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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever had that feeling that when you chat to people in the forums, they'd love to meet you but they're so far away but when you send a message to a person near, even if the message is well written and shows you've read their profile, they don't want to know?

Not that I'm complaining or anything. I hardly send a message to anyone near anyway which is why I stick together forums as I know many good people there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the life I lead.

It does seem that the less chance you have of meeting someone, the better the chance of getting to like them as a friend. The Irish Sea is a harsh mistress...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever had that feeling that when you chat to people in the forums, they'd love to meet you but they're so far away but when you send a message to a person near, even if the message is well written and shows you've read their profile, they don't want to know?

Not that I'm complaining or anything. I hardly send a message to anyone near anyway which is why I stick together forums as I know many good people there."

Imho like minded ppl end up in the same like minded places, hence you connect with fuckers in the forum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me "

I couldn’t agree more if it’s someone special, distance is not a problem

And who knows where it can lead

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off."

Perhaps not for a "real life" relationship, but there are practicalities and cost to consider.

I've exchanged a few messages with a couple in Scotland (I'm in southern England) and we've all made it clear that but for the distance we would willingly play. A 10 hour (or more) return journey is not practical though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me "

For a single looking for a relationship maybe. Or even a brave swinger perhaps. But people with kids and non drivers just wanting a me at less likely to I imagine. Seeing how fickle people are, I wouldn't travel far at my own cost and inconvenience to get stood up (again!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me

For a single looking for a relationship maybe. Or even a brave swinger perhaps. But people with kids and non drivers just wanting a me at less likely to I imagine. Seeing how fickle people are, I wouldn't travel far at my own cost and inconvenience to get stood up (again!)."

Me? Being stood up? Doubtful that would happen

I think the ones who do the standing up are likely to be fanasties. Shit to be on the receiving I can imagine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me

For a single looking for a relationship maybe. Or even a brave swinger perhaps. But people with kids and non drivers just wanting a me at less likely to I imagine. Seeing how fickle people are, I wouldn't travel far at my own cost and inconvenience to get stood up (again!).

Me? Being stood up? Doubtful that would happen

I think the ones who do the standing up are likely to be fanasties. Shit to be on the receiving I can imagine "

I was stood up once but that was before I joined Fab. It was awful and it was on Valentines Day as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on fab before I lived in the south west and ended up with someone a 3 hour drive from me.

Now I'm back home in Scotland there's at least 3 people I'd love to meet in the south west!

Sod's law is a bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were stood up a few weeks ago, by a vwrified member. Its a good job that we were in the other side of the country and booked a hotel for our primary reason, not to meet him specifically or I'd have been livid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got quite friendly with a lady who lived around London area , gorgeous looking girl and she likes the look of me , it’s around 200 miles from me , id like to make the journey if I get the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me "

How often would you jump on a flight or a ferry for some NSA sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do they live on the moon? If your really into one another it shouldn't deter you. Distance wouldn't put me off. Fucking half the forum users would more than likely kill it for me

How often would you jump on a flight or a ferry for some NSA sex?"

The answer is that I would, whether it was a once only weekend thing or not. How often would be between myself and them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was on fab before I lived in the south west and ended up with someone a 3 hour drive from me.

Now I'm back home in Scotland there's at least 3 people I'd love to meet in the south west!

Sod's law is a bastard. "

Hey, I’m in the South West!

Play it cool Trig, play it cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was on fab before I lived in the south west and ended up with someone a 3 hour drive from me.

Now I'm back home in Scotland there's at least 3 people I'd love to meet in the south west!

Sod's law is a bastard.

Hey, I’m in the South West!

Play it cool Trig, play it cool."

I’m very close to you

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"When I was on fab before I lived in the south west and ended up with someone a 3 hour drive from me.

Now I'm back home in Scotland there's at least 3 people I'd love to meet in the south west!

Sod's law is a bastard.

Hey, I’m in the South West!

Play it cool Trig, play it cool.

I’m very close to you "

Too bloody far from me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you connect with someone and you both want to meet, there’s always the halfway mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why i always travelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you connect with someone and you both want to meet, there’s always the halfway mark "

Which in our case would be Bardsey Island, off the coast of Wales

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Have you ever had that feeling that when you chat to people in the forums, they'd love to meet you but they're so far away but when you send a message to a person near, even if the message is well written and shows you've read their profile, they don't want to know?

Not that I'm complaining or anything. I hardly send a message to anyone near anyway which is why I stick together forums as I know many good people there."

Because if it doesn't go well you may end up seeing each other or at least may end up knowing other local people.

It just a shame most people us distance as a excuse not to meet.

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