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By *irewater2018 OP   Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Brighton

Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?

Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.

I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....

If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?

Meg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd talk to them first the same as I would with anyone, to find out likes and dislikes.

I'd be more wary of offending them I suppose.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?

Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.

I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....

If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?

Meg"

Most likely pronouns!

Beyond that not much else beyond their active role.

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By *irewater2018 OP   Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'd talk to them first the same as I would with anyone, to find out likes and dislikes.

I'd be more wary of offending them I suppose."

Yes exactly, we're individuals with our own preferences just like anyone else. It's all about the vibe and the intention - wanting to get to know someone and being respectful is a huge turn on. If you're actively listening and they're a half-decent communicator, I don't see how you could offend them. Most will have experience explaining their gender hundreds times already

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By *irewater2018 OP   Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Brighton


"Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?

Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.

I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....

If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?

Meg

Most likely pronouns!

Beyond that not much else beyond their active role. "

Awesome great that you recognise pronouns can be a "thing". If someone asks me mine, it makes a great first impression .

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm Afab non binary/gender queer (high testosterone, polycystic ovary syndrome, camp and butch, performed as a drag queen for 15 years) but can't be arsed with banging on about pronouns. I was all these things before the terminology became popular.

I'll respect pronouns but feel shouty NBs devalue the struggle of trans people. Trans folk are the bravest and most incredible people I know. They get my respect first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd talk to them first the same as I would with anyone, to find out likes and dislikes.

I'd be more wary of offending them I suppose.

Yes exactly, we're individuals with our own preferences just like anyone else. It's all about the vibe and the intention - wanting to get to know someone and being respectful is a huge turn on. If you're actively listening and they're a half-decent communicator, I don't see how you could offend them. Most will have experience explaining their gender hundreds times already"

Some people get offended if you ask questions so that's why I'd be wary.

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