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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I realise that I'm speaking to a limited number of posters here but I've found that the more frequently I post repeat threads, the fewer and fewer direct replies I receive. This isn't a gripe, as I don't post threads to garner interest in myself, however I'm wondering if others find the same thing.

If you post on face pic Friday you get less and less interest, in the phwooar thread; fewer phwooars, etc, or if its just me.

Interested to know your experiences folks.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There probably board with seeing the same face keep popping up. I dont know as i dont post on those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve bored most people on here by now so get less interest as time goes by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are no longer fresh meat

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You are no longer fresh meat

"

Oh I've been off the menu for a long time!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't post on any of those kind of threads, but I get very little interest in my profile anyway

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I’ve bored most people on here by now so get less interest as time goes by"
exactly the longer your here the more you fade into the background. If your fresh and new your going to get all the attention the forums show that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are no longer fresh meat

Oh I've been off the menu for a long time! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t generally go in for these threads anymore as I panic a little when I see faces..no word of a lie! Maybe it’s because I work in the hospitality industry now, i’d rather not know faces

Plus also, we are always the kind of people that get skipped over on the ‘poster above’ or ‘send to someone in this list’ etc, doesn’t nothing for the self esteem, so we steer clear of them now as it always seems to be the same half dozen, dozen people commenting, we learnt quite quickly which of these threads not to post in, it really is like being back at school again in those threads and being picked last (if at all) for PE and that’s cool.

Danish x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"You are no longer fresh meat

"

And no longer available - why would we waste our time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had 'interest' like that, even when I was new. I swapped pics on FPF with a few forum people on a couple of occasions a long time ago but now I know people aren't interested so I don't post.

I get nice messages from forum people sometimes and that means much more than they probably realise.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it varies, depending on the thread and other factors like timing (both of posting and generally).

To take something like Face Pic Friday it's only logical that after a certain period of time you've seen most of the faces that either you want to see, or that want to see yours - I usually post on that thread and most weeks don't send or receive any these days, but sometimes if I start the thread or get on it early, or if there's been a new influx of people, I'll get maybe 4 or 5.

Similarly something like the Fabbing threads - unless you are posting new pics every day there's only so many times you can get a fab on a pic from the regulars that join the thread.

Overall though I wouldn't say interest in me as a person has diminished or for that matter grown - it ebbs and flows - sometimes I might be chatting to several people that are more than just general chats, other times there might not be anyone - it's the way of Fab.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think that a lot of the threads are like shop windows...once I have hotlisted or friended people on them I tend to post on them a little less ..I still perv for fresh meat .lol and it's always good to say good morning .. happy birthday or phwoarr lovely boobs now and then

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You are no longer fresh meat

And no longer available - why would we waste our time? "

So you only talk to people you're interested in sexually? Noted...

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"You are no longer fresh meat

And no longer available - why would we waste our time?

So you only talk to people you're interested in sexually? Noted...

"

No. I’m explaining why you might not be worth talking to anymore - the general ‘we’.

Although I pretty much want sex with everyone so it might also be true.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"I don't post on any of those kind of threads, but I get very little interest in my profile anyway "

You and me both ace... I have up to that fact a year ago..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is true

I see it nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hardly any replies to my posts, three or four different people at most. Ah well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it varies, depending on the thread and other factors like timing (both of posting and generally).

To take something like Face Pic Friday it's only logical that after a certain period of time you've seen most of the faces that either you want to see, or that want to see yours - I usually post on that thread and most weeks don't send or receive any these days, but sometimes if I start the thread or get on it early, or if there's been a new influx of people, I'll get maybe 4 or 5.

Similarly something like the Fabbing threads - unless you are posting new pics every day there's only so many times you can get a fab on a pic from the regulars that join the thread.

Overall though I wouldn't say interest in me as a person has diminished or for that matter grown - it ebbs and flows - sometimes I might be chatting to several people that are more than just general chats, other times there might not be anyone - it's the way of Fab."

Absolutely this. This is my perception also

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I get hardly any replies to my posts, three or four different people at most. Ah well. "
rea1ly? Ive never seen that happen

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"You are no longer fresh meat

And no longer available - why would we waste our time?

So you only talk to people you're interested in sexually? Noted...

No. I’m explaining why you might not be worth talking to anymore - the general ‘we’.

Although I pretty much want sex with everyone so it might also be true. "

You got your name back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to FPF there's only really the one time your gonna get a message from a curious fabber.

The other flirtier kinda threads are as you describe. It certainly happened over time on here to myself anyway. To be fair, I don't participate in them as much anymore though.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do you mean replies on the thread, or replies via pm?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"You are no longer fresh meat

And no longer available - why would we waste our time?

So you only talk to people you're interested in sexually? Noted...

No. I’m explaining why you might not be worth talking to anymore - the general ‘we’.

Although I pretty much want sex with everyone so it might also be true.

You got your name back! "

Was always the plan.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Do you mean replies on the thread, or replies via pm? "

Both, depending on the thread.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Do you mean replies on the thread, or replies via pm?

Both, depending on the thread. "

I don’t generally message on the back of threads but I have done with you OP

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