FabSwingers.com forum: What to do????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meant to be going to a couples house party and the female of the couple cannot attend. Not sure how I (Mr) feel about it, we wouldn't attend a single guys house party but we have met this couple before, but feel that single guys change the feel to a party, there are other couples attending but no other single guys, are we wrong to give the party a miss this time?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi OP

If it doesn't feel right for you ,you are doing the right thing not going I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't met them before I would say that was quite "convenient" that the wife couldn't attend.

So if they are hosting the party and now the wife has other commitments they probably didn't want to let people down by cancelling.

If you don't feel like it will be right then don't go I don't really know what else I can suggest.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Hi OP

If it doesn't feel right for you ,you are doing the right thing not going I'd say

this

Only you can answer whether you're comfortable or not ... if you don't go and they get funny about you not going ... then that's their problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it doesn’t feel right then it’s probably not, go with your instinct x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If we hadn't met them before it would be a no brainer, but because we have it makes it difficult, we always trust our gut and it hasn't steered us wrong but our gut doesn't know wtf to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide what you're comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you already know what you're going to do x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Well you could go but feel under no obligation to play?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you could go but feel under no obligation to play? "

We never feel under any obligation

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Why miss the party? Just tell him that lone male isn't the dynamic you're there for.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would discuss how you feel with them, but if you are not comfortable then I would suggest waiting until the lady can attend. They should understand, obviously they have changed the dynamic of the party.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"If we hadn't met them before it would be a no brainer, but because we have it makes it difficult, we always trust our gut and it hasn't steered us wrong but our gut doesn't know wtf to do "

Your gut said in the first post 'are we wrong to give it a miss' that seems like your instincts are nudging you that way.

Whenever we have questioned our instincts it hasn't worked out.

Also if 'they' are arranging a party it seems strange one can T make it especially she it's the female. Age old trick that one...

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