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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There's far more nice than not on here. Don't let the bad ones cloud your judgement x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

"

There are a few of us on here and lots who love the social side xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

"

There really are some ignorant folk on here.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace.

That's the way to do it x

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Fabs brings all sorts to its site some good some bad but in general there are lots of nice well mannered people who outnumber the imbeciles. So hail the nice fabbers and long may they continue.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

There really are some ignorant folk on here. "

Let me guess because they are not answering your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's far more nice than not on here. Don't let the bad ones cloud your judgement x"

On the Forum.. Yes, I'd agree with you. In the wider world of Fab? Not so much at all. The majority seem rude, ignorant, selfish and arrogant people. A few diamonds in the rough, but not many sadly.

I've lost count of the conversations that have begun, then ended in the blink of an eye, because I'm not looking for the same experience. Usually couples looking for bisexual meets.

After I explain it's something I prefer to do alone, or with a female/couple I already know and trust. I'm usually unceremoniously dumped with zero explanation (Not that one is then needed). Then blocked (as if I'm the kind to pester them).

Given they initiated the conversation in the first place, I find it very rude and immature behaviour.

Men can be completely disgusting! Often don't read profiles, sometimes they do, but still message for sex regardless. Get offensive and rude when the rejection happens. Even though I'm polite when I do.

Women can be so far up their own arseholes they turn inside out. Expecting gifts, demanding I jump through hoops, one time even abusing their position in NHS to check my details!

I agree with Fab, ignoring an initial message shouldnt be seen as rude or ignorant. If you know tgey arent your type straight away, its fine, i do it all the time.

All this is well into conversations though. If you're brave enough to start one, have the courage and respect to end it in a mature way.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"There's far more nice than not on here. Don't let the bad ones cloud your judgement x

On the Forum.. Yes, I'd agree with you. In the wider world of Fab? Not so much at all. The majority seem rude, ignorant, selfish and arrogant people. A few diamonds in the rough, but not many sadly.

I've lost count of the conversations that have begun, then ended in the blink of an eye, because I'm not looking for the same experience. Usually couples looking for bisexual meets.

After I explain it's something I prefer to do alone, or with a female/couple I already know and trust. I'm usually unceremoniously dumped with zero explanation (Not that one is then needed). Then blocked (as if I'm the kind to pester them).

Given they initiated the conversation in the first place, I find it very rude and immature behaviour.

Men can be completely disgusting! Often don't read profiles, sometimes they do, but still message for sex regardless. Get offensive and rude when the rejection happens. Even though I'm polite when I do.

Women can be so far up their own arseholes they turn inside out. Expecting gifts, demanding I jump through hoops, one time even abusing their position in NHS to check my details!

I agree with Fab, ignoring an initial message shouldnt be seen as rude or ignorant. If you know tgey arent your type straight away, its fine, i do it all the time.

All this is well into conversations though. If you're brave enough to start one, have the courage and respect to end it in a mature way. "

Oh my.... conversations start if there is an initial attraction then as conversation starts flowing you find out if they really do have the same interests as you...and when you find out you dont a lot of people block so they dont go back to that person maybe days weeks down line ..

I will block if I'm not interested or they not what I'm looking for and it's not bc I'm rude its simply because I have a very bad memory so dont end up msg them again lots of ppl block for different reasons and it's no way rude you are just not what they are wanting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Aww lovely post ,

There are good and bad men,women and couples on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's far more nice than not on here. Don't let the bad ones cloud your judgement x

On the Forum.. Yes, I'd agree with you. In the wider world of Fab? Not so much at all. The majority seem rude, ignorant, selfish and arrogant people. A few diamonds in the rough, but not many sadly.

I've lost count of the conversations that have begun, then ended in the blink of an eye, because I'm not looking for the same experience. Usually couples looking for bisexual meets.

After I explain it's something I prefer to do alone, or with a female/couple I already know and trust. I'm usually unceremoniously dumped with zero explanation (Not that one is then needed). Then blocked (as if I'm the kind to pester them).

Given they initiated the conversation in the first place, I find it very rude and immature behaviour.

Men can be completely disgusting! Often don't read profiles, sometimes they do, but still message for sex regardless. Get offensive and rude when the rejection happens. Even though I'm polite when I do.

