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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or am I just having fun?

There are many people on here, whose online personalities are alive enough, their profiles attractive enough. That I'd happily have sex with most of them. If only you all lived a bit closer eh?

I've never really thought of being a slag as a bad term, it's just a word and I kind of enjoy dirty words.

I'm quite selective, but to me there is a high concentration of nice people in here. Needy, but also naughty and nice.

Slut.. that's another, to me, it's more what acts you get up to, level of dirtyness and intensity one on one and with others. Again not a bad word in my book.

"Slags" and "Sluts" Were never women/men I thought badly of when hearing that label put on them. Just made me curious enough to want to go say "Hello , I think I'm one of those as well".

Are you a bit slutty? Bit of a slag? Do you hate the words? Do you use them about others or yourself? Your partner?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As I don't tend to view sex with disdain or disgust the terms don't really get used to refer to sexually active people.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not a fan of the words personally but can understand some find the terms inoffensive and a turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate the words. People may use them in a derogatory way but that's fine, it's their opinion.

I don't like how people usually assume the words refer to a woman. They rarely assume it could also refer to a man.

I've done threads using the word slag and people got irate, assuming I was being rude about women, but I wasn't.

A slag may fuck around. Whether that means they fuck 1 or 1,000 a week that's fine if they are happy.

Apparently if they fuck 100 in a club that's classy but if it's in a van it's shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always been a negative association with those words, what with people getting called those names in school and stuff. I personally don’t like the words and I wouldn’t use them to describe myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the word slutt, but it needs the double t to make it sound right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely dont like them and anyone trying to join us or with us that used them would find a very sudden stop to play....definitely not for us ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

strong opinions

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I want all the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want all the sex. "

Now it’s easier to recognise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a slut or a slag is someone who has a lot of sex in risky or "dirty" situations. Someone who doesn't look after their sexual health or have respect for themselves. They tend to use sex as a way of showing off or trying to be accepted.

I don't do any of those things. Yes I have multiple partners and I enjoy an active sex life but I'm in complete control and don't think there's anything seedy in that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety "

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very good

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Anyone called me a slag or slut they would get a punch to the throat. I also hate the terms dirty and filthy errr no we all have sex in the way we wish we shouldnt have to have negative terms put on us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very good"

What makes it dirty rather than adventurous or exciting?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I will happily say I'm a total slut but defiantly don't have risky situations. I just love sex and do get around a lot

I get people call me it as a bad thing but I just say " yes and.. "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Most boring thread of the day. You're neither of those words, just boring.

Sorry lad, not the reply you wanted but honest.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry, having a terrible time typing properly just then!

Not many were getting the Ms Nomer/misnomer joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when guys say I’m dirty or worse a dirty slut, no I’m actually a very clean and hygienic female who enjoys a healthy balance of sex and self respect in equal measure, it’s almost as bad when it’s a guy getting off on calling you names as it is those being nasty in my personal opinion. Quickest way to get me walking and making sure the door slams hard at my back cheerio, tada, get tae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm a wanna be slag

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By *ormula8Man
over a year ago

Twickenham


"I want all the sex. "

lol so do i

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very good"
but what do you class as dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been called a tart a few times. Is it the same than a slag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining Fab and having my inner sexual confidence slowly flowering I find both words incredibly horny when used in the right situations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No clue only you can answer that?

I'd say a slag is someone who has sex with anyone rather than someone.

If that makes sense?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Sorry, having a terrible time typing properly just then!

Not many were getting the Ms Nomer/misnomer joke. "
thats really weird i just had a quick look at your post and thought there was something different about you with out realizing you had changed your name back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want all the sex. "

You can’t have it! The other slag (you k ow who I’m talking about) stole it all!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sorry, having a terrible time typing properly just then!

Not many were getting the Ms Nomer/misnomer joke. thats really weird i just had a quick look at your post and thought there was something different about you with out realizing you had changed your name back"

*waves*

Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I want all the sex.

