FabSwingers.com forum: Truth and being honest

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

If I’m honest I rarely meet as I have a very low esteem and opinion of myself.

Even though I’m a reasonably successful person, my inner self is not confident as much as I used to be, that maybe due to cancer I don’t know!!

If you were being honest about yourself what would you say?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That I should be more of the confident person others see and not the self doubting person I feel inside x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some wobbly bits and cellulite, but I like them, well a little bit

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"That I should be more of the confident person others see and not the self doubting person I feel inside x"

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I have some wobbly bits and cellulite, but I like them, well a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im honest im just too honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if im honest im just too honest"

Your lovely and funny too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’m honest I rarely meet as I have a very low esteem and opinion of myself.

Even though I’m a reasonably successful person, my inner self is not confident as much as I used to be, that maybe due to cancer I don’t know!!

If you were being honest about yourself what would you say?"

But you are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some wobbly bits and cellulite, but I like them, well a little bit

I LOVE every inch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I need to try and stop pleasing other people all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and for me, I can be a complete cock, and not in a good way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if im honest im just too honest"
i know the feeling cant keep my trap shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a complete dick at times myself and body image issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I should believe in being the sexy and confident person everyone else sees. Not the self critical person I feel x

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

My confidence was growing, I've lost alot of weight gone back to a line of work I love... Then made the mistake of trusting a bloke. Declares he loves me, then ghosted. So right now I'm a mess. Back to baggy black clothes and avoiding everyone in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very honest if asked. I'm quiet though, so don't often put forward my opinion without an invitation. Being honest is my default setting due to having aspergers and it doesn't always go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very honest if asked. I'm quiet though, so don't often put forward my opinion without an invitation. Being honest is my default setting due to having aspergers and it doesn't always go down well. "

So if I'm honest, it may take me quite a long time to feel comfortable enough with someone to meet, which could be perceived as me being uninterested. I'm going at my own pace though, and that suits me fine.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"if im honest im just too honest"

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"If I’m honest I rarely meet as I have a very low esteem and opinion of myself.

Even though I’m a reasonably successful person, my inner self is not confident as much as I used to be, that maybe due to cancer I don’t know!!

If you were being honest about yourself what would you say?

But you are lovely

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Man of my word and reliable. No Adonis but I have other talents.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"My confidence was growing, I've lost alot of weight gone back to a line of work I love... Then made the mistake of trusting a bloke. Declares he loves me, then ghosted. So right now I'm a mess. Back to baggy black clothes and avoiding everyone in the real world. "
mwete here for you

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"That I should be more of the confident person others see and not the self doubting person I feel inside x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use humour to deal with everything I come across. It's a defence mechanism though to cover my self doubt and feelings of inadequacy. If I were smarter I would stop comparing my life to the lives of those around me and just live the one I've got. My good points are that I'm kind and honest

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

'Honesty and truthfulness are not the same thing. Being honest means not telling lies. Being truthful means actively making known all the full truth of a matter. Lawyers must be honest, but they do not have to be truthful'... Yeah I work in a law firm! Lotsa people claim honesty. It is the truth we are after though.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

To believe I'm worth more than I give myself credit for, you can't please everyone no matter how hard you try and I need to put myself first every once in a while.

It's a work in progress sort of thing.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If I’m honest I rarely meet as I have a very low esteem and opinion of myself.

Even though I’m a reasonably successful person, my inner self is not confident as much as I used to be, that maybe due to cancer I don’t know!!

If you were being honest about yourself what would you say?"

Pretty much the same as you op , but my lack of confidence came after a heart attack . Now and again I forget about it and feel back to my old self , but these are just moments rather than hours . Maybe I’ll never feel the same again , I don’t know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we have this nagging doubt that people are just being kind and have pity for us, so meet or re meet us.

I would guess we are all human and our level of confidence goes up and down, the confident image people portray on here is, at times different to how they feel x

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"To believe I'm worth more than I give myself credit for, you can't please everyone no matter how hard you try and I need to put myself first every once in a while.

It's a work in progress sort of thing. "

Was as if I had written this myself x storm x

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Bad day yesterday felt I was getting the blame for someone else’s decision

I hate it when things go tits up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty awesome tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are more social anxieties rather than not body confident

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

That I should listen to some of my friends and do more for me.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I'm a lot more outgoing when I'm "Chloe" .

Just crave the attention x

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