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The art of dressing sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I must be one of very few people who finds trying to dress sexily the LEAST sexy thing in the world, it makes me really anxious!

Sexy underwear is uncomfortable, bodystockings/short dresses etc make me feel like a badly packed sausage, long dresses make me feel like I'm at a wedding, I hate stockings and holdups, high heels are the pits unless youre sitting down all night and too much make up makes me feel like a drag queen! Oh and I hate wearing a towel even more than all of the above!

So come on forum folks, give me some ideas of what a totally unsexual creature like myself can wear to a swingers club without feeling like an utter dickhead all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you're comfortable with, preferably nothing.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

What about more like a silk chemise and shorts set? Have a look at pour moi - lots of sexy underwear/pyjama sets that might be more comfortable for you but still look appropriate

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I’m dressed like a drag queen when I dress up. I’d say, whatever you feel comfortable in, no stockings or hold ups, put fake tan on your legs

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

From your pics it looks like you have a great, slightly indie sense of style.

Don't like heels? Biker boots and fishnets. I find that a strong sexy look.

Maybe look at Hell Bunny pieces. They're a fairly cheap brand but have lots of cool and quirky rock and roll items.

Mrs tends to wear a mesh underbust corset and nice underwear for dressing down. She,too,finds hold ups a pain!

P xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I must be one of very few people who finds trying to dress sexily the LEAST sexy thing in the world, it makes me really anxious!

Sexy underwear is uncomfortable, bodystockings/short dresses etc make me feel like a badly packed sausage, long dresses make me feel like I'm at a wedding, I hate stockings and holdups, high heels are the pits unless youre sitting down all night and too much make up makes me feel like a drag queen! Oh and I hate wearing a towel even more than all of the above!

So come on forum folks, give me some ideas of what a totally unsexual creature like myself can wear to a swingers club without feeling like an utter dickhead all night "

Your pics are great OP, if you're heading to a social I'm thinking that hogwarts t-shirt and nice lipstick would do you rightly

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Make sure you pick comfortable clothes then it will all feel fabulous, I love a little dress up, I even have loads of wigs so can get a totally different look watch lady marmalade and get the dressing up feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother. No outfit on this planet can make me look sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel exactly the same as you, op. I'm much more comfortable naked and feel much sexier too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boilersuit. Leave the hockey mask at home though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Comfy silky baby doll or similar.

I wear trainers to clubs. I have a special reason (bad feet), but it's not a problem. Ballet flats also acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bother. No outfit on this planet can make me look sexy."

Baloney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Comfy silky baby doll or similar.

I wear trainers to clubs. I have a special reason (bad feet), but it's not a problem. Ballet flats also acceptable. "

I was under the impression clubs didn't allow trainers.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Comfy silky baby doll or similar.

I wear trainers to clubs. I have a special reason (bad feet), but it's not a problem. Ballet flats also acceptable.

I was under the impression clubs didn't allow trainers."

None of the ones I've been to have had an issue. I'm not sure what I'd do if they did. (if it's a question of looking scruffy, I'm dressed up apart from that. Just got to protect my feet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bother. No outfit on this planet can make me look sexy.

Baloney "

I'm being serious. I have too much flab to squash into a basque, as it spills out. My stomach is too fat and flabby for things or knickers and suspenders and baby doll style looks ridiculous on me.

I also can't walk in heels as I have osteoarthritis.

I get naked instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear something comfy that makes you feel relaxed and confident, that is the sexiest thing you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Comfy silky baby doll or similar.

I wear trainers to clubs. I have a special reason (bad feet), but it's not a problem. Ballet flats also acceptable.

I was under the impression clubs didn't allow trainers.

None of the ones I've been to have had an issue. I'm not sure what I'd do if they did. (if it's a question of looking scruffy, I'm dressed up apart from that. Just got to protect my feet) "

I can't wear heels over 4 inches because of foot pain. I thought women had to dress up in heels.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire


"I think I must be one of very few people who finds trying to dress sexily the LEAST sexy thing in the world, it makes me really anxious!

Sexy underwear is uncomfortable, bodystockings/short dresses etc make me feel like a badly packed sausage, long dresses make me feel like I'm at a wedding, I hate stockings and holdups, high heels are the pits unless youre sitting down all night and too much make up makes me feel like a drag queen! Oh and I hate wearing a towel even more than all of the above!

So come on forum folks, give me some ideas of what a totally unsexual creature like myself can wear to a swingers club without feeling like an utter dickhead all night "

Judging from your pictures I would have to say you have no problem in being able to dress sexy.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear something comfy that makes you feel relaxed and confident, that is the sexiest thing you can do. "

You? Can I wear you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Comfy silky baby doll or similar.

I wear trainers to clubs. I have a special reason (bad feet), but it's not a problem. Ballet flats also acceptable.

I was under the impression clubs didn't allow trainers.

None of the ones I've been to have had an issue. I'm not sure what I'd do if they did. (if it's a question of looking scruffy, I'm dressed up apart from that. Just got to protect my feet)

I can't wear heels over 4 inches because of foot pain. I thought women had to dress up in heels."

I've never had that impression. In fact I'm not sure I've ever worn heels to a club. Given the stairs in many, I'm not sure I could!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kimono? Works for my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bother. No outfit on this planet can make me look sexy.

Baloney

I'm being serious. I have too much flab to squash into a basque, as it spills out. My stomach is too fat and flabby for things or knickers and suspenders and baby doll style looks ridiculous on me.

I also can't walk in heels as I have osteoarthritis.

I get naked instead. "

You could spill out everywhere, you could stumble in heels, you could be wearing Ill fitting clothes....as long as you don't care, you look confident, and you strut your sexy stuff...honesyly, it doesn't matter what you wear

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have been to a club naked once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear something comfy that makes you feel relaxed and confident, that is the sexiest thing you can do.

You? Can I wear you? "

Surely me wearing you, wearing nothing is a better idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you would look sexy in anything.

I completely understand where you're coming from - I feel like a complete knob when I try to dress up and feel like a try hard

I'm at my happiest in pjs

With your lovely figure you could wear just a T shirt and look awesome x

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