comes from loving who you are."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that confidence comes from knowledge.

Whether that's knowledge in your job or in your personal life. Knowing your weaknesses but owning them. If you know and you accept them then they cannot bring you down. If they do not effect you negatively then there's your confidence.

That's my personal take on it anyway

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey

Confidence is a preference to what is known as 'park life'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting up everyday and going about life with a can do attitude. Where ever they go they would like for there confidence to run off on other people. "

I like that. Share the confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remembering I’m fucking FABulous X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To go for what you want, unapologetically

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This is impossible to answer been thinking about it for a day now it so subjective people can appear confident but have none or so quiet an unassuming but full of self-confidence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is impossible to answer been thinking about it for a day now it so subjective people can appear confident but have none or so quiet an unassuming but full of self-confidence..

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Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would you say was the most confident? Hitler,who thought he could win a war on two fronts,or Stalin,who never raised his voice.

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