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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly xand u are that " Stuck up or fun and friendly?? Choose wisely haha x | |||
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly x" I think you’re definitely fun and friendly! Tbh that’s the impression I like to leave too - that I’m fun, friendly, ‘nice’ for want of a better word - and shaggable if they happen to be hot! | |||
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly xand u are that Stuck up or fun and friendly?? Choose wisely haha x" fun friendly and sticky | |||
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"So long as I'm not seen as a dick head. If I am, I'd like one of you in trust to pull me aside. I know I can be needy *Stares at Meli* ( ) But I dont want to be annoying." Aww GK! I was gently mocking you. You're not annoying. Fuck I can be as needy as anything sometimes. Like I have been for the past month or so with my eternally suffering friends. | |||
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"So long as I'm not seen as a dick head. If I am, I'd like one of you in trust to pull me aside. I know I can be needy *Stares at Meli* ( ) But I dont want to be annoying. Aww GK! I was gently mocking you. You're not annoying. Fuck I can be as needy as anything sometimes. Like I have been for the past month or so with my eternally suffering friends. " I hoped that was true x You did smile as you said it, I was sharing at you out of fun.. but I mean it.. if anyone who I talk to privately thinks I'm being a fool, I don't mind my friends speaking hard truth as they see it. | |||
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun. I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary. I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”. V x " You are ALL those things | |||
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"It is also circumstantial Most of the guys and girls I have worked with have pretty much all said the same thing They all thought I was stern and a bit serious at interview then I warmed up a bit when they started to work with me It took them about a month to 6 weeks to see the real me 'Best boss I've ever had' is something I've heard quite a bit I should be proud of that I guess, but even typing it out, I am thinking 'eek that sounds really big-headed' I should start having more confidence in selling myself I've never been good at it " You are a girls best shopping friend too | |||
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"apart from PHYSICAL attributes ( which seldom impress me ) what would you like others to see in YOU...... to think about YOU ...... when you walk away , what kind of impression do you hope to have had on others ? Do you never think about the effect you have on others ? Conversely, what impression would you NEVER want to leave ? Only YOU can answer about YOU. " I'd like for people to think that i'm a fun, outgoing and level headed person that was well worth their time in meeting. I'd never want to leave the impression that i'm arrogant or self centered, which i'm not and I believe i've never come across that way. | |||
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"I mostly get I thought you were innocent wrong emoji " I've had many people say you would never guess what you were like by looking at you. | |||
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun. I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary. I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”. V x You are ALL those things " an utter moose?????? | |||
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun. I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary. I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”. V x You are ALL those things an utter moose?????? " Isn't that what you wanted me to say No, you're no moose x | |||
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me. I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me. " That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control. | |||
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me. I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me. That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control." Absolutely, why try to control it anyway? Some people will like you, others won't. Be yourself and what will be will be. | |||
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me. I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me. That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control. Absolutely, why try to control it anyway? Some people will like you, others won't. Be yourself and what will be will be. " | |||
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