You can’t have it! The other slag (you k ow who I’m talking about) stole it all!"

I’m going to get it back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most boring thread of the day. You're neither of those words, just boring.

Sorry lad, not the reply you wanted but honest."

Woah.. someone got out the wrong side of bed

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am! "

I concur.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Yes I've certainly acted like a slut but am i a slut? not at all, its more about your behavior at the time, but you do have sluts & slags that love to be called such, its all about how we define ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty"

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

My family call me that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am! "

This context would suit me down to the ground.. though I'd not at any point consider Kaitlyn a Slut.. it'd be delicious if she likes it when I say it to her...

picking up what I'm putting down...

I don't think of her as a slut. No derogatory feelings towards her at all. I like her, she makes me laugh.. think.. feel.. It's just sex talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me a slut or a slag is someone who has a lot of sex in risky or "dirty" situations. Someone who doesn't look after their sexual health or have respect for themselves. They tend to use sex as a way of showing off or trying to be accepted.

I don't do any of those things. Yes I have multiple partners and I enjoy an active sex life but I'm in complete control and don't think there's anything seedy in that. "

This is a great way to look at it. My fab friends call me a tart with a heart. I refer to my club meets as recreational sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My family call me that lol"

My vanilla friends do.. in reality.. I'm no slag.. I do get about, but not nearly as much as people suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point. "

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t like the words, I wouldn’t like it if I was called either of them and I wouldn’t describe myself that way either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am!

This context would suit me down to the ground.. though I'd not at any point consider Kaitlyn a Slut.. it'd be delicious if she likes it when I say it to her...

picking up what I'm putting down...

I don't think of her as a slut. No derogatory feelings towards her at all. I like her, she makes me laugh.. think.. feel.. It's just sex talk. "

Bad words can make sex feel more feral.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Feral sex good in your eyes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me."

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since joining Fab and having my inner sexual confidence slowly flowering I find both words incredibly horny when used in the right situations..."

Mwah x Right people, right situation. Bang tidy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me."
im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am! "

Yes please.

I also love being called " you -dirty -fucking - whore " with each thrust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite like the word slutt, but it needs the double t to make it sound right "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am! "

It depends on the context. My friends can call me a slut & I them & it's grand.

Like Kaitlyn says, a hot guy asking if I'm going to be a good slut for him, fuck yes I am!

Being called a slut for being on fab, will get you a punch in the eyes with a fork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are.."

They aren’t the only 4 letter words that are divisive. Funnily enough in the context you describe I wouldn’t find it offensive or demeaning and it wouldn’t ruin the moment. I just wouldn’t choose to use the terms myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am! "

Right

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't like it if it was overly used by someone I know but in the heat of the moment having slut growled into my ear can be quite horny. Not slag though, I don't like that.

Never from a random bloke though, they would get a swift jab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P"

Is wanting attention a bad thing? People want to be liked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them"

You weren’t brought up a Catholic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are..

They aren’t the only 4 letter words that are divisive. Funnily enough in the context you describe I wouldn’t find it offensive or demeaning and it wouldn’t ruin the moment. I just wouldn’t choose to use the terms myself."

If it helps you like me.. I don't often use them myself. However.. If I know it adds for that person.. ofcourse I'm going to sling out the S word.. so long as she knows I don't really mean it.

Trust.. communication.. getting to know each other.

C'mon.. give us some other four letter words you argumentative Cunt Ps.. term of endearment

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

We’re not slags we’re just very friendly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic "
my dad was a catholic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are..

They aren’t the only 4 letter words that are divisive. Funnily enough in the context you describe I wouldn’t find it offensive or demeaning and it wouldn’t ruin the moment. I just wouldn’t choose to use the terms myself.

If it helps you like me.. I don't often use them myself. However.. If I know it adds for that person.. ofcourse I'm going to sling out the S word.. so long as she knows I don't really mean it.

Trust.. communication.. getting to know each other.

