FabSwingers.com forum: meets

By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

do people still actually enjoy a social meet? to build up to something else?

or am I just finding the wrong people who just want a quick fuck and go?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x"

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first for me too. In fact I have one planned for today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do people still actually enjoy a social meet? to build up to something else?

or am I just finding the wrong people who just want a quick fuck and go?"

I really like the social side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this point I'd be happy with just a social to justify how much money I've spent on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning.

That's the way I like it.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x"

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"Always a social first for me too. In fact I have one planned for today

have a great day, I'm sure you both will x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning...

That's the way I like it."
.. perfect

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning.

That's the way I like it."

sounds like a perfect day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning.

That's the way I like it.

sounds like a perfect day x"

Yup. And I'm sure we'll meet again.

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses. "

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning.

That's the way I like it.

sounds like a perfect day x

Yup. And I'm sure we'll meet again."

even better then

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"do people still actually enjoy a social meet? to build up to something else?

or am I just finding the wrong people who just want a quick fuck and go?"

Fair play to you if you're finding women up for a fuck and go.

I wouldn't complain to much if that's what they wanted but a social is always good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are excellent, if it leads to something more great, if not they're usually good fun.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x"

Lol, for all you know I have a face like the back end of a bus. And for me a social is about far more than checking how someone looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first, partly for safety reasons but also need to like/fancy someone before anything else can happen

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I love a social. After all, isn't it what separates swinging from 'find a fuck' sites??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x

Lol, for all you know I have a face like the back end of a bus. And for me a social is about far more than checking how someone looks. "

All I can think of now is the Megga bus

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x

Lol, for all you know I have a face like the back end of a bus. And for me a social is about far more than checking how someone looks. "

your exactly right, and looks don't make much of a difference to me as they are there is a mutual attraction then it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men just want fuck n go.

Or if they do want a social they want to discuss the fuck so they can wank about it.

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"The men just want fuck n go.

Or if they do want a social they want to discuss the fuck so they can wank about it. "

not all of us though, not all men are the same

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"do people still actually enjoy a social meet? to build up to something else?

or am I just finding the wrong people who just want a quick fuck and go?"

We enjoy a social before any hint of a play meet! We enjoy the connection first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social first every time.

Met a guy for breakfast in town yesterday. Spent a couple of hours together, found out we liked each other's company. He came to mine last night and left this morning.

That's the way I like it.

sounds like a perfect day x

Yup. And I'm sure we'll meet again."
don't know where don't know when but I know we'll meet again

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"do people still actually enjoy a social meet? to build up to something else?

or am I just finding the wrong people who just want a quick fuck and go?

We enjoy a social before any hint of a play meet! We enjoy the connection first "

definetly the right way to go about it

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x

Lol, for all you know I have a face like the back end of a bus. And for me a social is about far more than checking how someone looks.

All I can think of now is the Megga bus

No, think more National Express.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I’ve never had a social

I’d love one though

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Definitely social first. I need to know if I fancy the guy, there is chemistry and that I like them as a person, I feel comfortable with them and we can have a good chat etc. Otherwise the sex would be rubbish anyway. Sometimes the social will lead to more and sometimes it won’t. Which outlines to me why I want one. If the guy doesn’t want one then fine he can find someone else. I don’t find fuck and go sexy at all.

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By *ames3212 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

"Aw I’ve never had a social

I’d love one though "

get yourself to the north east would love one with yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I meet, I meet one person regularly for a while. A social is important to see if you have enough connection to spend overnights together.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Have to be a social first to get an idea of what they are like in person, they can be totally different than they seem to be on the forums and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men just want fuck n go.

Or if they do want a social they want to discuss the fuck so they can wank about it.

not all of us though, not all men are the same"

I know.

Just meant the ones who mail me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men just want fuck n go.

Or if they do want a social they want to discuss the fuck so they can wank about it.

not all of us though, not all men are the same

I know.

Just meant the ones who mail me. "

Don't understand it. Some mental connection is important. Also a delay between first and second meet can be so tantalising.

But I guess there are all types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always do a social first before anything else gets arranged x

so there is decent people out there, always prefer a socia, always think there has to be some sort of attraction there x

Totally agree, and it takes the pressure off a bit. Can't imagine arranging a meet them arriving and not feeling it at all then having to make excuses.

exactly and that's what I don't get about people, I'm sure it wouldn't happen with you as you look amazing x"

Make sure you like the look of them enough over pics amd messages beforehand. Has worked well enough for me

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

A social always..perhaps with some unobvious flirting as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had the pleasure of either a social or actually shall I say a physical meet as yet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have jumped straight in and booked a hotel for a meet without having met for a social beforehand.

We had been chatting for a while on here and then on the phone. It seemed to be going really well so being the fool in this case I proceeded to book a room after it was suggested by both of us. She seemed completely genuine with pictures and more importantly phone conversation.

A few days before the meet she stopped communicating with me, she is no longer on site and phone never on

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The moral of the story. I recommend a social before getting an erection and being letdown

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