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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I lost a very dear friend of mine this weekend to a very aggressive form of cancer.. He leaves behind a wife, a 2 year old and a 13 year old daugher ( 13 year old is mine too)

I just wanted to say to all those that think that they have a grudge with an old friend.. or someone that make up before its to late.. luckily for me I managed to fix the fact that we hadnt talked properly for a few years.. yet before that for 32 years he and I were thick as thieves..

Yes our being a couple was a failure but it wasnt due to anything other than the fact that best friends dont always make good couples.. I feel like I have lost a sibling..

Its things like this which make you realise that life is to short.. so Live each day like its your last...

He was 36... and till midway through last year.. was fit and well.. Think how Jason statham looks and you wont be far wrong... and when he passed he looked about 90 and just well... its something I never ever hope to have to witness again.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so sorry to hear your news, it's true illness and death is a wake up call, i lost a dear friend last year, another one probably won't see the year out and my Dad is now ill, i am determined to now make the most of each day i have with them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your news. Only consolation and it probably doesn't help much at the moment, is that he was loved and isn't in pain anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss and for the family

I lost my dad when he was 35 to thrombosis I was 10

Since that day life's too short has been my motto

Yes I fall out wi people but always strive to make it up and have never held a grudge

The day he died made me the person Iam today and since then I have always just lived my life with little thought to anyone's judgement of how I do it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you and thank you soapy....

I worry about my daughter but she is my daughter too..so I know she has inner strength..

Cali

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

heart goes out to you and your Daughter,

be there for each other xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We`re really sorry to hear your news Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is two of my girls involved.. but I am grateful that my other daughter doesnt really understand.. she is upset.. but has been with me all this time.

I feel sorry for the new daughter and wife.. they only got married just over 18 months ago...

I can not imagine.. she had her soul mate and lost him...

And the younger daughter.. wont even remember her dad.. adn that is sader still.. in fact I cried as much over that as anything else.

cali

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

i lost my Mum at seven,its suprising what i do remember about her,and my three bros, we all have diffrent memories it s lovely when we get together and remember her,talk about him as much as possible and remember the good things with your Daughters,give thanks that you knew him

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I am very sorry to hear of your loss Cal hunny, your words "life is too short" are all the more poignant when something liek this happens, take care, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really sorry to hear your news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart breaking when young children are involved, my son lost his father at five. I still feel the loss for him.

All you can do is be there for them all Cali love. xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I lost a very dear friend of mine this weekend to a very aggressive form of cancer.. He leaves behind a wife, a 2 year old and a 13 year old daugher ( 13 year old is mine too)

I just wanted to say to all those that think that they have a grudge with an old friend.. or someone that make up before its to late.. luckily for me I managed to fix the fact that we hadnt talked properly for a few years.. yet before that for 32 years he and I were thick as thieves..

Yes our being a couple was a failure but it wasnt due to anything other than the fact that best friends dont always make good couples.. I feel like I have lost a sibling..

Its things like this which make you realise that life is to short.. so Live each day like its your last...

He was 36... and till midway through last year.. was fit and well.. Think how Jason statham looks and you wont be far wrong... and when he passed he looked about 90 and just well... its something I never ever hope to have to witness again.

Cali "

Hugs love and prayers...you are so right, never take anything for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooow that sounds so sad. Sorry to hear that luv x

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