C'mon.. give us some other four letter words you argumentative Cunt Ps.. term of endearment "

Yes calling people a cunt or a woman’s genitals a cunt can be divisive. Although I like to use the term if my partner likes it too. And if my partner likes to be called a dirty slut or whore while I fuck her arse then I’m more than happy to oblige as well. The chance would be the fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P

Is wanting attention a bad thing? People want to be liked. "

Wanting attention isn't a bad thing, but fucking the wino round the back of the chip shop coz he slurred "you look nice" and wanted to share his battered sausage with ya just for some form of attention ain't the best way of getting it

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like calling a woman a dirty whore and a slut etc, in the heat of the moment.. But other times I rather call her a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic "

I didn’t know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are..

They aren’t the only 4 letter words that are divisive. Funnily enough in the context you describe I wouldn’t find it offensive or demeaning and it wouldn’t ruin the moment. I just wouldn’t choose to use the terms myself.

If it helps you like me.. I don't often use them myself. However.. If I know it adds for that person.. ofcourse I'm going to sling out the S word.. so long as she knows I don't really mean it.

Trust.. communication.. getting to know each other.

C'mon.. give us some other four letter words you argumentative Cunt Ps.. term of endearment

Yes calling people a cunt or a woman’s genitals a cunt can be divisive. Although I like to use the term if my partner likes it too. And if my partner likes to be called a dirty slut or whore while I fuck her arse then I’m more than happy to oblige as well. The chance would be the fine thing "

I like you. What if I called you a Cock! Is that as divisive as Cunt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P

Is wanting attention a bad thing? People want to be liked.

Wanting attention isn't a bad thing, but fucking the wino round the back of the chip shop coz he slurred "you look nice" and wanted to share his battered sausage with ya just for some form of attention ain't the best way of getting it

P"

I'm crying.. I LOLed lots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P

Is wanting attention a bad thing? People want to be liked.

Wanting attention isn't a bad thing, but fucking the wino round the back of the chip shop coz he slurred "you look nice" and wanted to share his battered sausage with ya just for some form of attention ain't the best way of getting it

P"

Oops.

He enjoyed it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am!

Yes please.

I also love being called " you -dirty -fucking - whore " with each thrust

"

My favourite is old, fat whore.

Makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like calling a woman a dirty whore and a slut etc, in the heat of the moment.. But other times I rather call her a lady. "

oooh.. whore. That's a five letter word.. I'm not sure if I do them

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

P"
really when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me.

I get that.. I'd never use them on you if you felt that way. It's all about communication at the end of the day..

I'm just trying to show how divisive two four letter words are..

They aren’t the only 4 letter words that are divisive. Funnily enough in the context you describe I wouldn’t find it offensive or demeaning and it wouldn’t ruin the moment. I just wouldn’t choose to use the terms myself.

If it helps you like me.. I don't often use them myself. However.. If I know it adds for that person.. ofcourse I'm going to sling out the S word.. so long as she knows I don't really mean it.

Trust.. communication.. getting to know each other.

C'mon.. give us some other four letter words you argumentative Cunt Ps.. term of endearment

Yes calling people a cunt or a woman’s genitals a cunt can be divisive. Although I like to use the term if my partner likes it too. And if my partner likes to be called a dirty slut or whore while I fuck her arse then I’m more than happy to oblige as well. The chance would be the fine thing

I like you. What if I called you a Cock! Is that as divisive as Cunt?"

Not at all I’m happy to be called a Cock, a Cunt or a Twat when it’s done in the right context. I just tend not to call others I like those terms very often with the exception of twat. There are a few people on here we happily call each other twat or twatess.

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over a year ago


"I like calling a woman a dirty whore and a slut etc, in the heat of the moment.. But other times I rather call her a lady.

oooh.. whore. That's a five letter word.. I'm not sure if I do them "

The last lady who I met, liked being called a pig slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something so erotic about being on top of a hot man, his cock deep in my arse, looking me in the eyes, saying "You're going to be a good slut for me aren't you".

Yes! Yes I fucking am!

