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Do I or don’t I extend my membership for another month!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting bored of the site tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't then

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Bye

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Then don’t renew. There’s no point being here if you’re not enjoying it. Find something that does appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re bored then don’t bother.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you're bored with it then perhaps not.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I haven’t extended mine and I still use the site ok

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Getting bored of the site tbh "

Then you've answered your own question

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re bored then don’t bother. "

You can be on here for free anyway

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

The site functions perfectly adequately without being a site supporter so it's not necessary.

If you feel the added extras you get are worth paying for then do it otherwise stick with free membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x"

I did it once by mistake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm a site supporter solely because of the inbox sorting. The free version did my head in. I'm not that bothered about the rest (although it's useful for the latest trend in messages. "We've been chatting for ages. Time for you to come and sit on my cock" not verbatim. I look, I've never messaged them, they're lying, block)

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x"

I know a song about that whyyyyy dont youuuu, whyyyyy don’t you switch off your tv and go and do something more interesting instead

P.s. this only works if you are as old as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never paid to use this site and I'm still enjoying it.

I don't know if it's worth paying for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join The National Trust instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't renew mine anymore as not enough attractive people where I live to warrant it why not just say on site and not renew hahaha u asking on here will just get comments like bye then hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone always comes back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x

I know a song about that whyyyyy dont youuuu, whyyyyy don’t you switch off your tv and go and do something more interesting instead

P.s. this only works if you are as old as me "

I used to love watching that in the school holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x

I know a song about that whyyyyy dont youuuu, whyyyyy don’t you switch off your tv and go and do something more interesting instead

P.s. this only works if you are as old as me "

That’s what was going through my head too!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Everyone always comes back "

You can check out but never leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone always comes back "

True hahaha

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Getting bored of the site tbh "

So am I.

I might not either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to ask us then probably not.

You’ll end up coming back though, the forums are way more fun than real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting bored of the site tbh "

Same here pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the site isn't "doing it for you" then leave. At the end of the day, it's not exactly going to break the bank is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not membership, it doesn't give you any advantage in meeting people just in how you use the site.

If you're bored then why stay? I certainly wouldn't spend my free time doing something that bored me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Why not just hide your profile for a bit and take a break

Miss

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

All together now, you know the tune...

Go on now go, walk out the door, don't turn around now, 'cos your not welcome anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to say it. Only boring people get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you boring yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting bored of the site tbh "

Think of the other things you could do with that fiver, you could have a weekend away in Skegness or get those cuff links you always wanted. The possibilities are endless.

Good luck with all your future endeavours X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x

I know a song about that whyyyyy dont youuuu, whyyyyy don’t you switch off your tv and go and do something more interesting instead

P.s. this only works if you are as old as me

That’s what was going through my head too!"

Busted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need to know who is looking at your profile? Or who is near? Need your messages kept neater?

I don't.

Unless you mean quit and go for good?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Couldn't give a monkeys left nostril

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just hide your profile for a bit and take a break

Miss"
I might just do that as I know I’ll be back lol and I do enjoy chatting on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't give a monkeys left nostril"

Thanks for your valuable input, don’t forget to sign the visitors book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can still be free member

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Why not just hide your profile for a bit and take a break

Miss I might just do that as I know I’ll be back lol and I do enjoy chatting on the forums "

Everyone comes back at some point it seems

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Couldn't give a monkeys left nostril

Thanks for your valuable input, don’t forget to sign the visitors book. "

Don't mention it always here to help books signed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couldn't give a monkeys left nostril"
thank you

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Couldn't give a monkeys left nostrilthank you "

Pleasure you will miss the forum to much and you know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you didnt say that out loud on the forums.

The ladies you have met might be reading.

Oh wait, you did.

Oh well

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Do or do not, there is no try...

I don't get the whole 'should I or shouldn't I' thread. Only you can know how your experience is and work out what's best for you.

If you were hoping for a chorus of "nooooo!" then I'm sorry to say that I don't think you've been paying attention!

Good luck in your choice OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep my silver site subscription, so if your not enjoying it then leave,each person to their own I suppose.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?"

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex. "

Hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex.

Hahahahahaha "
.....so what you 2 here for then !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Membership jist adds features if you use them extend it if you dont then why bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex.

Hahahahahaha .....so what you 2 here for then !!!! "
they are in the online chess group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex.

Hahahahahaha .....so what you 2 here for then !!!! they are in the online chess group "
hahaha class like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Membership jist adds features if you use them extend it if you dont then why bother?