Women can be so far up their own arseholes they turn inside out. Expecting gifts, demanding I jump through hoops, one time even abusing their position in NHS to check my details!

I agree with Fab, ignoring an initial message shouldnt be seen as rude or ignorant. If you know tgey arent your type straight away, its fine, i do it all the time.

All this is well into conversations though. If you're brave enough to start one, have the courage and respect to end it in a mature way.

Oh my.... conversations start if there is an initial attraction then as conversation starts flowing you find out if they really do have the same interests as you...and when you find out you dont a lot of people block so they dont go back to that person maybe days weeks down line ..

I will block if I'm not interested or they not what I'm looking for and it's not bc I'm rude its simply because I have a very bad memory so dont end up msg them again lots of ppl block for different reasons and it's no way rude you are just not what they are wanting x "

I get that, but a simple "Ahh ok then, thanks for chatting, but it seems we're after different things". Especially if you started the conversation.. chose not to make your actual desire/need known till 5-10 messages in. None of that is my doing, yet I don't get the decency of a goodbye.

Manners, that's all it is.

By all means block me afterwards so you don't make the same mistake.. I get it. I really do.

If I'm the one acting up, by all means block me whenever you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't treat others that way, I wouldn't do that to anyone 5-10 messages into an in-depth conversation. Nothing to do with an overloaded inbox, because they had time to message before. Till they couldn't get what they wanted. Threw their toys out the pram.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't treat others that way, I wouldn't do that to anyone 5-10 messages into an in-depth conversation. Nothing to do with an overloaded inbox, because they had time to message before. Till they couldn't get what they wanted. Threw their toys out the pram."

That's a different story xx be blessed they blocked you xx they not worth your time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't treat others that way, I wouldn't do that to anyone 5-10 messages into an in-depth conversation. Nothing to do with an overloaded inbox, because they had time to message before. Till they couldn't get what they wanted. Threw their toys out the pram.

That's a different story xx be blessed they blocked you xx they not worth your time xx"

You're right.. but.. it's so irritating that someone can be so rude. Then brush it off as just Fab behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

"

People may actually have lives and othet things to do than constantly check and reply to fab messages.

Calling it "player shit" for not replying right away seems very childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to see if people would be so "aww how lovley" to a post from a bloke complaing people werent replying to his messages....

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

People may actually have lives and othet things to do than constantly check and reply to fab messages.

Calling it "player shit" for not replying right away seems very childish."

Dont actually see them complaining about somone not answering straight away... more they are ignoring them ...can tell when they have been read .. so why cant they send quick at wifk chat later ... or busy chat later xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

People may actually have lives and othet things to do than constantly check and reply to fab messages.

Calling it "player shit" for not replying right away seems very childish.

Dont actually see them complaining about somone not answering straight away... more they are ignoring them ...can tell when they have been read .. so why cant they send quick at wifk chat later ... or busy chat later xx "

Haha ok so green arrow two seconds your response to a man who was upset that he wasnt getting replies to his messages.

"I'm actually surprised you got a meet within a week of joining with that self entitled attitude why not meet up again with your veri she seems keen x"

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

"

Respect to all yes let's enjoy each other socially & in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them its the best thing to do with rude people.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

People may actually have lives and othet things to do than constantly check and reply to fab messages.

Calling it "player shit" for not replying right away seems very childish.

Dont actually see them complaining about somone not answering straight away... more they are ignoring them ...can tell when they have been read .. so why cant they send quick at wifk chat later ... or busy chat later xx

Haha ok so green arrow two seconds your response to a man who was upset that he wasnt getting replies to his messages.

"I'm actually surprised you got a meet within a week of joining with that self entitled attitude why not meet up again with your veri she seems keen x""

... now I'm confused lol no idea what you mean here x

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Recently there have been a few blokes that have been messing us around and frustratingly ignoring messages etc... typical player shit/ those who don’t remember we’re humans behind a screen.

But a certain young lady was incredibly kind to me this morning and reassured me there are some top girls on here.

I just wanted to shout out to all the TOP women and men on here who enjoy the social interaction as well as the play time.

Big up to those who are kind to each other.

Treat others as you would like to be treated

Peace

Mrs P x

"

The social side plays a big part of swinging to us. We will always have a social before deciding whether or not to play with those who we meet.

Mr2

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