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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"

Messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but only so we can watch the car crash.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooo, there’s a fine line between here and outside here

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nooooooooo, there’s a fine line between here and outside here "

I changed my mind, what she said ^

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What's the worst that could happen, and how much drama or BS would it cause?

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"

Don't mention here if you do you will come across as a stalker and if its not them you may get a sexual harassment case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"

Approach them at work or on here?

Treat them as you would any other person you're attracted to. Talk to them. Ask them out for a drink.

Don't mention Fab because that would be rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My instinct says no, but the inquisitive side on me says yes!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I personally would leave well alone

Have they given you any indication they like you ?

If it goes tits up,could all be b awkward OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say approach them in real life and not on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"
no to close to home

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Approach her away from fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone...approach her without mentioning Fab it is! Appreciate it.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"

For the follow up embaressing thread I'll say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone...approach her without mentioning Fab it is! Appreciate it."

I was going to say this. I would not bring up fab at all. She may be mortified that a colleague knows she's on fab. Good call OP and good luck with asking her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does your gut say?

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very attracted to someone at work and think they are on here...should I approach them?"
is she a manager at your workplace ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t mention it. See how it goes without!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!"

Although the job is within the same company, just a different place of work!

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

If you’re attracted to her, go for it. BUT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WHATSOEVER MENTION FAB!

If it goes well, you can ‘discover’ that about each other later. If it doesn’t go well, there’s not gonna be any awkwardness and potentially career ending conversations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!"

Good plan. Remember we need an update.

Even if it's bad news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re attracted to her, go for it. BUT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WHATSOEVER MENTION FAB!

If it goes well, you can ‘discover’ that about each other later. If it doesn’t go well, there’s not gonna be any awkwardness and potentially career ending conversations! "

This I agree with! She might already be aware that you are on here but at the same time unlikely, depends if you want a relationship or a fuck really.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!

Good plan. Remember we need an update.

Even if it's bad news. "

Yes boss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!

Good plan. Remember we need an update.

Even if it's bad news.

Yes boss!!"

Just trying to be supportive. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!

Good plan. Remember we need an update.

Even if it's bad news.

Yes boss!!

Just trying to be supportive. Sorry. "

I was just joking! I will update!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Imagine if he brought up fab and it wasnt in fact her on here.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Fab if you want fuck and go. Real life if you're looking for something a bit more.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Fab if you want fuck and go. Real life if you're looking for something a bit more. "

Dont mention fab either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach them but don’t mention her ?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I start a new job in a month so figured it would only be awkward for a little bit if it went tits up!!"

Who doesn't like to know that they are fancied. As long as the approach is respectful you can't go wrong. You might Just make her day. Good luck and yes, Let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a wink, or Fab one of her pics. If it's not reciprocated, leave her alone would be advice.

Women are more than capable of letting you know they're interested in taking things to another level.

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