Yes please.

I also love being called " you -dirty -fucking - whore " with each thrust

My favourite is old, fat whore.

Makes me smile "

Hahahaha

Not one of my favourites.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic

I didn’t know that "
we wernt even allowed to watch two people kissing on television it got switched off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic

I didn’t know that we wernt even allowed to watch two people kissing on television it got switched off straight away"

Haha, that is too close to my reality for comfort. It’s funny to see how much mor liberal my mum and dad are now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic

I didn’t know that we wernt even allowed to watch two people kissing on television it got switched off straight away"

I'm Catholic and my parents would instantly Change the tv station or walk in front of it lol and still do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic

I didn’t know that we wernt even allowed to watch two people kissing on television it got switched off straight away

Haha, that is too close to my reality for comfort. It’s funny to see how much mor liberal my mum and dad are now though."
luckily my mum and dad split up when i was 11 so i didnt have all his bigoted views on everything rammed dowm my throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t use either word as they imply sex is dirty and something to be disgusted about if you have it too often or enjoy variety

Not to me.. Depends on the context Dirty can be very goodbut what do you class as dirty

To you and Witchdoctor... good question.. and kind of my point.

I get your point but don’t feel inclined to use the terms as I spent far too long ashamed of my sexuality and appetites to now see them or those of others as something ‘dirty’ or ‘shameful’ and those words have those implications for me. im the other way round ive always owned my sexuality but id never allow anyone to try and shame me for it by calling me a slut or a slag. If they cant handle a woman that owns there sexuality then fuck them

You weren’t brought up a Catholic my dad was a catholic

I didn’t know that we wernt even allowed to watch two people kissing on television it got switched off straight away

Haha, that is too close to my reality for comfort. It’s funny to see how much mor liberal my mum and dad are now though.luckily my mum and dad split up when i was 11 so i didnt have all his bigoted views on everything rammed dowm my throat"

Yep, I introjected too much of that shit. Took a lot of personal development work to undo the conditioning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily"

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I call a woman a slut or whore and she says "yes I am"

. There's something very hot about it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

P"
no you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Growing up the words slut and slag and such negative connotations and in wouldnt like to be called either.

Now I quite get off being called a dirty slut in the bedroom. Hmmm slag for some reason I wouldn't like.

I own my sexuality and will fuck who I want to fuck. So I am happy to be a dirty slut for the right guy or couple.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Growing up the words slut and slag and such negative connotations and in wouldnt like to be called either.

Now I quite get off being called a dirty slut in the bedroom. Hmmm slag for some reason I wouldn't like.

I own my sexuality and will fuck who I want to fuck. So I am happy to be a dirty slut for the right guy or couple."

Good girl lol

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

Hate both words and feel they are insulting.

Yes I enjoy sex and yes sometimes even with more than 1 man at a time (gasp).

However that does not give anyone the right to judge me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate both words and feel they are insulting.

Yes I enjoy sex and yes sometimes even with more than 1 man at a time (gasp).

However that does not give anyone the right to judge me"

When I use it, I'm never being judgemental. Only adding to an experience I know they enjoy. It's never a reflection of my inner feelings towards them. I'm probably thinking

*She's a fucking goddess* In my head..

Obviously, if it's something she finds offensive.. Or one day I'm actually called something I'm offended by, like boring Then.. I'd say so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me"

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like either of those words when used in a derogatory way towards women or myself. But when I’ve given someone permission to use the word slut in the bedroom then I find it highly erotic. But we both know that it’s used with the utmost respect to me. X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

B"
fail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour

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over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour"

"Passes the popcorn"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm short on time - is this thread worth the read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

probably not Lib.

Don't fight on my thread please.. I don't need the Mods attention anymore than either of you do x

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over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour"

I wasnt judging anybody, I was explaining what I have been led to believe those words mean. I didn't make the words up, I wasnt being derogatory to anyone, I haven't said that the behaviour of someone who falls into my interpretation of the either category is wrong.

