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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong to be fussy??????

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Is it wrong to be fussy?????? "

No it feckin aint!!!!!

Its YOUR life - YOUR decision.

Be as fussy as you like - you are in pole position my lovely!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That god for that.

I seem to get men who cant understand why I can be so fussy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't just do it with anyone, there has to be some kind of spark, mentally AND physically!

So, no!

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

It's good to be fussy surely

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"That god for that.

I seem to get men who cant understand why I can be so fussy!!!"

They just trying their luck hun.

FFS - just cos you on here does NOT mean you are easy game.

If any give you hassle - send em over to me, lol

Not really - just block and delete em.

xxx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"It's good to be fussy surely"

oooooooooooooooooh yeah :D

MWAH

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is me as well, there has to be a spark, so do know what you mean.

Spark for me has to be mentally as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't just do it with anyone, there has to be some kind of spark, mentally AND physically!

So, no!

"

Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?

For me, definately not

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"That is me as well, there has to be a spark, so do know what you mean.

Spark for me has to be mentally as well."

and they are there hun - just need to filter thru the chancers.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?

For me, definately not "

Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?

For me, definately not

Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word! "

So that is why the ladies who need the spark have a problem, as men seem to tarnish us with the same brush, or so it seems at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there are women like that - I used to 'own' one a few years ago and that was one of her favourite fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not my cup of tea at all, but then when you think of the greedy girl nights that some ot the clubs arrange... but is a club different to meeting individually? so many things that can happen from being fussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction."

Not even in the MMF situation?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?

For me, definately not

Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word! "

but that is a fantasy - and if set in the correct conditions - then why not???

Its the turn on of the unknown in that type of circumstance, not just shagging anyone for the sake of shagging.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.

Not even in the MMF situation? "

Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to admit when i first joined this site i would av shagged a barbers floor, but im back to being my usual fussy self & theres nothing wrong with that.

Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought

we live & learn tho

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


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Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought

we live & learn tho "

What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????

I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!

Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.

I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.

Not even in the MMF situation?

Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later."

There's a name for that..... swinging I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought

we live & learn tho

What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????

I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!

Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.

I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!"

like i said im learning

i meant getting all attatched when you see them a few times, that im not down for, being friends that can have sex, talk about anything & no nippyness or jealousy works best for me, looks certainly arnt everything as theres lots of other attractive qualities in folks for me anyways

babbling here & forgetting what im on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh ye being fussy

yes its fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.

Not even in the MMF situation?

Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later.

There's a name for that..... swinging I think. "

You might call it swinging, I call it rank - you dont let just anyone have a grope.

Swinging is having sex with other people with your partner present or with consent, not seeing how many fires you can poke in an evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????

I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!

Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.

I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!"

I really miss the one that got away. He is drop dead gorgeous of a hunky rugby player, with a very good looking friend

Unfortunately, he was not ready for the notion of NSA fun, and decided not to meet up again, shame, as I really like him, and thought we had a bit of spark between us

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By *xstripteasexxCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

i find sum people will jst sleep with anyone game,jst coz u swing doesn't mean u easy.lol. looks and personality r both soo important !saying that id still fxxk 50cent if he had no personality.lol!xx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought

we live & learn tho

What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????

I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!

Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.

I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!

like i said im learning

i meant getting all attatched when you see them a few times, that im not down for, being friends that can have sex, talk about anything & no nippyness or jealousy works best for me, looks certainly arnt everything as theres lots of other attractive qualities in folks for me anyways

babbling here & forgetting what im on about "

aaaaaaaaaaaaaah- yes there are other "attrative" qualities - as yu say.

And whatever they are - it is personal to yu and still constitutes being fussy!!!

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fussy, as in exercising YOUR CHOICE.. never in a million years lower your standards..... they are yours ... no one elses..

have fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to be fussy?????? "

Not at all... No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not, you owe nobody a sympathy shag!

If someone is not what you like, then why settle for them? I certainly wouldn’t.

I ( them fem half) think that the only people who have a problem with fussyness are the people who don’t get any lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fussy is a good thing, your here for fun, so surely you have the right to be fussy and choose who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....

I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....

I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must."

The time to worry is when they come at you with a plastic bag !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....

I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must.

The time to worry is when they come at you with a plastic bag ! "

lol lol lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....

"

Be grateful he/she considered you as a one-bagger, and not a two-bagger, or worse still, a "I'd rather chew my arm-off" the morning after!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is me as well, there has to be a spark, so do know what you mean.

Spark for me has to be mentally as well.

and they are there hun - just need to filter thru the chancers.

xx"

Totally agree with this! Good advice

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