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why say fun when you actually mean sex?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

Is sex not fun then?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

Because monopoly isn't fun?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

Strip monopoly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like to have some sex with me?

Can we fuck?

Want me knob?

Any other alternatives?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Oh it should be yes, but when someone says fancy some fun, I'm guessing they don't mean ten pin bowling, they need to be more specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I played Scrabble last night and then I had sex. Fun both times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets body smush

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Would you like to have some sex with me?

Can we fuck?

Want me knob?

Any other alternatives? "

1000s of alternatives

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Oh it should be yes, but when someone says fancy some fun, I'm guessing they don't mean ten pin bowling, they need to be more specific"

I like ten pin bowling

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Crying at *want me knob*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Euphamisms are best for describing fun

the lust for her bust,

the urge for a purge,

the yank on the crank,

the flirt of her skirt,

the push of her tush ...

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh it should be yes, but when someone says fancy some fun, I'm guessing they don't mean ten pin bowling, they need to be more specific

I like ten pin bowling

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Great, we should start a team

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

Would using the words adult fun be any better

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

Would using the words

adult fun be any better "

Sexual fun would be more specific

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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I can be chatting in the chatrooms having a great time, and I get the fancy some fun line, which is frustrating as I'm clearly I'm having fun already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy bumping uglies ;D

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sex is fun... otherwise why do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy bumping uglies ;D"

I'll go bumping with ya

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Want me knob?

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Men should use this, I don't see it failing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the play line that gets me

Oh and ‘naughty’

Bollocks- just say sex

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

Because monopoly isn't fun?"
not in my family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people use the Term "fun". We all know what it means on here. I don't sweat the small stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy bumping uglies ;D

I'll go bumping with ya "

If you were closer I’d let ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would assume they mean stuff like naked nerf gun fights, that's the sort of fun we like

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

Because if they use any alternative they think they will get blocked.

And when you say monopoly they think you are being sarcastic and awkward and wasting their time.

It all boils down to lack of poor communication and bad experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liken it to the old cheesy 70s shows like Benny Hill

Cliches and such like

I’ll openly admit I’ll not reply if someone uses the words naughty or play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

Because if they use any alternative they think they will get blocked.

And when you say monopoly they think you are being sarcastic and awkward and wasting their time.

It all boils down to lack of poor communication and bad experiences."

I think if people get anothers sarcasm they share their sense of humour and would probably get on well at a meet. If they block then I would assume they don't get it and obviously won't get it, fun that is

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"Oh it should be yes, but when someone says fancy some fun, I'm guessing they don't mean ten pin bowling, they need to be more specific"

Because we all know they are talking in a sexual context, because it is fun, because maybe they've been told off for being crude or too forward if they're more specific, because different people find different scenarios exciting so use a catch all word to establish if there's a general level of interest before getting more detailed? Other things on here bother me, use of words like fun and professional just don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty Fun shudder

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

Because if they use any alternative they think they will get blocked.

And when you say monopoly they think you are being sarcastic and awkward and wasting their time.

It all boils down to lack of poor communication and bad experiences."

Would you (OP) want to meet someone with no sense of humour? If they block you for saying that then no loss surely .....rather someone with a bit of personality about them....

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I think asking for fun on a swingers site is pretty obvious it’s not just a simple board game

Unless that’s your preference

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

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It’s easier to write. I get confabulated by long words.

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Lesson learnt. Just be clear and avoid using ‘fun’ ‘naughty fun’.

Ok who wants to wank me off until I spurt cum all over their thighs?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly

Because if they use any alternative they think they will get blocked.

And when you say monopoly they think you are being sarcastic and awkward and wasting their time.

It all boils down to lack of poor communication and bad experiences.

Would you (OP) want to meet someone with no sense of humour? If they block you for saying that then no loss surely .....rather someone with a bit of personality about them.... "

No, I don't mind them blocking me, I actually find it oddly fun . They were obviously monopoly haters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lesson learnt. Just be clear and avoid using ‘fun’ ‘naughty fun’.

Ok who wants to wank me off until I spurt cum all over their thighs? "

I’d prefer that to the never ending cheesy cliche lines that should stay in Allo Allo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we could suggest a naughty version of monopoly to the games company, including adult clubs to buy and the pieces could be in the shape of various sex toys, a rampant rabbit or double ended dildo for example??

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Lesson learnt. Just be clear and avoid using ‘fun’ ‘naughty fun’.

Ok who wants to wank me off until I spurt cum all over their thighs?

I’d prefer that to the never ending cheesy cliche lines that should stay in Allo Allo "

Omg if they had wank me off lines in Allo Allo I might have bothered watching it

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Maybe we could suggest a naughty version of monopoly to the games company, including adult clubs to buy and the pieces could be in the shape of various sex toys, a rampant rabbit or double ended dildo for example?? "

Excellent idea

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"We are supposed to be adults on here, so why do so many people say fun when they actually mean sex?

If they do actually mean fun, why do I get blocked when I suggest a nice game of monopoly "

I genuinely think it’s a bit of British reserve. Because you’re right, we are all adults on this site look for some kind of sexual encounter. Sex should be fun of course, but there’s no logical reason we shoudny call it sex.

Do love the idea of strip monopoly though. Could be the longest session ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lesson learnt. Just be clear and avoid using ‘fun’ ‘naughty fun’.

Ok who wants to wank me off until I spurt cum all over their thighs?

I’d prefer that to the never ending cheesy cliche lines that should stay in Allo Allo

Omg if they had wank me off lines in Allo Allo I might have bothered watching it "

Twisting knobs .... not exactly wanking but the intention was there

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Naughty Fun shudder"

It sounds like teenagers having a fumble!!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Maybe we could suggest a naughty version of monopoly to the games company, including adult clubs to buy and the pieces could be in the shape of various sex toys, a rampant rabbit or double ended dildo for example?? "

And instead of the waterworks it's watersports or instead of go you could have "go straight to orgy collect 200 orgasms" instead of jail it go to bed alone and masturbate, I think you are on to something.

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham


"I played Scrabble last night and then I had sex. Fun both times. "

Was sex on a triple word score?

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Lesson learnt. Just be clear and avoid using ‘fun’ ‘naughty fun’.

Ok who wants to wank me off until I spurt cum all over their thighs?

I’d prefer that to the never ending cheesy cliche lines that should stay in Allo Allo

Omg if they had wank me off lines in Allo Allo I might have bothered watching it

Twisting knobs .... not exactly wanking but the intention was there "

So how about “I’ve an issue I need you to help me with. I need you to open the door to my lustful behaviour, your obvious skill would work wonders, You just start by twisting the knob on my door to pleasure”

Said in a shakespearian manner. ‘Foresooth’

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