I have times when I want to be what I would call slutty, and I fucking own it.

Now I openly apologise to anyone who I may have offended by explaining what I thought 2 different words meant, without consulting the Oxford English Dictionary.

Now please let's not get into a debate about whether those bready things are called cobs or rolls.

P

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"probably not Lib.

Don't fight on my thread please.. I don't need the Mods attention anymore than either of you do x"
its not your thread its out in the public forums for anyone to post on. Im not arguing i just fail to see why anyone should have a derogratry term put on them because of there sexual choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour"

I believe my better half merely suggested that when the word "slag" which in my opinion IS a derogatory term, is bandied around, this is the kind of image that is put in mind as the OP asked for a basic understanding of what the word meant.

Ok then, we'll try it another way. Could you give your perception of what the word "slag" is taken to mean by the general public, without possibly offending anyone whatsoever or putting a positive spin on the actions described so as not to offend anyone? It's pretty unlikely as the term IS derogatory, like it or not.

B

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over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour

I wasnt judging anybody, I was explaining what I have been led to believe those words mean. I didn't make the words up, I wasnt being derogatory to anyone, I haven't said that the behaviour of someone who falls into my interpretation of the either category is wrong.

I have times when I want to be what I would call slutty, and I fucking own it.

Now I openly apologise to anyone who I may have offended by explaining what I thought 2 different words meant, without consulting the Oxford English Dictionary.

Now please let's not get into a debate about whether those bready things are called cobs or rolls.

P"

Baps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"probably not Lib.

Don't fight on my thread please.. I don't need the Mods attention anymore than either of you do xits not your thread its out in the public forums for anyone to post on. Im not arguing i just fail to see why anyone should have a derogratry term put on them because of there sexual choices"

I don't think anyone has if I'm honest. Not on this 'public thread'.

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over a year ago

Was just trying to decide how I see the words and the contexts they have been used in. Girls at school that were 'sleeping around' would have been classed as slags in my day. Slut was never used but slutty behaviour I always take to mean super flirty I guess by a lady in tiny skirts and high heels. All total cliches and it isnt particulary how I think but those are the images the words bring to mind. I have dressed as a slut plenty, and suppose have been a slag recently. I may get a bit miffed if someone called me those names as an insult. Balls deep in me and calling it me by someone I knew well I would probably enjoy.

Tis all words.

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over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour

I believe my better half merely suggested that when the word "slag" which in my opinion IS a derogatory term, is bandied around, this is the kind of image that is put in mind as the OP asked for a basic understanding of what the word meant.

Ok then, we'll try it another way. Could you give your perception of what the word "slag" is taken to mean by the general public, without possibly offending anyone whatsoever or putting a positive spin on the actions described so as not to offend anyone? It's pretty unlikely as the term IS derogatory, like it or not.

B"

I meant.. YOUR interpretation. I made it clear I was ok with it. I'm asking you all individually.. not looking for dictionary answers.

I don't understand why there is conflict. I don't think anybody is accusing or has accused anyone of being anything.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour

I believe my better half merely suggested that when the word "slag" which in my opinion IS a derogatory term, is bandied around, this is the kind of image that is put in mind as the OP asked for a basic understanding of what the word meant.

Ok then, we'll try it another way. Could you give your perception of what the word "slag" is taken to mean by the general public, without possibly offending anyone whatsoever or putting a positive spin on the actions described so as not to offend anyone? It's pretty unlikely as the term IS derogatory, like it or not.

B"
I shall back out. I dont have a better half to come fight my corner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was just trying to decide how I see the words and the contexts they have been used in. Girls at school that were 'sleeping around' would have been classed as slags in my day. Slut was never used but slutty behaviour I always take to mean super flirty I guess by a lady in tiny skirts and high heels. All total cliches and it isnt particulary how I think but those are the images the words bring to mind. I have dressed as a slut plenty, and suppose have been a slag recently. I may get a bit miffed if someone called me those names as an insult. Balls deep in me and calling it me by someone I knew well I would probably enjoy.