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tbh I just need a break from the site hide me profile as I know I’ll be back it’s just my membership runs out in a couple of days and I hardly come on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not even using the site to meet but i renew my membership simpley to keep tabs on my messages as i cant remember what ive said in my messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Membership jist adds features if you use them extend it if you dont then why bother?

tbh I just need a break from the site hide me profile as I know I’ll be back it’s just my membership runs out in a couple of days and I hardly come on here "

Then dont bother renewing it if you arent going to be uploading pics or dealing with large message chains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Membership jist adds features if you use them extend it if you dont then why bother?

tbh I just need a break from the site hide me profile as I know I’ll be back it’s just my membership runs out in a couple of days and I hardly come on here "
just renew mine instead then .......thanks in advance .....happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou "
how can you be more legitimate than a random faceless person just on the basis of a fiver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou "

Why not take the 2 sexonds to pop on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou

Why not take the 2 sexonds to pop on cam"

I don't like the chatrooms, you're always just butting in an ongoing conversation so nobody says a word to you and i'm not a hot girl so I don't get loads of people wanting to chat with me. Been on some of the group chats a couple times, very clique-y. Not my cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou how can you be more legitimate than a random faceless person just on the basis of a fiver? "

Fakes tend not to be willing to spend money to keep trying to score pics or whatever. IT's more effort than not doing it, at the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou how can you be more legitimate than a random faceless person just on the basis of a fiver?

Fakes tend not to be willing to spend money to keep trying to score pics or whatever. IT's more effort than not doing it, at the least "
to be honest I've not come across a fake yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou how can you be more legitimate than a random faceless person just on the basis of a fiver?

Fakes tend not to be willing to spend money to keep trying to score pics or whatever. IT's more effort than not doing it, at the least to be honest I've not come across a fake yet "

I don't bother messaging mostly blank profiles but i've come across one or two who i'm fairly certain are dudes pretending to be women, guess it helps I live in the arse end of nowhere so there's usually not many people around me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it mostly as a pseudo-verification at this point. Most of the people who view me are men/TV neither of which i'm interested in, so knowing that 9/10 people who look at my profile are not compatible with me isn't helpful.

Until I actually meet with someone it's kinda a "Hey i'm at least more legitimate than the random faceless person since I paid to be here" kinda thing. Hasn't helped yet though mindyou how can you be more legitimate than a random faceless person just on the basis of a fiver?

Fakes tend not to be willing to spend money to keep trying to score pics or whatever. IT's more effort than not doing it, at the least to be honest I've not come across a fake yet

I don't bother messaging mostly blank profiles but i've come across one or two who i'm fairly certain are dudes pretending to be women, guess it helps I live in the arse end of nowhere so there's usually not many people around me anyway "
I never send introductory messages that's maybe why

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I never understand why people pay for Gold membership tbh. Silver is plenty.

If you are bored then go do something less boring instead x

I know a song about that whyyyyy dont youuuu, whyyyyy don’t you switch off your tv and go and do something more interesting instead

P.s. this only works if you are as old as me "

Lol i think i must be as young as you are xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Getting bored of the site tbh "

I think a middle aged man should be able to make this life changing decision on his own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for nearly two years without being a member.The site works for me.

If it doesn't work for you tho then it's probably best to go.

Not sure what your expectations were when you joined tho?

I’m going out on a limb here, but I reckon to have sex.

Hahahahahaha .....so what you 2 here for then !!!! "

The excellent tea and coffee making facilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people have this cray cray notion that if you pay for this site then it guarantees you a meet!

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no dont go...

Who's going to pay for the server farm space

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

And still couldn't give a monkeys

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I think some people have this cray cray notion that if you pay for this site then it guarantees you a meet!

Danish x"

What??? You mean it doesn't????

Who knew???

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I think some people have this cray cray notion that if you pay for this site then it guarantees you a meet!

Danish x

What??? You mean it doesn't????

Who knew???"

You have to get the platinum level membership to get the guarantee. Comes with a special id card that causes ladies knickers to drop on demand

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By *niffs VerbottenMan
over a year ago

Blue Town by the Rolling Breakers

Aye indeed and well, extending the member seems ta be an ongoing issue amongst the erectiles in here? Go easy on ya self..you'll do yousef a mischief.

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By *niffs VerbottenMan
over a year ago

Blue Town by the Rolling Breakers

Humour and patience, my man...humour and patience. Change location of activity perhaps?

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Aye indeed and well, extending the member seems ta be an ongoing issue amongst the erectiles in here? Go easy on ya self..you'll do yousef a mischief."

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