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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Sadly the same old story single men are numerous here so you need to find a way to stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "

Patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add a bit more to your profile dude. Let people know what kind of guy you are. Be polite and respectful and maybe list some if the things you're into. That might get some ladies attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "

Lots of women want to chat. Just not to you apparently.

Make sure you’re what they’re looking for, you’ve read their profile, you have a good profile and variety of pics. Have fun. Put the effort in and you’ll see results.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What kind of messages are you sending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact you are not quite straight might be one of the reasons women are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard for single guys....even if we are polite and respectful and complementary.....making yourself stand out is key!!!! And what you have to understand is women on this site get inundated with messages I’ve seen my fbs inbox and it’s constant.....unfortunately it can be frustrating sometimes so don’t take it to heart to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is hard for single guys....even if we are polite and respectful and complementary.....making yourself stand out is key!!!! And what you have to understand is women on this site get inundated with messages I’ve seen my fbs inbox and it’s constant.....unfortunately it can be frustrating sometimes so don’t take it to heart to much "

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "

Maybe you just don'r appeal to the people you are messaging. I will be hones tis not a scintillating profile and there are a lot of men on here who make theirs more appealing. Maybe try changing a bit or a lot to improve it.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "

You look kind of geeky, no sexy, which is totally some people's type... But not all.

Your profile text is super dull. So your message would have to be pretty stellar.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If you want profile advice you have to ask for it. That's where it starts, a decent profile with pics that appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat

Patience is the key."

That's nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat

Patience is the key.

That's nonsense.

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I concur. Being hot is the key.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'll say to you what I say to all guys who post this kind of thread; take a look around at other singles guys profiles, how they present themselves, the kind of pictures they use, etc, then do what you think will work for you. No one can tell you how to be you, but you can show yourself better.

My profile wouldn't work for anyone else but it attracted the people that I wanted to meet (before I rewrote it).

Do your research and put the effort in. Fab is very much an effort = result, type environment.

Manage your expectations, many single guys will be on here for months before they meet for the first time, I was here for 7 months my first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat

Patience is the key."

Shag will have you for nicking his catchphrase, lol

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By *he_forgottenMan
over a year ago

Glaschu

Picture yourself as a sperm swimming to an egg, but you’re not the only one.

So, you’ve gotta think harder, swim harder, and wish for luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picture yourself as a sperm swimming to an egg, but you’re not the only one.

So, you’ve gotta think harder, swim harder, and wish for luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of folks ask similar questions but in the end dont take on the advise my question to u is do you learn from mistakes and take the advise u get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "

There are many more men on here than women so you have ti be really inventive with messages.

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