Tis all words. "

'A bit of a slag recently' you say?

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over a year ago


"Was just trying to decide how I see the words and the contexts they have been used in. Girls at school that were 'sleeping around' would have been classed as slags in my day. Slut was never used but slutty behaviour I always take to mean super flirty I guess by a lady in tiny skirts and high heels. All total cliches and it isnt particulary how I think but those are the images the words bring to mind. I have dressed as a slut plenty, and suppose have been a slag recently. I may get a bit miffed if someone called me those names as an insult. Balls deep in me and calling it me by someone I knew well I would probably enjoy.

Tis all words.

'A bit of a slag recently' you say? "

My early fab career was pure slag. Loved it

Bit frigid now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was just trying to decide how I see the words and the contexts they have been used in. Girls at school that were 'sleeping around' would have been classed as slags in my day. Slut was never used but slutty behaviour I always take to mean super flirty I guess by a lady in tiny skirts and high heels. All total cliches and it isnt particulary how I think but those are the images the words bring to mind. I have dressed as a slut plenty, and suppose have been a slag recently. I may get a bit miffed if someone called me those names as an insult. Balls deep in me and calling it me by someone I knew well I would probably enjoy.

Tis all words.

'A bit of a slag recently' you say?

My early fab career was pure slag. Loved it

Bit frigid now "

I'm spicy though.. maybe I can thaw you out

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over a year ago


"I'm not a fan. To me personally, a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention and handing out a fuck is a way of getting it.

Slut I think is someone who fucks loads, but genuinely enjoys the sex and doesn't just do it for attention.

Preally when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex. You surprise me you got upset the other day for a woman making derogratry words and here you are doing the same. Good job i dont get upset easily

I've been asked to give my understanding of the words. That's my understanding of the words.

I've also said I'm not a fan of them.

I haven't called you a slag or a slut, as I don't know you personally and wouldn't make a call on how someone feels on the inside without knowing them pretty well.

Interpretation....

Pno you didnt say me personally just all woman and as i fit into that bracket you where talking about me

Read carefully the fact remains that you don't fit into that bracket at all so I can't see why you personally would feel insulted.

I quote again here; a slag indicates a person that will fuck almost anyone, less to do with the fact they enjoy sex, but more to do with the point that they're getting attention.

This can be broken down into 2 provisos to qualify you for the definition perceived (though like my sweet significant other whilst I view slut as a word that can have horny overtones I don't particularly like the slag word);

1) A person that will fuck almost anyone

2) Less to do with the fact they enjoy sex/more just because they're getting any kind of attention

From what you've said "when i used to do gangbangs and cinema meets i used to fuck anyone as long as they where clean i used to get off on seedy sex" whilst you satisfied proviso 1) of the definition perceived, you clearly didn't satisfy proviso 2) as in your own words you did so because you used to get off on seedy sex. Therefore your promiscuity was entirely driven by your own pleasure and thrills, not because you're desperate for any kind of attention.

Considering this and as you clearly don't fit the parameters for this loose perception of the word "slag" I fail to see the problem?

Bfail to see why you think im insulted seeings i even wrote im not easily upset. Your next post you gave your definition of a slag. Refering to a woman and the wino. I myself probably wouldnt think highly of her but shes chosing what to do. I just dont think its right to make derogratry terms about another womans sexual behaviour

I believe my better half merely suggested that when the word "slag" which in my opinion IS a derogatory term, is bandied around, this is the kind of image that is put in mind as the OP asked for a basic understanding of what the word meant.

Ok then, we'll try it another way. Could you give your perception of what the word "slag" is taken to mean by the general public, without possibly offending anyone whatsoever or putting a positive spin on the actions described so as not to offend anyone? It's pretty unlikely as the term IS derogatory, like it or not.

BI shall back out. I dont have a better half to come fight my corner"

it's a public thread..

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over a year ago

Interesting morning read... I'll go and tune into the news now

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